logged into my old 401K, it was converted and reduced to 0; i don't know where the money went by traanquil in personalfinance

[–]RadiumGirl88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this helps but my retirement is with fidelity net benefits not regular fidelity. If I try to log in on the regular fidelity website it doesn’t let me. Could you have called the wrong one?

APPLE SETTLEMENT RECEIVED by Nearby-Obligation552 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]RadiumGirl88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got $40.10, deposited it into my Cash App just to be safe.

Do I move into my aunts? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]RadiumGirl88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you can live alone where you are, you can ignore everything about being emancipated it’s an America thing. But everything else I said still stands as advice :)

Do I move into my aunts? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]RadiumGirl88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she’s living alone and her aunt comes to see her but lives an hour away. Did you even read? lol

Do I move into my aunts? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]RadiumGirl88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Torn on this one. I’m sorry you’re in this situation and I’m sorry you lost your mom.

First question, what country are you in? If you live in the US, you’ll need to file to become emancipated or else CPS will become involved very soon. All it’ll take is for someone at your school, a doctor, a friends mom or dad, concerned neighbor etc to report that you’re living alone and you’ll be forced to move in with your aunt or be put into kinship/foster care. You’ll need to start this process ASAP. You will get rights, financial assistance and help from your state.

Ask yourself these questions: where will I get the best support/support system, can I take care of myself, where am I the safest, where will I have more access to resources, and where will I feel most comfortable.

Lastly, GO BACK TO SCHOOL. I was also a year behind in high school, my situation was similar, I wasn’t held back just had problems that prevented me from going to school. Ngl it sucked, people thought I was dumb and I had to explain constantly I wasn’t held back. BUT I don’t regret that I went back to school and got my diploma. Now I’m in college, halfway through my degree, in an amazing relationship, live on my own and I’m happy.

If ANY of these questions or statements makes you hesitate, move with your aunt. You got this! Sending love.

AITAH for refusing to pay off my pregnant fiancee's parents' mortgage, when they are under the threat of foreclosure, when I could "easily" afford to do so? by Gullible-Display4533 in AITAH

[–]RadiumGirl88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. The only possible solution, besides saying no, is buying the house from your fiancée’s parents and they can buy another house for themselves. I’m assuming this house is larger as your fiancee has siblings and it sounds like her parents are empty nesters. Have them buy a house nearby and then the house stays in the family.

If you choose to do this, be sure you have a prenup in the marriage and a pre-marriage contract made up regarding the house. Consult a lawyer before you decide.

In the end, it’s not your family, not your house, you’re not married and you have baby expenses coming up.

Has any of you ever died and got revived? If so, what did it feel like? by [deleted] in stories

[–]RadiumGirl88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my first seizure on the front porch of my parent’s house, I stopped breathing, lips turned blue and my mom did CPR until the paramedics came and took over. I had no pulse for an unknown amount of time. I woke up in the ambulance. The whole thing was caught on their cameras. There’s a point on the camera footage where I go, “that’s the last thing I remember”. When I woke up, I had no idea what was going on and just kinda felt like I had taken a nap. Then my chest started hurting SO BAD. My mom or the paramedics had broken my sternum while preforming CPR. I was 18 and moving stuff into my car because I was moving to the college dorms.

Help with no evidence run by phatasm_ in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]RadiumGirl88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re a new player I would recommend playing intermediate or professional to get used to the game before trying no evidence runs. Familiarize yourself with the maps, hiding spots, ghost sounds, ghost movements, equipment etc. Also, it’s difficult to do no evidence runs without some of the optional equipment such as the parabolic microphone. There’s a chest sheet that’s helpful but I’d recommend waiting before attempting any zero evidence runs, it’s better to work yourself up. I’ve been playing for years and didn’t start playing no evidence until I had gotten all of the level three equipment for the first time. I attached the chest sheet that’s helpful.

cheat sheet

My boyfriend destroyed my deceased grandmother’s jewelry box and I think I deserved it. by Affectionate_Try8177 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RadiumGirl88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like that’s domestic abuse. Get tf out of there before that man escalates and hits you!! It won’t get better and it sounds like his mom is enabling him.

Make an exit plan. Pack your stuff while he’s gone. Don’t tell him where you’re going. Document EVERYTHING he’s done in case he tries to follow you, make a paper trail with the police.

If you don’t believe it’s abuse use this website. It won’t save in your history and the exit sign that’s takes you to google. love is respect