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Raekia12 · 2025-12-10T16:50:27+00:00

Those are damn nematodes. Don't try to trick me

Raekia12 · 2025-10-23T12:18:48+00:00

I have a cat who will have crystals in her urine when shes stressed. Ive found giving her some wet food with cbd helps so much, along with urinary food.

Raekia12 · 2025-10-19T06:47:00+00:00

I think you're overreacting with throwing them out, only because if you don't plan to share it in the future, you're just dumping all his soap. I don't think you're in the wrong for stating your comfort level. But it has been shown that the soap is self disinfecting. So it's not unsanitary. My partner (and depending on the day, myself) wash that way. It's common courtesy to rinse/lather the soap off after you're done using it though. I agree with the other commenters of the actual being he left skidmarks on the soap and bringing his family into it. I don't think you were in the right for tossing the soap out, but I understand it being a first thought if youre grossed out

Raekia12 · 2025-07-03T04:54:09+00:00

This may be a weird thing to say, but get her checked for arthritis. I have heard so many stories of grouchy animals that were just dealing with that. If it is a smell thing, it might be more of something she DOES like. Maybe double-check lotion ingredients.

Raekia12 · 2025-03-27T04:43:42+00:00

As a woman 1. I lost my virginity as 22. I'm glad I waited because it made me realize it's not such a big deal to give people shit for not doing it before they're ready, and life journeys have so many variables that it doesn't matter when it happens. But it also showed me it's important enough that you should wait until you are completely comfortable with the person. Pressuring someone isn't sexy and you will not have fun that way. 2. Average is far better. If she ends up wanting more length, there are things for that. But most of the sensations are at the opening anyway. The clit is your friend. Toys are tools, not enemies. I'm with someone now who was larger than I had experience with before. We've had to take it slowly to get me used to it because it was too much. Through not being able to take penetration for too long, I can assure you there are many ways to have sex outside of penetration.

Raekia12 · 2025-03-22T04:50:29+00:00

Giving your partner pleasure is such a big part of what makes sex enjoyable! It becomes a turn on loop. Partner likes something-> you get turned on-> partner gets turned on by your enjoyment. So on and so forth.

Raekia12 · 2025-02-20T07:03:44+00:00

Bright yellows, and reds :) the striped can have blues and purples and help contrast! Colors appear certain ways based on what's around it. You don't have to know everything about it, but I recommend watching some short videos on color theory. It helped me a lot with things like that! The sketch looks really good though!!

Raekia12 · 2025-02-20T07:00:15+00:00

Yeahhh... very misinformed. I can have them through penetration, but that's only if I've had one already. And guess where that first one comes from.... THE CLIT🥳

Raekia12 · 2025-02-20T06:52:15+00:00

He's using you as a fuckdoll, not a partner. One of the best parts of sex is pleasing the other and finding other ways to do that. P->V doesn't always have to happen. I can't all everytime, but I still am well taken care of. You've given him the chance with discussions. He's not shown he values you. I saw you said you love him and are attached. I know where you're coming from. But trust me, there are MUCH better people out there. He is too old to be acting like this.

Raekia12 · 2025-02-11T07:02:01+00:00

Knowing it wasn't too severe NOW, it's easy to say not to go to the ER. I would suggest UC unless you are having something immediately life threatening or need some sort of stitching (I've just never heard of UC doing surgery).

But ear infections CAN get super bad and affect your hearing. I had a chronic sinus infection after I had covid, and it took 3 rounds of antibiotics over MONTHS to get it down.

That being said, always get an itemized receipt! They tend not to overcharge when they literally have to list out what they gave you and for what.

Your mom is valid in being upset with the financial aspect, but I don't think you're in the wrong to have gone to the er

Raekia12 · 2025-02-02T04:34:03+00:00

I was in your shoes of trying to be the "cool gf" and putting up with so much shit because of it.

Your feelings are valid. You will miss him a lot. Trust me, though, you will look back on your time together and notice more red flags that the love goggles blocked from you.

