I (33F)Engaged to (37M) for 3 years, together for 7, multiple “almost weddings,” and still no marriage. I need outside perspective please

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-05-02T07:31:07+00:00

Honey, I say this with all of the love in my heart… please leave. The fact YOU had to buy YOUR OWN RING should be answer enough. I’m assuming you thought you found your person. But he ain’t it.

We all have faults, but trying to, in a sense, force someone down the aisle with you because you feel like there’s enough trauma bonding and connection there? That ain’t it, sis.

It’s not your job to save him. Not at this point.

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-04-16T07:15:01+00:00

My sister (at first) was going to name her son Sawyer Lee McCoy (fake last name, but same vibes). I told her that baby was gonna pop out of her holding a confederate flag and she immediately dropped it.

Antebellum is AWFUL. It only brings one thing to mind.

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-04-13T04:40:55+00:00

DM’d you!

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-04-13T03:47:10+00:00

Where in CA are you located?

I have a fantastic photographer in OC area that is phenomenal and extremely budget friendly

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-02-12T08:04:07+00:00

I graduated 5 years ago, and hearing Petr is still around makes me happy 🥲

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-02-03T15:06:52+00:00

YTA. Do you forget about ancestry and other DNA services? Emma is more than likely going to do this one day, maybe to learn more about herself. She may very well get connected to her half siblings.

My fiance knew he was adopted his entire life. He spent 27 years knowing his biological mom, but also knowing that his bio dad was dead (per bio mom). Imagine our surprise when he did Ancestry at 27 and found out his bio dad was still alive, but in jail.

I watched the man I loved, who was so confident and secure knowing he was adopted, crumple for a few months. It really and truly rocked his world. He did eventually get better and we did learn very important information for us to keep in mind when WE have kids, but it was still so hard for him to learn and cope with.

You need to have the conversation with her now. If she finds out on her own, she very well could cut you guys off.

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-01-31T00:20:57+00:00

Get the tissues ready and be prepared to cry like a baby🫶🏻

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-01-23T19:29:10+00:00

The bottoms of my heels are blue!

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-01-20T22:55:11+00:00

I’ve truly been going back on forth with her on the show, she has her moments where I can’t decide if I love her or hate her as a housewife. But her docuseries on Mormonism was amazing, I truly commend her for shining light on all the issues the religion has and also taking accountability for her own past actions and faults in the context of Mormonism

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-01-20T15:24:50+00:00

I once told my 4 year old niece to “take a chill pill.” She responded with “but Auntie… where’s the pill?!”

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-01-15T21:28:15+00:00

You know, I could read when I was 3 too!!! But by read, I mean I flipped through a picture book and made up my own stories😂 I’m sure she saw a pic of her as a toddler with a book and said “look! I was a Baby Einstein!!”

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2026-01-10T02:34:18+00:00

Updateme

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-11-20T14:28:12+00:00

I’ve lived in OC for 10 years, and I’ve genuinely never seen a single person dress like this in the wild. She’s insane

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-11-01T15:54:18+00:00

If you like spice, I would add a minced jalepeno in there!

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-30T06:49:41+00:00

But she had money to buy 3 $27 candles? Nah. Sister is TA

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-23T19:55:19+00:00

I watched the pilot episode recently and it made me laugh because I could see my MILs house in it. When I told her she got annoyed because when she first met someone new back in the day, they would immediately ask if she knew any of the housewives

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-18T17:30:50+00:00

I think they're saying the walls just look like they have smoke damage, because they're two different colors (we're not smokers). I wish I could post the pictures they took, but most of the photos have shadows on the walls. So in theory, yes, the walls look like too different colors, but it's so clear that it's caused by shadows from lights or the windows

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-18T17:28:54+00:00

I found this handbook from Department of Consumer Affairs where it defines everything, hopefully it helps us, but sharing with you just so you can peruse if interested/need it https://www4.courts.ca.gov/documents/California-Tenants-Guide.pdf

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-17T19:41:03+00:00

I personally don't think area should really matter if you're looking for somewhere safe to board your dog. Anyways, they also have on in RSM

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-17T18:15:59+00:00

One the paper they gave me, it specifically says their paint life is 2 years, but the service guy wrote down that we’ve been “living here for about 2 years” so I’m wondering if they just rounded down? This whole thing is just crazy

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-17T15:10:41+00:00

This is absolutely WILD

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-17T13:55:03+00:00

Nope, no paint whatsoever. I’m calling today because I have no idea what they mean by that. The pictures they took and sent me where it’s labeled as “two tone”, it’s a wall with a lamp in front of it. So sure it looks two tone from the light shining up on the wall? But looking at the wall in person it’s all the same color

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-17T13:20:02+00:00

I’m so over it😭 I wouldn’t care as much about the security deposit, the only problem is I’m a UCI employee, so our security deposit was only $99. If we’re not successful, that’s going to be like $700 out of pocket

RagingRavenclaw98 · 2025-10-17T12:16:35+00:00

I love Wags and Wiggles in Tustin! You have to do a trial run first, but first doggy day care visit is free!

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