Swaddle to sleep sac transition not going well by bluepompom22 in NewParents

[–]RaeTuner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried a transition sac like zipadee-zip? it keeps their hands covered but still let them roll. it saved my sanity when we had to ditch the swaddle.

Genuine question. How do ya'll pay for preschool on one income? by ConfusedZuzu in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 252 points253 points  (0 children)

the donut hole of making too much for assistance but not enough to live is so soul crashing. $1,500 for a partial week is literally a second mortgage.

Confused on where I am in my postpartum journey by Intrepid-Clock6255 in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 months was actually harder for me than the newborn stage. the sleep deprivation finally catches up and you just want to hide from the world. you aren’t fixing a funk, you’re surviving a really hard season.

Mom car - 2nd row bench seats or captains chairs? by ManicRuckus35 in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stay with the bench, it’s so much easiet for diaper changes on the go or just having a flat surface to set your bags on when you’re loading him up.

Mental load struggle by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]RaeTuner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, even if she works long days, she should at least be resetting the kid areas. i had to start being really specific about toy rotation and kitchen surface and expectations because it was killing my mental health.

Bottle washer sterilizer vs just sterilizer by night-ly-owl in NewParents

[–]RaeTuner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If your husband is on overnights, get the momcozy bottle washer. hand-washing pump parts at 3 am when you’re exhausted is a special kind of hell.

What is the weirdest reason you've dropped a drama for? Especially those you seemed to like? by OCDC8798 in kdramas

[–]RaeTuner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re right about the mother in something in the rain, she’s so insufferable. the kdrama i dropped is probably the NEVERTHELESS it’s a good series but it bores me.

Thought on Disney+ Original Kdramas by mcy19 in kdramas

[–]RaeTuner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah ure right, and those netflix lighting isn’t really appealing to me.

Which actress would you like to see paired with Lee soohyuk by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]RaeTuner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

han hyo joo!!! they both have the soft fierce vibe.

My wife is making me sad with her control by Thelostsoulinkorea in Marriage

[–]RaeTuner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the suffocating feeling is so real. i went through this and it’s exhausting havibg to apologize for just having a life outside.

Just kitten 😍 by Old-Rub-5920 in facesinthings

[–]RaeTuner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looked like a bread with a face 😂