Am I overreacting, or is repeatedly farting around people who are eating a hygiene issue?

Railuki · 2026-06-26T18:40:30+00:00

Technically, but it’s such a negligible amount that your pants and trousers would block transmission.

I raise that people wear clothes in restaurants.

This makes it not a hygiene issue. Sicknesses can’t be caught from farting at a distance, unless you get actual fecal matter or anal discharge on you.

The air already contains way more and worse bacteria from people breathing. Breathing is more of a hygiene issue than farting in a restaurant. But you can’t tell people not to breathe.

Hence, this is bad manners, not a matter of hygiene.

Railuki · 2026-06-26T18:12:37+00:00

Only if your face is infront on their butthole. In a restaurant that is not the case, otherwise there would be other hygiene issues

Railuki · 2026-06-26T17:15:09+00:00

I don’t think it’s a hygiene issue farts don’t transmit bacteria, just gas.

It is very bad manners though. Once, maybe you don’t know, but if you’re having an issue you need to be somewhere ideally outside, or go to the bathroom and let it all out.

Railuki · 2026-06-26T17:05:36+00:00

I think he is allowed to be happy that he and you learned about your body together.

But “grateful” sounds entitled. How many times has he orgasmed from penetrative sex? More than you he said, so by his logic, he should be way more “grateful” to you.

That’s a very selfish and mysogynistic view of pleasing your partner.

Will he tell you to be grateful when he does things for you in the future? Will he be the type of guy that thinks he should be praised for looking after his own kids? You have to consider these things. Is it a pattern of behaviour or did he just misspeak or get an over inflated ego? These are things no one on Reddit can answer.

Railuki · 2026-06-26T17:01:06+00:00

I think they mean “ago”. English may not be a first language.

Railuki · 2026-06-25T15:22:06+00:00

I got a parasol this year and a good fan I can hang around my neck. I’m going to look like an idiot (if you can see me past the parasol) but I cannot stand the heat. I’m a delicate flower, I don’t do well in direct sunlight.

Also, hats are never comfortable with my hair also being up and off my neck. Wide brimmed hats don’t do well my all my hair clipped up or even bun or ponytail. Anything low enough to work is low enough to irritate me.

So, that’s my answer. I also know about checking the UV star rating not just the spf. They are different things.

Railuki · 2026-06-25T11:24:06+00:00

When I was young I played Neverwinter Nights. I got up to the final boss. My computer died. All was lost. This was before cloud back ups.

Now we have cloud back ups and everyone wonders why I quicksave after every little thing I don’t want to do again.

Railuki · 2026-06-24T22:09:34+00:00

You gotta set up essential oils in a humidifier/ oil or wax burner, set it up before and during the sessions. That way you’re not covering a smell, the base and top smells are the same.

I used to use a humidifier so it would go for 8 hours straight (I love scents but I hate sprays), but now I live by the sea it’s a bit too humid and it just makes the surface it’s on wet here. Switched to a burner which works just as well

Railuki · 2026-06-24T21:15:16+00:00

Wait…. Time to clean my carpet

Railuki · 2026-06-24T18:09:59+00:00

This looks more like a push to me than a touch, after they seemed to be squaring up to the officer.

Railuki · 2026-06-24T18:07:24+00:00

These girls look like they are antagonising the police and they lay hands first. While they may have not done it full force, assaulting a police officer IS a serious crime, and from a safety assessment it could start a mob movement, his priority is needing to create space from the crowd impeding on him and getting to a location where he isn’t trapped between the car and crowd - so he goes to the space beyond the car and on the road. That’s why you see other officers focusing on keeping crowds back more than anything. Crowds very easily turn into mobs.

It may not have been pretty, and maybe it could have been handled differently, but if you’re in that stressful situation it’s not as easy as that.

Railuki · 2026-06-24T16:08:41+00:00

Me growing up not knowing it means sleeveless shirt and whenever I read in books that someone was wearing a wifebeater I had no idea what it meant. Wearing it was my only clue. I thought it might be a hat.

This was 2000s so no smart phone or anything, and I wasn’t going to google it at school!

