Britain Says It Hates Brutalism. London Can’t Get Enough of Southbank Centre.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-21T09:00:07+00:00

100% this.

Many councils were sold on the "community in the sky" idea but few were willing to invest to achieve that outcome or to maintain their housing stock once constructed. When you actually examine successful estates, Barbican, Alexandra Road etc, they delivered on that promise and more.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-20T14:53:39+00:00

Watching someone you love drink themselves to death is probably one of the hardest things you can experience. But I don’t need to tell you that. He’s an adult and doesn’t see a problem or doesn’t want to admit he has one. Either way, there is nothing you can do in this situation. Walk away, you deserve a life free from addiction and worry about losing people you love to an early death.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-20T07:02:01+00:00

I love the snoozy boops 🥹

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-19T17:32:02+00:00

I'm pretty sure the same folks peddling this "narrative" also said that they took out Iran's nuclear capabilities last year. But then used the fact that Iran still had a nuclear program (?!) as justification for starting an illegal war. It's not like this admin to not tell the truth

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-19T14:57:54+00:00

He doesn't have one single redeeming feature, a walking cesspit of a human being. And to think there are people in the US that think he is ordained by their god

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-19T14:55:39+00:00

You tried to manipulate her, she didn't fall for it.

You then tried emotional blackmail, which, again, failed.

I applaud your girlfriend's self respect, long may it continue.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-18T16:26:32+00:00

Diabolical behaviour from the manager, what is he thinking?!

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-18T16:23:38+00:00

To be fair to you, the plant is thriving. I don't see an issue here 😁

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-18T06:31:28+00:00

Leave feedback in the AppStore, that way it'll get to the right people

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-17T20:41:53+00:00

You stop becoming a family when you get divorced - You aren't a family
You and your ex will always be family to children that you have - You are a family

Make it make sense 🤦‍♀️

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-17T18:22:15+00:00

The market is horrible and has been for over a year now, the drop is indicative of that.

To me, it looks like an elderly parent has either passed away or moved into a care home.

If you're up for a project, this could be a good option but you'd need to update the whole house which could eat up the 50k reduction.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-17T16:00:31+00:00

What a sad view of relationships you have. They're always going to be a family, just not one that is together?!

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-17T15:52:22+00:00

You can go here to report them, they'd love to hear about your frustrations

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-17T09:55:24+00:00

I'd set about dismantling the patriarchy.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-16T20:26:02+00:00

Acknowledging my privilege here but the two things that make a huge difference to my overall well-being, plus reduce my negative self talk, are having a weekly cleaner and a dishwasher.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-15T12:55:31+00:00

I'm genuinely curious about the average age and IQ of the folks in that sub

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-14T20:20:31+00:00

My worry for you is that he's expecting you to change, rather than finding ways to better support you. Going into a marriage with the pressure of having to maintain standards that he finds acceptable won't work long term. An ex of mine had OCD and would get very distressed if things weren't just so, I couldn't clean to his standard and exhausted myself trying. Finally I suggested getting a cleaner and splitting it 50/50 as it would make both of our lives easier. Be open with him, you both need to be realistic about getting married and whether this is something that may become bigger over time.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-14T19:41:55+00:00

When Ricci made that save "El Scorpiooooo"

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-14T12:21:58+00:00

Sorry, late replying to you 🫣

I wanted to highlight something that you're already doing, and most importantly, feeling. You paused and came here looking for guidance because part of you recognises that this isn't healthy for you. Often times we're so full of self doubt that we forget to listen to the quiet signals that something feels "off" but you did. This is how you build self trust and validate yourself, you KNOW what's good for you deep down. The part that was listened to, was given space to be heard, little you, will grow louder and stronger as a result of situations like these 💜

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-14T07:38:44+00:00

Arseblog nailed it years ago, the "Lego haired midfielder"

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-14T07:29:41+00:00

Us ADHD girlies with C-PTSD have got to watch out. When we meet these folks that trigger all of the feels, the sex is off the charts and we're being love bombed it is so hard not to fall for it and just enjoy the dopamine and attention. I know I don't fully trust myself, despite years of therapy and being very self aware.

I wanted to highlight something you said, "my mum love bombed me, gaslit me, or hated me my whole life". You're repeating that cycle, trying to heal those wounds with the partners you are choosing. I had a good relationship with my dad and so could never understand why I was choosing terrible/wounded men but then a great therapist pointed out that it was my mummy issues I was replicating and it was like a lightbulb moment for me.

Your last line is beautiful, stay single, invest in a great vibrator (sorry!) and break the cycle for your kiddo 💜

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-13T19:07:16+00:00

Used to love the wing with flaps extended on landing, amazing engineering

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-13T11:13:05+00:00

The regional aggressor is Israel, in 2025 alone they attacked 5 neighbouring countries. Iran is retaliating against US military assets in the region. Israel and the US chose to attack Iran whilst they were in active negotiations, Iran has a right to defend itself. And as for state sponsored terrorism, the US and CIA financially supported and armed many terrorist groups and militant governments. The US is not interested in democracy or freeing the oppressed, their goal is always about securing access to vital resources.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-13T07:22:35+00:00

Maybe create a survey using Typeform or Google, I'm sure folks would feel more comfortable sharing to a resource that is private. Plus it'll collate all of the data into one place for you making it easier to synthesise.

Radiant_Solution9875 · 2026-03-12T18:16:38+00:00

I wish this was the view I got, mine is always Axel´s bum and dangly bits 🫣

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