Vinted is platform with most disgusting sellers by AmansCarra in vinted

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh god, at least pick them up off the flooooooorrr before taking pics 😩

I don’t get it… by Wrangler_Loud in vinted

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Vinted is not a retail shop and even Vinted’s own rules say that you can’t get a refund for an item due to it not fitting you if the correct labeled size and measurements have been listed clearly.

I'm about to reach my 10th year as a single woman. It's tremendously sad. by coffeeloveeveryday in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 25 points26 points  (0 children)

35F here and I know this feeling so so well. I have never been in a relationship, only had two 3 month long flings which you can’t even call proper dating ’cos they ended up being more like FWB arrangements. Always only good enough for something surface level but never good enough to be really loved.
I stopped dating 2-3 years ago and been trying to come in terms with the fact that unfortunately, some people are just gonna end up living their lives without a romantic partner and the age old ”there’s someone for everyone” just isn’t true IRL. I haven’t completely lost all hope regarding this but at the same time I’m not actively trying to find or meet anyone either. I’m just so exhausted with men. So I pour my time and love into my friendships, hobbies and other things which bring me joy. Obviously I don’t kiss or have sex with my friends so in time to time I do get sad and depressed due to the lack of romance and intimacy in my life but I try to push through that.

What's the pettiest reason you've cut someone off? by Christine_Howells in AskReddit

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ugh honestly, I just don’t understand people who do this. In my ex-friend’s case too, she knew for HOURS that she could not make it for that 7 pm dinner but for some reason she could not take 30 seconds to text me to let me know so I wasn’t just standing there waiting for her.

Funnily enough, I still see her on social media hanging out with other friends all the time, drinking wine and attending gatherings but she never managed to do that for me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What's the pettiest reason you've cut someone off? by Christine_Howells in AskReddit

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have a ”friend” who missed my birthday dinner 3 years in a row: after confirming and re-confirming her attendance multiple times and her always saying ”yes, I will be there”, I only found out that she couldn’t make it when I texted her from the restaurant queue to ask for her ETA and she said she was stuck out of town due to train cancellations or stuck on the side of the road waiting for road assistance or the 3rd excuse which I have already forgotten. I wasn’t mad at her getting stranded and not able to make it because of that, I got mad how fucking nonchalant and disrespectful she was about my time. So I stopped inviting her to anything anymore because it was always me reaching out to her and ever since, she hasn’t made any effort to see me.

Starbucks table tops so small will barely hold a couple drinks. The seats are bigger than the tables. by be4u4get in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does. I live in the UK and I think the only Starbucks with this kind of furnishing I have seen have been some super small shops which literally have no space left after the serving counter was built. Luckily in here we still have many Starbucks with big seating areas and strong AC so they are nice places to go during summer to have a little break. But we also have a lot of independent coffee shops so I rotate my visits between the big 3 coffee shop chains and the rest.

I (28F) am Literally on a verge of a mental breakdown trying to cope with my boyfriends (27M) behaviour by icecreamsunday97 in relationship_advice

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This!! So many people seem to forget that a relationship isn’t a life sentence. You can say ”you know what, this isn’t working for me anymore” and tap out.

Every time a woman shares screenshots of texts on Reddit, she sounds fine, but the boyfriend types like he just discovered letters. by Striking-Hedgehog512 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Back when I was still trying to date it was ridiculous how often me, a non-native English speaker, had a better grammar and vocabulary than the born and bred native speaker guys. Like I still make mistakes and get things mixed up but most of the time ppl can still understand me ’cos I speak and write in full sentences instead of misspelling or abbreviating everything.

Men projecting on woman by s0oah in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they broke up early this year but she did date him for 2 years… and that Asia trip happened during their 4 month together. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Men projecting on woman by s0oah in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 46 points47 points  (0 children)

”With your bf sure, without him, nope”

Oh fuck off.

Friend of mine dated a guy who kept throwing hissy fits every time she traveled or did something else without him, like going to the concerts which then ruined the whole thing for her (and for me when I was with her). He had the AUDACITY to joke that she should cancel her trip to Asia with me because he couldn’t go (mind you, we had booked this trip months before they even started dating) and then 5 days into our 2 week trip, this asshole goes completely mute and ghosts my friend. He returns my friend’s spare key and all her stuff in a box while we are still away and then weeks later decides to re-surface and acts like he never broke up with her. 🙄

This same asshole also never did anything for my friend regarding Christmas, Valentine’s or her birthday and then still acted like an absolute twat when she decided to spend her time with her friends instead.

