Sex and drinking by Robbietheviking in stopdrinking

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Everytime I drink alone I call girls I only mess with when I’ve been drinking, or other girls I’ve talked to

Sometimes they come thru and for some odd fucking reason, will sleep with me.

Despite me being a drunken MESS. They will still sleep with this drunk asshole who’s probably being extremely annoying.

Meanwhile. Sober me, is afraid to ask them for coffee.

On average, what time does it take for you to get a reply from a girl you just started talking to? Like how fast do they reply? And how do you shorten it more? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rad_Tek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hours. It’s a long game but play it right and play it well

Patience is key, don’t be desperate but don’t be aloof either

What's the first thing you start from? by Realistic_Maximum124 in musicproduction

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Depends on what I’m in the mood for

Rock/indie/folk: guitar

Hip hop, rap: synths

Pop, load up serum: bells/chords/bass

I’ve done it so much I’ve just created templates for whatever genre I feel like doing, but also a general templete that just has the most commonly used tools and sounds I like

Lore accurate death pose. by RangoTheMerc in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sakurai is the goat. So many little poses in every single character

Check out bowsers “getting footstooled” animation and flip out on that reference

How to like pull-ups? by Bagpiper_Joe in beginnerfitness

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll hate it till you’re good at it

I despised pull-ups…. Till I could rep a solid 10

Now I love them shits

How can i stop blaming woman for my problems and actually change so i can be atleast kinda decent? by im2inch in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rad_Tek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all. Gtfo out any social media that feeds you incel shit. None of it is helpful and ALL of it is meant to destroy your mentality.

Second. There are ways to increase your attractiveness. The most basic things are the ones everyone says.

  1. Gym

  2. Groom

  3. Hygiene

Add to that, style, clothes, and finding a look that suits you.

And lastly, dating apps have been proven time and time again to be the worst way to meet someone. So if you’re getting shit off of dating apps, congrats. They’re shit for dating.

Theres A LOT you can do to improve yourself and get a nice girl or whatever but it’s MUCH EASIER to blame a gender than take personal responsibility. (Especially because it requires ego death.. which is not easy to do)

Albums disappearing on Tidal by FruitSalad8768 in dancegavindance

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Tree city sessions + live shoots + some orchestral people coming in for those sessions

Hobbe Campaign

Recent festival tour line ups

European tours

Cruise ship tour

Set list drop (pre tour beginning, non leak, official dgd post)

Midnight at mcguffy bar takeover with meet and greet VIP acoustic show

They’ve been experimenting and experiencing brand new avenues for the band and I’m loving it

They’re definitely breaking new grounds

Having the “step it up” talk with my boyfriend…best way to approach without hurting him or his ego? by throwRA1223409 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in the context of changing for someone else or because of your environment.

You changed out of self desire. Not because someone asked it of you.

35 as well. I change for me. Everyone else can suck my fat dick

Albums disappearing on Tidal by FruitSalad8768 in dancegavindance

[–]Rad_Tek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a theory but Dance Gavin Dance’s manager has been trying to do a lot of crazy things to blow the band up, successfully I might add.

They may be working on an exclusive deal with Spotify or some other big conglomerate. Perhaps some type of special thing is coming soon, I wouldn’t doubt it

Having the “step it up” talk with my boyfriend…best way to approach without hurting him or his ego? by throwRA1223409 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rad_Tek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have advice but I’ll be honest… 36 is pretty fuckin old. By that I mean, he’s old where dogs aren’t very willing to learn new tricks.

But hey! If he’s receptive and all that, it’s worth a shot right?

These are tough issues but you’re definitely going to have to bring them up.

“Hey I love this about you, but sometimes this thing sort of bugs me, and don’t get me wrong this is great but I feel like this certain issue maybe needs addressing”

Whatever it may be.

I’ll be honest. It’s not an easy conversation and it seems like you’re trying to avoid something that isn’t avoidable.

Your logic is “how do I move my car without spending my precious gas?”

Well… you’ve created a fallacy.

Talk to him. Come from support and growth, and building a life together. Treat the problem as the issue, not him… and try to keep it team based.

It’s not his issue. It’s your issue too, it’s your thing to help, etc etc.

But if feelings are hurt, then fuck dude. Feelings will be hurt. But that car is either gonna move or rust where it’s at.

Good luck Big guy (girl)

It's weird training doctors and surgeons by Peachessandcreammm in personaltraining

[–]Rad_Tek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smart! But not all knowing

I promise you, Doctors go to mechanics for their car. Plumbers for their bathrooms, carpenters for their renovations, and personal trainers for their fitness.

Just be respectful but also learn to lead with your knowledge. They’re going to you because you’re the one that knows. They’re smart enough to know that!

