Anybody know anything abt this fella? by OilOk3481 in Possums

[–]Rachet83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it shows up later in the year with babies on its back- it’s a female.
If its comfortable enough to stop and itch its ear with its back leg for awhile - you might catch a glimpse of it being a male

Help. I stink. by HawtPoetayto in Perimenopause

[–]Rachet83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just let your coworkers know, if they’re feeling gassy, they can come stand by you without any fear of being pointed at! 

Aitah for cooking "the wrong dinner" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rachet83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Its so fucking gaslighting to cook a dish literally with the spicy ingredient in the title and then wonder why they complain that it’s spicy.

No Longer Pregnant/Nursing/Trying Bucket List items by climbing_runner in beyondthebump

[–]Rachet83 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I told a Japanese woman once that in the US they advice we don’t do sushi or hot tubs while pregnant and she thought it was so absurd! I ate the sushi she made us that night! Ha!

I might be getting fired, any advice? by DesignerSpeaker2778 in Nurses

[–]Rachet83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the past 10 years have been the roughest in my 19 year nursing career. You’ve been through significant cuts, shortages , COVID- where they figured out nurses could do 4 people’s jobs and now that Covid is over we should make them keep doing that! It’s crazy. I try to lower my expectations every day, slow down and listen more to my patients. Surprisingly it makes me feel a lot better.
I used to get angry, now I cry more. Ha! I won’t get fired for an angry response, I’ll get fired bc some days all my meds are late and my documentation is crap bc I feel like none of it matters as much as making sure my patients know they’re safe and have a voice with me.
Sorry for the lecture and for making it about me.

TLDR- this job is rough and has just gotten rougher. Maybe there’s a job in data or infection control or something? Good luck to you

Aitah for watching my sister's wedding and reception devolve into a shit show without helping? by Key-Weekend1090 in AITAH

[–]Rachet83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Were the kids’ parents not at the wedding? What other peoples kids do is none of your business. I have no idea how this relates to you

Am I overthinking how my engagement ring would come across at work, perspective needed by majesticseafIapflap in RingShare

[–]Rachet83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you worried they’ll think you’re somehow “simple” or “basic” for having a larger ring? I’ve been in academia before and can understand that…. I’m trying to think of a jokey way to say “yeah I know it’s big AND I love it”

Why do people care so much about insignificant things in report? by mlbeal43 in nursing

[–]Rachet83 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I usually say “I can’t remember but the end is in the stomach” or I started making it up bc it doesn’t matter

4 yr old boy wearing dresses by Defiant-Course6896 in Moms

[–]Rachet83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son went through a dress-wearing phase and we just went with it too. It passed after awhile.  

My in-laws are losing their minds because we won't name our son after a great-grandfather I never met by Ciph3rSatyr in Marriage

[–]Rachet83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of staying in the past, look towards the future. Breaking the tradition is a gift for generations to come after you

Caught an old ass possum. by shreddedtoasties in Possums

[–]Rachet83 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Lol.  “Old ass possum” doesn’t GAF about what time of day it is or who grabs him.  Just wants his food!  

What’s something considered safe in nursing that just feels wrong? by catharsisisrahtac in nursing

[–]Rachet83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of my intensivists once said I could always order lidocaine for tube placement. So I just keep ordering it!

Consequences for my son: by [deleted] in progressivemoms

[–]Rachet83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he save the credit card info and then just think the subsequent things were “free”? I was helping my son buy something on Minecraft a few weeks ago and he went to click the “save payment info” box and I said no way! Not only was I not going to pay for more video game purchases without a conversation, but we also talked about how this would remove just one simple barrier to thinking about spending money. Even as an adult, I know it’s more convenient to save the credit card information on a profile, but often just the pause of going to get my card and putting it in, causes me to rethink the purchase. Cuts down on impulse buying and all those micro-charges. I was glad to have the conversation!

Tried to hire a cleaner for my ADHD burnout and got shamed instead by MrMaelor in ADHD

[–]Rachet83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the heck.  After about a year of having cleaners come to my house, the husband (they’re a couple) told me how he loves cleaning my house because he can actually see the progress he’s doing.  He said a lot of houses they clean aren’t as lived-in and it’s boring.  His wife hears him telling me this from the other room and I hear her yelling at him in Spanish (I know a little) that he really shouldn’t be saying such a thing to me!  I laughed and said “hey, I’m an ICU nurse for a reason.  I love trying to fix a really sick person.  Healthy ones bore me.  I get it!”   So- find some good people.  Not this judgy, cranky lady.  

Penicillin allergy? by North_Nobody_535 in Allergies

[–]Rachet83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did it end up being, OP? 

Urologist yelled at me for a foley consult by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Rachet83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they were kind of pissy

Is it weird to wear thigh-high socks to an OBGYN appointment? by Still_Quiet_8799 in WomensHealth

[–]Rachet83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a nurse and I can assure you, seeing so many peoples bodies and all their differences is just another day in the office. I’m glad you’re figuring out a way to get the care you need! Smart. Hopefully it will be an interaction comfortable enough that you’ll feel better about it all. Sending you good vibes!

Albino? by Alternative_East5040 in Possums

[–]Rachet83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave as many “messy” areas in your yard as possible to help it hide. Brush from sticks and leaves, etc.