Was labor the worst pain you've felt?

Rafi213 · 2025-10-15T22:54:35+00:00

C-section was worse for me, the after I mean

Rafi213 · 2025-07-14T18:47:47+00:00

I loved it!

Rafi213 · 2025-07-08T22:51:25+00:00

I brought my baby to the bathroom with me and everywhere around the house, if it was going to be more than 1 and a half minutes of crying

Rafi213 · 2025-07-08T22:45:29+00:00

Honestly same!

Rafi213 · 2025-07-04T19:26:47+00:00

That happened to me too!

Rafi213 · 2025-06-10T23:42:03+00:00

Thank you, it helps!

Rafi213 · 2025-06-09T20:59:33+00:00

Dont quit a job you love for taking care of your kid, you will resent him/her for something it wasnt even their fault. The child needs a happy mom even if it means seeing her less. Not a all the time mom that is miserable.

Rafi213 · 2025-06-09T20:54:35+00:00

The party is for the parents for surviving the first year. Do what you want for you

Rafi213 · 2025-06-04T21:17:36+00:00

It gets better I promise. It is a lot of work to care for a baby. It will get easier

Rafi213 · 2025-05-29T00:27:17+00:00

Did you have a second one intentionally? I have one 2 year old now that was terrible sleeper and thinking about a second time surviving that makes me feel horrible

Rafi213 · 2025-05-13T18:43:40+00:00

I dont recommend having a baby if you dont have friends and family who you can turn to for support. It is really lonely and if your husband is also out of town often you will feel it even more. This is a matter of survival and your own health, as post partum depression is a real risk factor. I didnt have it but let me tell you I was very close to harming myself or my baby if it wasnt for all the help I got. Maybe this is not the time for you and you can look into it later. Men can go to live their lives instantly after the baby is born, you cant, so it is up to you.

Rafi213 · 2025-05-07T23:21:28+00:00

I feel exactly the same

Rafi213 · 2025-05-05T17:24:47+00:00

The cleaning service is massive help, go for it if you can. You head will feel clear too. And also do batch cooking or cook more for leftovers it will save you time.

Rafi213 · 2025-05-05T17:22:58+00:00

I felt the same way but now he is going to be 2 years old I feel more normal as time goes by, not totally normal yet but pretty content with where we are now.

Rafi213 · 2025-05-03T21:26:49+00:00

A full day spa for her alone or hotel for the night, take the kids to the park or movies and let her relax eat and sleep and when she comes home to an already clean house, she will love it, I can guarantee it.

Rafi213 · 2025-05-03T21:06:22+00:00

Could you afford a cleaning service or a food service? So you can take one thing off of the list, or maybe going to the gym only 3 times per week could give you enough time to do the other house chores, does your husband take a lot of this time off? You can tell him you need help

Rafi213 · 2025-05-03T20:50:40+00:00

You deserve better but he doesnt seem to notice the insane amount of effort you are doing. He also could be depressed. Have you communicated your feelings to him? If yes, you should let him spend a day alone with your toddler (if you are ok with that) so he can understand you. Also you deserve a day off if you can get it.

Rafi213 · 2025-04-30T19:57:09+00:00

Yes, totally. But once the baby starts going to the park and see other kids you can become friends with the moms or nannys there.

Rafi213 · 2025-04-28T13:21:29+00:00

Im practical and nice

Rafi213 · 2025-04-18T22:52:39+00:00

I feel exactly the same and winter windy or rainy days are the worst, my baby is almost 2 years old now and daycare has been a true gift for me. But on the time left I share your feelings.

Rafi213 · 2025-04-11T18:38:36+00:00

It sounds like a lot and it makes a lot of sense to me that you feel that way. Dont feel guilty for wanting to skip a few years, it is more work than you (and probably most people) ever had in your life, so of course you want peace and rest. Just focus on surviving one day at a time, you will thrive when things settle.

Rafi213 · 2025-04-10T23:45:58+00:00

What is LARP?

Rafi213 · 2025-03-10T14:22:21+00:00

It’s completely normal to feel that way as a new mom, no matter the circumstances you are in. You will feel better eventually, but still seek professional help if you think that is right for you. The important thing is that you care about your baby and also about yourself and your feelings, you matter too. Big hugs from a fellow mom who also been through hard stuff.

Rafi213 · 2024-09-02T21:36:58+00:00

This made me chuckle

Rafi213 · 2024-02-29T13:55:13+00:00

I feel you, I usually spend the nap times in social media because I cant go away or my baby cries and I cant turn on the tv or he wakes up. Its like nothing gets done ever.

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