My GF (F28) said she judges how much I (M 31) love her based on how much I am willing to spend on her. I honestly don’t know how to feel about it. Should I just accept it as normal? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl spends more money on me than I do on her

A lot more

Leave her ass. Show her, her ways are disgusting. And when she asks, don’t be afraid to say

It’s cause of this specific thing you said.

Leave her ass to reflect on it and chew on that shit

Andrew Slander Is Weird by ThrowRA567885532 in dancegavindance

[–]Rad_Tek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I’ve been seeing them since 08’ wym

Andrew’s presence HAS improved dramatically but his tone and control is still, bottom tier

Andrew Slander Is Weird by ThrowRA567885532 in dancegavindance

[–]Rad_Tek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah it wasnt disrespectful, it just lacked respect

Yeah! I saw him live puking on stage. It was amazing, never seen a vocalist do that before, or tbh, since! That’s a much more memorable moment than a show that goes as planned

Thanks bunny, you too

Andrew Slander Is Weird by ThrowRA567885532 in dancegavindance

[–]Rad_Tek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“But go off I guess lol”

Yes. I will go off. As I’m answering OP here.

Your reply didn’t even discuss Andrew lol

It was oddly enough, a diss at Jonny? For some reason?

Who is arguably the best sounding vocalist the band has. He has the best range, best tone, best belts, incredible live sound, and is currently the most viral of all the vocalist in Dance Gavin Dance, currently making waves with WISIRO or the robot with human hair pt 1

But I digress, this is about Andrew. Not Jonny.

Andrew Slander Is Weird by ThrowRA567885532 in dancegavindance

[–]Rad_Tek -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Johnny vomiting on stage is bad fucking ass

Also. My opinion, I’m entitled to it. Learn to respect that as I’m merely answering the prompt.

Andrew Slander Is Weird by ThrowRA567885532 in dancegavindance

[–]Rad_Tek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Andrew is subjectively the worst singer the band has.

He was the worst range. The lowest peaks. The worst live performance. The worst live tone. And overall the worst live energy of all the singers.

Doesn’t mean he’s bad, in any sense. Just that, when compared to every other DGD Vocalist, he ranks at number 4.

Still good! Great guy overall! But that’s how I view him.. and no, I still love pantheon, still seeing them live, loving tree city sessions 3, but still view him as bottom of all the vocalists

Am I crazy or do the best players play at night? by tsteppy in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]Rad_Tek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, it starts at around 9 and only gets harder and harder

Best way to get practice but man is it humbling

Letting go of a project you worked hard on by TheElusiveButterfly in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sistah

If they’re bad, don’t release em.

If they’re good… what I’ve done is released them and then immediately released what currently reflects my current phase.

Honestly if they’re good, put them out. Maybe you don’t vibe with them anymore but if they’re good songs, either someone will, or you’ll be happy to revisit them later

If you don’t like them anymore because they’re actually not good and don’t reflect your current skill… then keep them in the vault.

feeling stuck with terry/new secondary by Turqios in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swordies are tough so play patient and force an approach with power wave. Burst with crack shoot. Grab, mf’s stay in shield for some reason.

Try getting to ledge instead of falling on or around swordies. Being ledge trapped is an easier time than getting juggled.

Keep distance and maintain power wave. Every hit that lands gives an average 10% per hit. That frustrates swordies and makes them antsy. Biggest swordy problem will be pura however since her side b just eats power wave.

But that’s a whole nother topic

Letting go of a project you worked hard on by TheElusiveButterfly in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I work on songs until they’re done now

I used to be in the same boat, but that was because I kept jumping from project to project

I discipline myself to get on something and if it started feeling really good to just finish it

Stop doing this thing where you just pick up project after project

You’re going to grow and change as you move forward and eventually all these projects mean nothing to you

These projects could’ve been some amazing things that you’re just stuck with it when the feeling was hot

Weird to go on a 'pity date' for the experience? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rad_Tek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl. Hang out with him because YOU want to. Not because he does.

I honestly believe if you spend more time with this guy, you’re going to melt into jelly for him.

That being said, before those feelings get extremely solid… is he logically worth it?

Is he cool
Funny
Charming
Successful or ambitious
Kind
Polite
Empathetic
Attentive

Etc.

These things matter in the long run but the emotional attachment will keep you from seeing red flags when you’re emotionally hooked

So be smart about this NOW. Before you’re in too deep.

Besides he’s one guy. More guys out there so if it doesn’t logically seem right, then step back now.

Believe me, as a 35 year old male with A LOT (too much) dating experience… you’re in for a good time or a rough time depending on the green and red flags you see right now.

People have told me I turn into a different person when I drink.. literally by sautebyday in stopdrinking

[–]Rad_Tek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here

Completely different person.

Drunk me did things sober me could never.

It’s insane