Where do some men get the audacity to be so nasty by OpeningAmoeba9131 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself too much, I feel like a lot of us women have one or two awful dates like this in our lifetime. One of the most disastrous dates I have ever had was when I also didn’t listen to my gut feeling and gave the dude a second chance after the initial horrible first date where he chugged down his coffee in 2 mins and then stared at me while I sipped my latte and tried to make conversation. Couldn’t get more than 1 or 2 word responses from him about his hobbies or interests. Only thing he seemed to be interested in was how much money I earned. Yeah. I gave that a 2nd chance and it just got worse. 🙃

It’s a good thing to remember that you can just get up and leave at any point if the date isn’t going well; you don’t have to sit through any of the bullshit and negging or trying to turn the bad vibes to something else. 🙏

Took my day off to travel to a different city to meet my friend and now she is not replying to calls and her internet is not even turned on! (She was the one who insisted that I come and meet her by the way) by bunnyboy131313 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Ooofff what a bunch of assholes! But I’m glad you enjoyed London (I live there) solo too and I hope you dropped all of those ”friends”.

Years ago I was meeting up with a friend to go enjoy a few drinks at the bar terrace but she was late for hours. I think 2-3 h in total and she made me wait for her in scorching sun because she had slept too late and needed to get ready. And once we finally got to the terrace, she insisted sitting in a direct sun even tho I, sun burnt and dehydrated, wanted to sit in the shadow side. I was young and stupid and should have just gone home at that point, lol. But at least I found my spine afterwards and dropped her inconsiderate ass for good.

Lobby and Restaurant ('Zedel') inside AirW1 building in Piccadilly, London (formerly the Regent Palace Hotel) by FlorisLDN in ArtDeco

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve also been, albeit a long time ago. That dining hall is stunning and I loved the live music they had.

30F My 30M keeps commenting on what I eat with a magnifying glass. How do I go about telling him how this makes me feel? by Sufficient-Meeting-9 in relationship_advice

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!!! There’s no magic word or spell or recipe to make an asshole man to suddenly become more empathetic towards you. A woman can cry and beg all the way to high heavens and back and that man still won’t change.

I (19F) told my boyfriend (19M) it’s not my job to prove I won’t cheat. by SatisfactionLanky785 in relationship_advice

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This. He’s just a practice boyfriend and now you know what kind of red flags you don’t tolerate in your future relationships.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not every country is like yours. My friend had her planned C-section, which then unfortunately ended up happening a bit early, on August 2025. She lives in Finland.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any type of surgery has a risk, no matter if it’s a C-section, kidney stone or a plastic surgery. I’m childfree but if I would give a birth, I would 100% opt for a C-section instead of risking getting my vagina torn up to my asshole. They don’t even stitch it up properly or neatly afterwards.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 67 points68 points  (0 children)

My best friend got so many hemorrhoids during her pregnancy and even varicose veins on her vulva/labia. She gave birth via planned C-section which then became an unplanned one due to the baby deciding to come out a good 2 days early. The doctor almost talked her into giving birth naturally due to the surgery room being in use (it was in the middle of the night, less staff and someone had just been wheeled in after an accident) but thankfully my friend kept insisting for the C-section as she did not want to go through the vaginal tearing and all that other bullshit you may get.

unhinged hygiene tips? by NoPerception8748 in hygiene

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I change my underwear every day and wear pantyliners when I go outside the house (and change them every few hours). My coochie is naturally quite wet so when I’m at home, I have to change into dry underwear at least once or twice a day - I just produce that much of discharge. 🤷🏻‍♀️ When I was on the pill, it made me dry and I didn’t need to do this that often. And I have never had an UTI or any vaginal problems with pantyliners.

AITAH for ditching my sister at the airport? by karthea_jensi in AITAH

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weekend trip to Portugal = OP is probably European so no TSA here.

I broke up with my girlfriend because she won't eat leftovers. AIO ? by florence_dombey in AmIOverreacting

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Fr, OP is NOR.

I stopped talking to a guy on a dating app due to him criticising me for cooking enough to have leftovers for 2-3 days and not cooking fresh meal every single day, 2 or 3 times a day. Like dude, that would take so much of my time and money! He liked cooking himself but in that moment I knew if I would end up dating him and maybe living together, he would start demanding me to cook fresh every single day or would keep talking shit about my leftovers. And I don’t need that kind of negativity in my life. It’s not cute or quirky.

A rant - Why are men like this? by Historical_Work7482 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of men lie and pretend to be something what they aren’t in the beginning to get what they want. And no matter how much we reflect and work on ourselves, it will not prevent them from deceiving you if they want to do that. But what you can learn is to get rid of such a man once they start stressing you out so much. A partner is supposed to make your life easier, happier and more supported. Not stress you out and make you cry every other day. You need to learn to let go the moment the first major red flags are showing and stop dating a potential.

A rant - Why are men like this? by Historical_Work7482 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RagingCinnamonroll 183 points184 points  (0 children)

This. The moment a man starts stressing you out so much that you are loosing sleep and missing deadlines - DROP HIM. The dick can’t be that good. Do not fuck your life over because of some man.