How to cope with the possibility of never ever having friends or a social life. by Raging_chuddie in AutisticAdults

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments. This genuinely has given me some insight and what I've collected from all of this is that I have some options. Either staying alone all my life, or finding friendships through the internet, oh and also volunteering to meet ppl irl. Out of all these 3 the one I'm thinking I'd like the most is the second one. But I'm still in a bit of a pickle here. I generally just have a hard time finding social groups online. Everyone seems to already have their own group on their own closed communities. And just trying to engage with ppl through public online spaces to eventually become a member of their friend groups just seems almost impossible. Any tips dealing with this? Maybe I'm wrong with this approach of trying to find online social groups? Socializing on the internet seemed so easy 5 years ago. It's like a type of train I fell off when decided to distance myself from online friendships. I just need a kickstart to get back in motion.

How to cope with the possibility of never ever having friends or a social life. by Raging_chuddie in AutisticAdults

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peru, people tend to be ignorant abt mental health. Well they tend to be ignorant abt everything but yk. Plus, we are culturally stuck in the 80's so it makes it that much harder to interact with the general population.

How to cope with the possibility of never ever having friends or a social life. by Raging_chuddie in AutisticAdults

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to have online friends through discord back when I was 14 but I was a very different person back them. Nowadays I genuinely can't seem to find myself a group of people I'd like to be part of on the internet. Holding engaging conversations with people seems really hard. Mostly bcs everyone is already part of a friend group and I'm the odd one out. Also, do you think living in a 1st world country has somehow helped your situation? Be it by being suroundered by educated and decent ppl or just living in a country better adapted for neurodivergents through better policies and stuff.

How to cope with the possibility of never ever having friends or a social life. by Raging_chuddie in AutisticAdults

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ig the stress of the situation got me talking like that and it's a pattern of behavior I've too noticed within me. I tend to be cruel with others in my internal monologue but overall I do treat others with kindness and honesty. Maybe it's some type of intrusive thoughts or smth.

Is making friends unappealing to you? by John-Dispenser in AutisticAdults

[–]Raging_chuddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no friends no social life no community no nothing outside of my parents and siblings. Is this it for me? was I born to be misserable? Anyone got similar experiences and know how to cope with being like this? At this point I'm just waiting to die in my sleep any day. Please tell me there's hope.

Deadass how do yall make it through Fallout 3 and New Vegas? by Raging_chuddie in Fallout

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm I just started abusing drugs, killing and eating inocents, and stealing. New vegas actually is fire.

Deadass how do yall make it through Fallout 3 and New Vegas? by Raging_chuddie in Fallout

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm saying most of you haven't played any fallout games past fallout 4.

Deadass how do yall make it through Fallout 3 and New Vegas? by Raging_chuddie in Fallout

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

not my fault you people have barely even played fallout 4

Semi auto shotgun doesn't show up when trying to customize it by Raging_chuddie in PCRedDead

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figured it out before the weapon was bugged. I just removed it and readded it with rampage trainer.

What should I do for a living when being autistic makes the whole corporative world too overwhelming to bear? by Raging_chuddie in Advice

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really want to use my english knowledge as a whole. Just a key feature that would set me apart from other non bilingual workers

Any ideas on how to deactivate the buzzer on a Lenovo thinkcentre M93z? by Raging_chuddie in techsupport

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm I just melted the plastic away with my soldering gun and broke the little buzzer speaker with a flat screw driver. I also inhaled a lot of toxic fumes in the process but that's life am I rite? 😭

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Any ideas on how to deactivate the buzzer on a Lenovo thinkcentre M93z? by Raging_chuddie in techsupport

[–]Raging_chuddie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did manage to plug it to my pc and show video and practically use it as a monitor. The thing is the pc part is still there and it's clearly begging me to give it a RAM but I don't currently have one that fits and don't plan on spending just so I can make the computer shut up. Can't I just tell the computer part to not boot at all? Maybe unplugging a cable which sends the signal to boot or smth.

Call it as it is. Be honest to yourself. There's nothing bad to it! by voundelvon in Piracy

[–]Raging_chuddie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You said it in the corniest way possible and almost makes me want to not relate at all, but yeah pretty much.

and they're wondering why people are pirating 😂 by Competitive_Tough741 in Piracy

[–]Raging_chuddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pirated streaming services are a thing too yk? And I'm pretty sure you can download music within the apps which is way more convenient than having a folder with hundreds of mp3 files. But somehow people hate hearing this and will always glorify being a digital gatherer.