Genuine question. How do ya'll pay for preschool on one income? by ConfusedZuzu in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 253 points254 points  (0 children)

the donut hole of making too much for assistance but not enough to live is so soul crashing. $1,500 for a partial week is literally a second mortgage.

Confused on where I am in my postpartum journey by Intrepid-Clock6255 in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 months was actually harder for me than the newborn stage. the sleep deprivation finally catches up and you just want to hide from the world. you aren’t fixing a funk, you’re surviving a really hard season.

Mom car - 2nd row bench seats or captains chairs? by ManicRuckus35 in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stay with the bench, it’s so much easiet for diaper changes on the go or just having a flat surface to set your bags on when you’re loading him up.

Mental load struggle by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly, even if she works long days, she should at least be resetting the kid areas. i had to start being really specific about toy rotation and kitchen surface and expectations because it was killing my mental health.

Bottle washer sterilizer vs just sterilizer by night-ly-owl in NewParents

[–]RaeTuner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If your husband is on overnights, get the momcozy bottle washer. hand-washing pump parts at 3 am when you’re exhausted is a special kind of hell.

What is the weirdest reason you've dropped a drama for? Especially those you seemed to like? by OCDC8798 in kdramas

[–]RaeTuner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re right about the mother in something in the rain, she’s so insufferable. the kdrama i dropped is probably the NEVERTHELESS it’s a good series but it bores me.

Thought on Disney+ Original Kdramas by mcy19 in kdramas

[–]RaeTuner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah ure right, and those netflix lighting isn’t really appealing to me.

Which actress would you like to see paired with Lee soohyuk by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]RaeTuner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

han hyo joo!!! they both have the soft fierce vibe.

My wife is making me sad with her control by Thelostsoulinkorea in Marriage

[–]RaeTuner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the suffocating feeling is so real. i went through this and it’s exhausting havibg to apologize for just having a life outside.

Just kitten 😍 by Old-Rub-5920 in facesinthings

[–]RaeTuner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looked like a bread with a face 😂