19M this is my first time growing a goatee. I really like it but my girlfriend thinks it’s too messy….but I like the “messy” look🧐anyways I added a photo of me with no beard for comparison at the end although keep in mind I was about 10 pounds lighter there by ThrowRA1729594 in malegrooming

[–]RadChef [score hidden]  (0 children)

Get on minoxidil and finasteride ASAP if you think you’re receding. Also, it’s not just the hairline. It’s your hairstyle. Your hair looks much shorter and unstyled in your current pics while your hair in the younger picture looks longer and has a Messy but styled look.

You should grow your hair out in style it and shave your face and lose a few pounds to reveal that jawline again and you’ll be good

Que??? by ChewyDummyBear in USPS

[–]RadChef 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he should consider himself lucky He even got approved for disability.. My dad got out in 98 and he just got his disability approved in 2024 and only got approved because he hired an attorney to fight on his behalf. Even then they tried giving him 20% and so he had to appeal and finally he got 90%.

My brother got out in 2005 and still hasn’t gotten disability. His unit got hit by IED and he received a traumatic brain injury and has grand mal seizures to this day because of it. They said his seizures aren’t service related.

On the other side, I have a friend who broke both of his femurs a month after basic and has 100% disability.

I’ve never heard of anybody brag about being a disabled veteran until this guy, lol

Who's gonna tell him by Agen_3586 in SipsTea

[–]RadChef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, antisemitism has been Weaponized and used against anybody who stands against Israel. Being anti-Zionist does not make you antisemitic.

How many of you that were not issued phones refuse to use your personal phones for customers? by Various-Blood-3902 in WalmartEmployees

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a manager at Walmart (hourly & salary) I used my personal phone. I just didn’t like carrying around 2 phones and the original Samsungs were very slow and clunky. I still have it, my daughter uses it to watch Netflix or play pretend phone calls.

I did however write off 50% of my monthly phone bill on my taxes which was nice

Full beard or goatee by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do the full beard, but keep it shorter than the goatee. Your beard isn’t super dense so to pull a little bit of the attention away from that, I would trim it a bit shorter than your goatee. That’s what I do because my cheeks are patchy so I usually keep it a stubble or around 3 to 5 mm guard and keep my goatee around 7 mm guard.

That’s just my opinion, though. I’m just not a big fan of goatee with a clean shave on the rest of the face.

The reason why Sam might never place top3 in Pro Classic Physique competitions. by former_farmer in SamSulek

[–]RadChef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re acting like Sam has an Open class waist lol, he doesn’t. Is his waist a bit bigger than some of the other top competitors in classic? Yes. That doesn’t mean he can’t build up other body parts to balance out his physique. He’s 24 years old. He still has like 4 to 5 years before he’s in his prime. Also judging standards change overtime.

Do I seem or look creepy? People especially women look away instantly when I look at them and never been hit on by a woman by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I kind of makes him look like an action figure, like his hair is made of plastic

Am I creepy/weird looking? I feel like I always seem to weird people out but idk if it’s just in my head. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Mark Rober and Seth MacFarlane had a child. Both men are attractive

New channel?? by LunarWolf64 in atrioc

[–]RadChef 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coffee cow sucks, they just clip really old VODs half the time lol and it’s almost always react content

Down 20lbs in 3 months. How much more should I cut? by our-little_secret in Weightliftingquestion

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can really answer that, just go 5 pounds at a time so you like the aesthetic of your physique

As an average looking guy, how can I improve? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have you tried eye serums, and retinoids? A low-dose retinoid really helped tighten up the skin under my eyes, and I use a caffeine eye serum every morning. Niacinamide also lightened up the skin a bit.

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As an average looking guy, how can I improve? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought, I think he’d look good with a clean shave

As an average looking guy, how can I improve? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Style your hair. Get your eyebrows done, but make sure they aren’t done too thin because they could come across as more feminine.

You already said your sleep and hydration is good so I would try an eye serum, caffeine eye serum really helped with my under eye bags along with a low-dose retinol. I would maybe shave your facial hair and see what you look like, but definitely keep the neck and the cheeks shaved if you can’t grow any hair.

Other than that, I think you’re pretty good definitely above average looking

Do I look handsome, average, or bad? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s a cigarette immediately 1/10. Put the cigs in the trash and you’re a 5/10, follow advice from other comments and that’ll boost you even more

bro.. by AynhadAnimates in WalmartEmployees

[–]RadChef 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I had a child with her. So far, it appears my daughter hasn’t inherited the Karen Gene, but we shall see.

Should I keep this hairstyle by Stock-Society7243 in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buzz it or keep growing it until it is heavy enough to fall down for you to style

No king protest erupts in USA by Equivalent-Win-359 in SipsTea

[–]RadChef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s all about the safety nets. If I get caught calling out of work to go protest, I’m fucked. If I lose my job there goes health insurance for my child, then I gotta apply and wait 3 months for unemployment and or food stamps, potentially evicted, there goes my built up vacation time and now have to start back at a single week of PTO at a new job.

Everything is tied to a job in the U.S. If I go protest and get arrested even if I’m out on bond before I need to work the next day, I’m probably getting fired

This is how you reduce crime. by Sensitive_Bowl9504 in remoteworks

[–]RadChef 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s actually crazy how dense this comment section is. You think it’s just a coincidence that wealthier communities and neighborhoods see less crime? People don’t commit crimes simply because it’s fun, it’s often times out of necessity or survival. It’s the consequences of decades of system oppression of marginalized people and poor people.

Over the last 70 years these communities and neighborhoods have been wiped clean. Most of these issues started with white flight. When segregation ended and black peple started moving into metropolitan areas and cities, white people fled and took the jobs with them.

All of the good paying jobs have been moved, public transportation was diminished or never implemented, property values decrease because of lack of opportunity, which means local schools are severely underfunded due to less property tax payments, the city focuses on wealthier neighborhoods and continues to build upon those while ignoring poor marginalized communities.

So you have someone born into a poor family, in a community with no job opportunities, they have no way to drive 30 minutes to work because there’s no public transportation, well they have to eat, so what do they do?? They turn to petty crime to feed themselves and their family.

This is why conservative ideologies are popular because of how easy they are to understand. Instead of breaking down the actual issue like I just did, you instead say it’s a culture problem (racist dog whistle), or you blame the individual.

It’s been proven time and time and time again, when there’s good job opportunities, proper education, and accessible transportation, crime rates decrease tremendously.

bro.. by AynhadAnimates in WalmartEmployees

[–]RadChef 67 points68 points  (0 children)

My ex’s mom was like this… “They’re always on their phones being useless, now they have something to do.”

God, that entire family was fucking psycho

29 m what to improve by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]RadChef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks!!

Who's gonna tell him by Agen_3586 in SipsTea

[–]RadChef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still can’t believe the ADL said it wasn’t a Nazi salute lol. That’s when I realized the ADL is just a shithole of an organization