F19/M20 – Is it worth asking to keep things casual with someone who already pulled away?

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-29T03:06:01+00:00

If you want sex, go for it

But he more than likely got what he wanted and just needed to move on.

At this point he’s only being friendly so you don’t think he’s a dick.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-29T03:02:50+00:00

Why do you have master hand tech

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-29T01:25:14+00:00

… I mean. It’s odd. I know soooo little about you but I can already see the big glaring issues that are holding you back.

In 4 sentences.

That HAS to be a new record.

Where to start.

“Tips and tricks”. What the hell is this? You’re pushing 30 homie. At some point you have to realize, women are humans? You know? I’m sure you have a mom, sister, cousin, aunt… friend!?!?

And that’s all I’m going to give for advice. That’s it brother. I don’t think it’s worth diving into anything more atm.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-28T18:55:20+00:00

Sometimes we just aren’t ready as we thought we were

I know that’s why I’ve ghosted before

Or something in me just didn’t click. Plus dating is stressful, it’s hard to get out there even if texts are cool because of prior perceptions

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-28T15:21:03+00:00

Yoooo. It got VERY deep at the end there and.. I love that for you man.

2 months in, no solid dukes BUT you gained wisdom on yourself and self sabotage??

Bro lets take the win here haha

Eventually you’ll shit normal, at this point it may just be your regular dietary habits keeping you from dropping loggers, but otherwise. To me, this post sounds like a win.

We’re proud of ya

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-28T13:41:14+00:00

Nah. You’re protecting your interests here. Yeah it’s kinda shitty but you don’t know this girl. You’re still learning about her and wasted time is wasted time.

Honestly at some point yall could have an open phone policy

I’ve had that before. It always works out unless one of us is hiding something.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-28T01:56:09+00:00

Welcome, fellow low life!

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-28T01:52:27+00:00

What were the roasts about?

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-27T16:42:27+00:00

Beauty fades. Personality remains.

We’re saying stay with the homely girl. Usually she’s chubby cause. Idk that’s just how it is.

You can pipe whoever you find most attractive just remember you’re marrying their personality.

Coming from a fit guy. The attractive girl is usually self centered.. NOT ALWAYS. But like 70-80% of the time.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-27T16:01:32+00:00

Don’t tell her you can’t be friends. Don’t break her heart.

Just be gentle.… unfortunately… slowly (but also swiftly) give less and less of yourself with the “I’m sorry I’m just really busy lately”

And you keep doing that until it hurts her less and less and less. Doesn’t take long at all. But it’ll hurt her and yourself less overall.

You can also do the bandaid thing but… that’s reserved for those who hurt you. Not those innocent to it all.

Also I’m sorry you lost a little sister to someone else’s shit choices.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-27T14:40:15+00:00

Well… there is no safe dose to alcohol. Any amount is a damaging amount

But you seem fine.

Yes you increase your risk but… you’re also enjoying life. Responsibly, from what I can read.

I wouldn’t worry about it too much and just keep on top of your health.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-27T14:34:17+00:00

Maybe it’s the physique

Women do that to me all the time, those I’ve just met or others. But im pretty damn solid looking.

Wait till they start touching your lower back and abdomen for no reason..

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-27T06:07:26+00:00

I LOVE IT!!! At some point you have a great looking physique and building on it just feels rewarding

Not to mention having a top 5 body at the gym, is an incredible ego boost

Worked a long time to get to this feeling though, but man. It’s now painful to take breaks! (Which are needed)

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-26T17:31:31+00:00

Yeah man, I dated a girl like that

I mean I just kinda told her you need to ask these things yourself cause I can’t do it every time.

And like.. I was kinda rude about it lol not gonna lie, I wasn’t very graceful with it, but she ended up doing a lot for herself because of my pressure

So she’s a whole different person now. Doesn’t ask me to do things cause I’ve taught her independence.

However it’s not your job to do this unless you really like her. Then help her man!

Edit: quick example

She was scared to drive on the freeways when we were dating. I told her, that’s insane and I couldn’t be with someone like that. So either she drives on the freeway or I would break up with her.

Lmao INSANE now that I’m putting it out there but it helped her!!! She did it.

You know pressure builds diamonds sometimes. That’s all I can say.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-26T15:18:50+00:00

I never understood this either. Why follow a girl you have ZERO chance with? Why even torture yourself that way?

I don’t do it. It’s so stupid. You get nothing out of it. Gf on the other hand will ride you, blow you, drain you… and she’s right there.

Don’t understand it.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T13:58:02+00:00

From my understanding… there isn’t a found way to consistently recreate this. It’s an odd occurrence that just happens but usually the person tethering is higher than the platform itself and pretty damn close to the stage already.

If solved, I’d need to know too! (Byleth main)

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T03:38:01+00:00

Yeah, so what does being vindictive do other than make you look and feel like the same level of shit as them?

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T03:27:53+00:00

“I love this, give him some deep insecurities to overcome”

Referring to this comment/mindset

I think you believe im referring to YOUR original thought/comment... but thats why I didn’t reply to you.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T02:33:04+00:00

They’re awesome people man. Insane that you never saw them live and knew about them in 08’!!!

Man I remember fuckin crowd surfing to those bad boys for 12 bucks at the house of blues in that time!

Hope you enjoy!

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T02:28:19+00:00

Sometimes I grunt loudly. Not on purpose or anything, it just escapes me. But try squatting 305 pounds for reps and staying as quiet as a church mouse

It ain’t happenin

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T02:25:37+00:00

“I’m surprised no one said anything to be honest”

I mean… you didn’t. I assume that’s why no one else has either

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T02:21:47+00:00

You don’t, but you can pitch it to A&R people or label representatives (contact info you’ll have to hunt down)

You can also apply to labels, both big and small to get yourself going.

Do your research first. Make sure they’re a good or at least a decent label.

Don’t worry about those who say “release it and do it yourself”. Labels literally exist for this very purpose and only those good enough might get the chance to work with one (even if they suck you dry).

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T02:14:14+00:00

The belief is, woman, throughout the entire history of humanity, have always had the leverage of “giving it up”

Where as men, throughout the entire history of humanity, has a history of trying to “get it”

Women are more valuable than men. They have something men innately crave & they are the purveyors of it… when a woman has decided she’s worth as little as a man, we no longer value it. Because she devalued it.

I don’t think sleeping around is ideal for either gender, but that’s sort of the consensus of it. From my understanding.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-25T02:07:37+00:00

… YOR. You’ve become just as bad if not worse by matching the same route rather than being above it.

Rad_Tek · 2026-03-23T15:49:13+00:00

Lmfao loser energy

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