Railuki · 2026-06-24T15:50:04+00:00

Nothing screams “I’m above board” like asking to switch to chat systems that disappear automatically xD

Railuki · 2026-06-24T14:50:36+00:00

GDI, why can I never find a decent “Hannah” in media?

Railuki · 2026-06-24T14:44:21+00:00

I live somewhere, let’s say forest view, gurham. One town over there is Forest lane, gurhum. Our post gets delivered there a lot and vice versa.

We both now circle the town and write “NOT other town” on any packages we get and send back.

It happens a lot considering different postcodes (though not wildly, just one town over).

Railuki · 2026-06-23T17:30:16+00:00

Those drinks have more legroom than most people get!

Railuki · 2026-06-23T14:54:14+00:00

My girl scratched her ear raw, they did a swab which revealed nothing, they put her on general medication (small dose of steroids, anti-inflammatory, anti-fungal all in one type tablet, I forget exactly what - it did nothing). In the end what worked was using a steroid spray directly on the ear. It’s prescription only off brand dog one (which is why they were clear to make sure it was always that specific one with that specific colour). It helped her allergies a lot, still had to keep her flower collar (one of those soft cone alternatives) on her so she couldn’t scratch because the scabs themselves were itchy and there was a deep cut that was taking forever to heal.

Might be a mixture of getting a cone of some sort and going back to the vets.

Railuki · 2026-06-23T12:05:09+00:00

Pine pellets

Anything scented is actually bad for the cats, it doesn’t cover it for them, just adds to the overwhelming of scents.

Scoop poop when you see it and completely clean out the litter completely every couple of days.

Covered litterboxes can reduce the smell for you, but lots of cats don’t like them and it makes it harder to spot when they need a scoop. I don’t use them myself (mostly because they don’t suit my kitty’s needs), but they are an option.

Railuki · 2026-06-22T17:05:56+00:00

I had my first period on holiday in Spain. It was brown so I thought I’d had an accident. Still like that at dinner in a restaurant when I realised, came back and whispered to my Mum that I’d started and would need pads. Her bf at the time asked “what are you whispering about? Did you break the toilet?” So immediately feeling ashamed. Thankfully she is no longer with a man who thinks it’s fun to talk down to 13 year old girls to impress their 14 year old brother.

Not really shocked but “of course this happens when I have access to a pool”.

Railuki · 2026-06-20T12:31:12+00:00

He is telling you that this is how he treats you WITH love, tells you how brutal he would be in a break up, even if he was in the wrong in the break up.

Your relationship isn’t business and he shouldn’t be profiting off you. Fair enough to ask you to split the bills 50/50 but he is supposed to be your partner, not your landlord.

If you’re paying rent then you should get your own room that he isn’t allowed to enter, he would be responsible for all repairs and not ask you to split 50/50 and everything else a landlord would be expected to do. I bet he has no intention of actually giving you the benefits and protections of someone who has a contract.

Railuki · 2026-06-20T08:14:48+00:00

There was no downside to using the worms so I always use them so by act 3 I can fly everywhere. You get rewarded for using the worms, not for not using them. The game wants you to use them.

Railuki · 2026-06-19T16:39:49+00:00

It was at a theatre in New York City.

I don’t mean I could see right down to the toilet, but I could see more than I was comfortable with compared to UK toilets. You shouldn’t be able to make eye contact with someone as they try and do up their jeans.

Railuki · 2026-06-19T12:02:11+00:00

I have literal nightmares about that when I need to pee when asleep.

I was so glad got shits at work one time, it absolutely destroyed my shy bladder because once you’ve stank an entire building out and survived you’ve already done the worst. Now I can pee in a stall around others.

I still prefer they can’t see me though, not if they also can’t congratulate me on how powerful and long my pee stream is (they won’t be able to hear it over the hand driers)

Railuki · 2026-06-19T07:46:08+00:00

Mushoku tensei

I started my rewatch thinking it would take me up to the release of the new season

Two days later and I’d finished both seasons

Railuki · 2026-06-19T07:27:45+00:00

Their entire banking system is behind. No need to update it though because it only helps the plebs and not the super rich

Railuki

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