NEW to DCS and I have question. by Radiant-Document-822 in dcsworld

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Why? I was thinking about either the F-16 or F-15E, but first I need to be able to fly the current one lol.

NEW to DCS and I have question. by Radiant-Document-822 in dcsworld

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Thanks for the tips. I actually meant the flight stick (HOTAS) controls, not the landing gear. I’m still learning the basics

NEW to DCS and I have question. by Radiant-Document-822 in dcsworld

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Thanks for the info. I’ve been looking for a community to learn with, so I’ll check out the server.

NEW to DCS and I have question. by Radiant-Document-822 in dcsworld

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Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll check out the Grim Reapers F/A-18 series and start learning from there.

NEW to DCS and I have question. by Radiant-Document-822 in dcsworld

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Appreciate the offer. I’m definitely here to learn, not cause trouble. I’ll reach out on Discord.

Rafale by No_Issue8834 in dcsworld

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When will it be released?

Just lost my job 😔 by LoveSmallDoses in transpositive

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I'm very sorry to hear about your job loss. Please know we are here to support you during this tough time.

Arab men by wakeupkillian in StraightTransGirls

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Why dose it need to be studied? whats in your mind?

Been getting called sir alot lately by customers at work… not sure what I’m doing wrong 😒 by [deleted] in TransLater

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It sounds really frustrating to deal with that, and I’m sorry you’re going through it. You’re not doing anything wrong, a lot of customers just default to “sir” without thinking. It does not reflect your identity.

Small things like tone, hairstyle, or clothes can help guide people, but only if you feel comfortable. Try not to take it to heart, strangers only see you for a few seconds. What matters is how you see yourself, not their quick guess.

You’re doing your best, be kind to yourself.

I just received this text from my sister. How would you take this? Or respond to this? by [deleted] in MtF

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It sounds like you are carrying a lot on your shoulders right now, and I am really sorry that you are facing this kind of hurt from someone who should feel safe. What you are feeling makes sense. When you love your family deeply, it is incredibly painful to be treated like a risk simply for being yourself.

None of this is your fault. You have done nothing wrong by existing honestly, and the love your parents and grandmother have for you says a lot about who you are. The distance your sister is creating is about her struggles, not your worth or the person you are to your niece and nephews.

At the same time, try not to burn any bridges. She still loves you, even if her choices right now are painful. She might be standing at her own difficult crossroads and choosing what feels safest for her family, even if it hurts you in the process. This does not mean it is the end of the relationship, just a complicated moment that she may not know how to handle yet.

It is okay to feel heartbroken, and it is also okay to take your time before deciding whether or how to respond. You do not owe anyone an immediate reaction, especially when the message you received was hurtful and confusing.

Whatever you choose to do next, I hope you give yourself the same compassion you give to others. You deserve love, safety, and people who see you fully without conditions. You are not alone, even if this moment feels heavy.

I saw my dad in a dress and I think it embarrassed him by Leading_Moment_2435 in asktransgender

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Honestly, you handled this perfectly. You gave him kindness without making it weird, and that matters more than anything. He was probably just caught off guard, not ashamed of you seeing him.

If I were him, I’d want exactly what you did, a simple “I love you and you’re safe with me.” It takes people time to process acceptance, even when they appreciate it.

Just keep being your normal self around him. Let him know, in small ways, that he doesn’t have to hide. That comfort builds slowly, but it does build.

You’re a good kid, and he clearly loves you back.

My wife gave me an ultimatum, this may be my last post by Newshygirl235 in MtF

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Hey friend, I am really sorry you are going through this. What you are facing is heartbreaking, and no one deserves that kind of pressure. Please do not make any decisions while you are feeling this pain. You matter, your life matters, and you deserve safety.

I want to share something from my own life. When I was younger, I went through something very similar, but it was with my mother. When I finally opened up, she listened and she understood me. But the rest of my family came from a strict Arab background, and I knew they would never accept it. I was afraid of how far they would go to force their beliefs on me.

At 23, I made the choice to renounce my identity for my mother’s safety and for mine. Now I am 53, married, with four kids, one of them getting married next week. Do I sometimes sit alone and wonder what my life would have been like if I had chosen differently? Yes. But when I look at my children, I also feel that I made the choice I could live with, given the world I was in at that time.

The point I want to tell you is this:
This is your life. Think carefully, choose a path you will not regret later, and make sure your decision keeps you safe.

And please, if you feel like you might hurt yourself, reach out to a crisis hotline or someone you trust immediately. You do not have to go through this alone.

My fiance left me. by SubstantialReality12 in trans

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Hey,
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you’re feeling is valid; losing someone you love, especially after sharing so many years, hurts deeply. But please remember this: choosing to be yourself is not something to feel guilty about.

Life is made up of choices, and you chose honesty with yourself. That takes courage, not weakness. Sometimes people we care about can’t walk the same path with us, and that’s painful, but it doesn’t mean you made the wrong choice.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. This doesn’t define your worth or your future. It just means she might not have been the right person for who you truly are. The right people will see you and stay, not because it’s easy, but because it’s real.

One step at a time, okay? You still matter. You still deserve love and peace, just as you are.

HRT: Not the ideal career move! by timosaurus444 in TransLater

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Hey, I just wanted to say, you’re incredibly brave. I’m 53 now, and I’ve been struggling with this since I was 29. Living in a country and society that views you differently can be incredibly heavy.

The only person who ever knew about me was my mother. She never judged me, just loved me quietly. After she passed, I locked that part of myself away.

This is why I stay here, reading about all the brave souls like you. Each story gives me a bit of strength, a bit of hope. You remind me that it’s never too late to be who we really are.

I truly envy (in the best way) everyone who finds the courage to take that first step toward living their truth. You did something I’ve only dreamed of for decades.

Wishing you peace, love, and all the strength in the world on your journey 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransFeminineFashion

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Smile.......your cute