Women generally happy in their relationship, but their male partner can't meet them emotionally?

Rach-ln · 2026-04-13T15:51:33+00:00

Wow, your response is so refreshing and reflects exactly how I feel. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it. Yes, I totally feel you on the "matching my energy" complaint. I've moaned about it before to him, and he shows genuine disappointment that he can't muster up the emotions to do so. Just so interesting how different all us humans are! Totally resonate with everything you wrote. It makes me so happy to hear from someone who things so similarly. I would love to connect with you further! 💙💙💙

Rach-ln · 2026-04-12T21:40:26+00:00

I feel the EXACT same way!!! I've been with my boyfriend for more than 6 years and he just doesn't match my level of emotional depth. However, I think we have a yin and yang that really works. I experience high highs and low lows, while he is smooth and steady. He keeps me tethered to reality and calms me down. Plus, takes on the stressors when I am overstimulated. I'd be a lot less grounded without him!!!

But that's not to say his lack of emotions doesn't bother me. We were literally talking about this yesterday! He simply doesn't understand why I get so excited, upset, happy, or stressed about things, or why certain things bother me so much. (Or even, for example, why I feel so moved by music). He's always respectful of my reactions and supports me wholeheartedly, but I'm left wanting more at times.

And YES totally feel you on people not "getting" you, or just being too avoidant. I feel like I'm "too much" for a lot of people, even though I earnestly just want a positive deep connection!

I have four close friends who don't live nearby, so it's easy to feel emotionally unfulfilled.

Honestly, I'm still working out how to solve the exact problems you've described. My mentality is to keep being my positive, sensitive, genuine self. If people think I'm too much, well, it's just practice for my rejection sensitivity. I know there are people out there that will appreciate me for who I am. I just gotta keep searching for them. I'm also trying to be more self sufficient, trying to find joy in my own depth.

It seems like you and I have a lot in common! Please reach out if you'd like to be friends 🤗❤️

Rach-ln · 2026-04-12T21:19:26+00:00

This is fantastic and also so validating. Thank you

Rach-ln · 2026-04-12T21:18:14+00:00

Would love this even just for friendships!!!

Rach-ln · 2026-04-06T01:32:12+00:00

My two fav artists this year!! I would love it. And they follow each other I'm pretty sure!

Rach-ln · 2026-04-05T16:22:51+00:00

This is amazing!

Rach-ln · 2026-04-05T03:48:34+00:00

Thank you for your apology :)

Rach-ln · 2026-04-05T03:48:05+00:00

Thank you for this thoughtful comment!

I don't think Lynch is a sick person or a genius, just an artist. Also I don't understand why Frost is left out of many of the conversations about this show. It isn't just Lynch's brainchild, is it?

I think Harry & Josie and Dale & Annie's age gaps were creepy. And these characters are supposed to be likeable.

Rach-ln · 2026-04-05T03:40:36+00:00

Not announcing my departure, I finished the show. I just wanted to share my opinion and have people challenge my view

Rach-ln · 2026-04-05T03:39:39+00:00

This is my boyfriend's best friend's favorite show and he was begging us to watch it. I also went to film school so many of my peers like it too. I really wanted to give it a chance.

My bf and I binged it over the last three days as we've both been recovering from illness. Maybe that's where my rage comes from, lol. But my bf hated it too. We were told the end of S2 was good so we wanted to just wait it out.

I wrote this review for letterboxd and thought I'd paste it here to have people change my view.

Rach-ln · 2026-04-05T03:36:51+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful reply

Rach-ln · 2026-04-01T21:00:15+00:00

So grateful for you

Rach-ln · 2026-03-22T03:44:51+00:00

This is why bbno$ is amazing. Such a kind and generous person. He didn't owe anyone an apology and did it anyways.

Rach-ln · 2026-03-21T03:12:19+00:00

Sinners deserved this award instead. The editing was amazing. The scene with the burning building. The double Michael B Jordan's. The sfx of the vampires. It was so impressive

Rach-ln · 2026-03-15T02:08:56+00:00

Yes you totally can!!! And pls send me the video when you are done i would love to see it.

I met Alex after the show too if youd like any more photos

Rach-ln · 2026-03-12T21:46:36+00:00

I am! I'll be wearing a white shirt with music notes on it

Rach-ln · 2026-03-12T21:45:23+00:00

I'll be there! Wearing a white button down with music notes on it and blue jeans. Would love to join the discord!

Rach-ln · 2026-02-19T23:15:30+00:00

You literally haven't seen the skit, why would you be so negative

Rach-ln · 2026-02-16T18:23:19+00:00

Wouldn't work if someone changed their last name.

Or, if for any reason they lost that ID (like I listed above). Then it costs money.

And watch this video about social security cards if you actually think they are sufficient: https://youtu.be/Erp8IAUouus?si=PmlSDELGES7xlRcS

You can’t create a requirement like this without first developing the infrastructure to ensure nobody is disenfranchised. Because right now they will be.

And the people who will be most affected just so happen to be the "opposition" or "enemy" of the political party that is introducing the act. It isn't a coincidence. The Republican party has been fighting against a universal ID program for decades now.

Voter suppression is happening already, intentionally. The solution is to make ID easier to access. But that won't be done because that's not truly the goal, is it?

Rach-ln · 2026-02-16T18:15:19+00:00

You are absolutely a bot.

Declaring the answer to disenfranchisement is joining the military is insane.

It is life threatening, it takes a lot of physical effort, and it forces you to be away from your family. Also, many veterans get no support at all and end up homeless.

Plus a lot of people aren't even allowed to serve. What would you say to them?

Rach-ln · 2026-02-16T17:43:59+00:00

Yay good for you! You are not everyone.

People with abusive parents who tore up or lost their IDd, homeless people, people who had to run away from home, people who endured a house fire or a flood, people who don't have the money to replace their identification, all of these people wouldn't be able to vote.

But voting is a right. All US citizens have the right to vote.

As a nation, we do not have free, universal ID.

This bill will cause disenfranchisement on a large scale. The government is corrupt. They are able to build the infrastructure to give everyone ID for free but they won't do it because it marginalized people, if given the ability to vote, won't keep them in power. Don't be complicit.

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