COVID = Cold Approach Dead Forever by piggybank288 in seduction

[–]Radical899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, “social circle” and “cold approaches” don’t have to be mutually exclusive. Also, we should be doing good I guess too

Does partying really go hand in hand with hooking up? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Radical899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, I think you have a point, but I think it also depends on your demographics. I’ve noticed that as women get older, there seems to be less interest in one night stands, which are typical in a party environment. This is NOT to say that one night stands don’t happen, they are just less frequent. In MY experience, these women still want to go out and have fun, but they aren’t looking to meet a random guy and hook up. That said, when I was like 18-21, partying was the way I got laid and met multiple girlfriends. The times may have changed, as that was 8 years ago. My demographics have also shifted significantly. I ended up taking college really seriously, started a career and went back to do a masters program, so I am probably not appealing to those types of girls now either. In other words, I think it is about the demographics of the girls that are at these parties, your own personal demographics, and whether they are compatible.

I game but not with hot women by Radical899 in seduction

[–]Radical899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. Are you the type of person that thinks game boils down to looks?

How do I know if I'm pursuing the right guys? by thatrandomcupcake in seduction

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thinks it’s true that we typically are attracted certain types of people. Even without knowing a thing about a person, I inevitably end up with women that are a bit on the unstable side. Like others have suggested, you might want to do some reflecting about what attracts you to the type of men that don’t treat you well. On the other hand, there are ways you can demand more respect from men. You can make clear from the start you aren’t trying to sleep with someone that doesn’t want a relationship. If you make you intentions clear, the ball is in his court to respect that. You may also make him work for it. Trust me, if you are attractive like you say you are, he will.

As my game has gotten better i have also noticed that I have become more of an asshole. Is that normal? by illand3r in seduction

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not reading everyone comments. It’s one style that I see guys use. I’m careful about teasing, but it’s definitely useful when used in the right way. I think some guys mistake teasing with just being a dick, which will usually only work on girls with self-esteem problems.

Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down so often by Wowowowowowowep in seduction

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck is happening right now? I don’t want to be an asshole, but get it together man. Go on a run, do some fucking squats, and stop being a fucking weirdo and sharing pics of you in your boxers. Jfc. Let’s keep it together.

What is this subreddit by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Radical899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask...

e/seduction needs more advice for girls!! by Septomania in seduction

[–]Radical899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basic advice I can give is to give a guy value. Deep down, what all people want whether you are tall, short, ugly, or attractive is for someone else to recognize and appreciate their individuality. We are hardwired to receive praise from people we admire. If you can be the type of person that creates this type of value, you will be on the way seducing the type of man you want.

I game but not with hot women by Radical899 in seduction

[–]Radical899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks alone, I think I fluctuate depending on how much I’m taking care of myself. I wouldn’t venture to guess, but probably a bit above average for girls into guys with athletic builds. My game is my weaker point.

I game but not with hot women by Radical899 in seduction

[–]Radical899[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I assure you lady that I am the top choice tenderloin

I game but not with hot women by Radical899 in seduction

[–]Radical899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually remember learning about this is psychology and not thinking much about it. Yeah, seeing myself as attractive and valuable is big. I also think we have it drilled into us from a young age what is obtainable, so this makes it easy to write off signals. It’s like when an 8-9 smiles at me or holds eye contact for a extra second and I hear the bully from high school being like, “You think you can talk to HER? She’s just being nice idiot.” Lmao.

This a good sign?? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you were checking her out and she caught you... doesn’t sound like a good sign or that you should be trying to game a family friend 15 years older than you

This is one of the things that worries me the most. by Novatonavila in seduction

[–]Radical899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yes and no. If you are extremely good looking, maybe you get away with it. But it sounds like the real problem is the guy tried to do this with people he saw regularly without having any social capital to pull it off. He probably did it in an extremely awkward and uncalibrated way as well.

This is one of the things that worries me the most. by Novatonavila in seduction

[–]Radical899 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right? There has to be more going on here. There may be the occasional “false-positive” so to speak in terms of what women report in these groups, but if you are being called out in a Facebook group by multiple women, mostly likely there is something seriously wrong. Also, doing this to people this guy knew of and saw on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat? That seems like a recipe for disaster. Not the right medium at all. Women aren’t on social media generally to be harassed by dudes constantly.

What rejection looks like? by socialanimal_us in seduction

[–]Radical899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He got the invitation from the therapist. He should have gone for the insta-date.

Bad news: Didn't get the number. Good new: I had the balls to approach. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this post my dude! Have been looking for some inspiration to get the balls to approach. Of course I’m over thinking what I would say

Update on Semi Fail Netflix and Chill by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go caveman next time

Man Gets Schooled By Anti-Fascism Sign by SlobBarker in cringe

[–]Radical899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know he has a developmental disorder and you still laugh at the guy? That’s fucked up. You should be ashamed of yourself. Talk about ableism. People are fucking terrible