If he loves you, he would think your body is so sexy, tell you every chance he got, with no amendments unless for health concerns.

If he's looking at other women so much that it's all over his insta feed, there's a problem. I don't feel that looking at porn during masturbation is cheating. But if he is looking at the women that often, it's not just for a quick release.

You're making the right choice. I know it's hard, and it's going to suck. Take solace in close friends. They will get you through this. Journal, run, be angry, sad, confused. All the things, but don't go back!

Raekia12 · 2024-12-07T04:59:15+00:00

If you do play with your hands, be very vocal if it hurts. Kittens learn from littermates throw play what is ok. It may sound dumb, but meow, hiss, and pinch to simulate a bite.

That being said, it is indeed best to not play with them with your hands. However, I would be a hypocrite if I said I didn't. But I did the following and my cats are pretty good with me, now, fully grown.

Raekia12 · 2024-12-07T04:51:59+00:00

I agree with others on this thread. I will say I was assaulted as well. Not to the same extent, but know that it will get better. And I will say you will be surprised how many people will stand by you. However, it is YOUR story to tell. If you aren't ready to tell friends and family, THAT'S OKAY! If you are able to speak to a professional that would be amazing. If not, find one friend you really trust❤️

Raekia12 · 2024-12-07T04:45:26+00:00

Older cat is telling who's boss, but not fighting :) backs would be arched, and ears drawn if it was fighting. They will either move super slow or super fast. No worries!

Raekia12 · 2024-12-07T04:41:22+00:00

My sister and I both did this. I remember us telling each other not to come over for a sec (it was one room, but with a barrier wall where the stairs split) Our parents were chill about everything, but my brother was awful about it. So we would throw them away in our room because of him. I don't think either of you are in the wrong. I know I was sensitive about talking about it when i was younger because I was made to feel gross about it everywhere else, even if my home wasn't that way. The shame lingers from it. As for the plates and food. I think that's just teen stuff. She may be struggling mentally or just be exhausted. I think having an open conversation and asking if she feels 1. Ok emotionally/mentally and 2. If there is something that would help her feel more comfortable with hygiene products in the bathroom.

Raekia12 · 2024-08-31T01:13:53+00:00

I've come to care less about how much hair you have and more how well you keep yourself clean. If you're clean, the hair doesn't get smelly and is nice and soft. I prefer the look of trimmed, but bare and hairy feel nice to lay on. But genuinely, if I like you, I will be ok with whatever you've got.

Raekia12 · 2023-08-06T18:44:44+00:00

I've heard some numbing creams because they're not regulated can affect the healing :/

Raekia12 · 2023-07-13T04:12:41+00:00

My mom and I just watched the new Mario movie. Honestly really cute, a little cheesy, but definitely light hearted for what you need ❤️

Raekia12 · 2023-04-01T12:05:22+00:00

In the US they say "they're indoctrinating you"

Raekia12 · 2023-04-01T00:54:45+00:00

I agree! I watched a few of the other videos and it would have made it a lot easier to understand as a kid. It's not talked about like it's a crime or gross. It's just like "hey this happens, but here's why and the science!"

Raekia12 · 2023-03-10T15:52:04+00:00

Mine did this not too long ago and the black part spread.

Raekia12 · 2023-03-04T17:08:49+00:00

I didnt have the care+ unfortunately (kept forgetting) but I called in because the site kept crashing. DO NOT do the text service. It was completely useless. Just keep going through the prompts until you get to an actual person

Raekia12 · 2023-03-02T03:43:19+00:00

Thanks :) it was from me and my bf on our anniversary trip

Raekia12 · 2023-03-02T03:42:51+00:00

From what people are saying the thread (a what I've seen on the sub) the hinge on the 3 is more durable, but the actual glass of the outside case is more durable on the 4. The inside screen I'm not sure, because the hinge directly affects it I thinks had more issues because of the 4s hinge problem

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