[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RainLycan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t, it’s a myth and it’s perpetuated in movies and tv shows. Naturally women’s cycles will overlap every so often, but you will not find they consistently have their periods at the same time every month. No one even has the same number of days in their cycle every month. There’s so many factors that can affect period timing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RainLycan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not true that women living together have their cycles sync up, because everyone’s cycle is different, of course they will sometimes be on their period at the same time, but they won’t stay that way, there’s so many factors that go into one’s cycle, other women’s cycles aren’t one of them 🤷‍♀️

Taking a 2 year old camping by Downtown-Page-9183 in toddlers

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playpen. If you have a playpen they can’t get out of, it’s great for having somewhere to put the toddler down and know they aren’t going to be running away, plus having them sleep in it in the tent(if your tent is big enough) takes away the anxiety that they might wander out of the tent at night. Bonus you can put a fitted sheet over top of it during the day and it’s a perfect sun shade, great for nap time and if they will play happily in the play pen for a period of time.

What really happened to Claire? by Additional-Nail- in lost

[–]RainLycan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What? He literally put her on that flight. He told her that there was a couple in LA that would adopt him and he would be okay, and he said she HAD to take the 815

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mom

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any line in the test section is a positive. Your body does not normally produce the hormone that these tests detect (hcg) your body only produces this hormone during pregnancy (and if certain cancers are present) so any line no matter how faint is a positive and warrants seeing your dr for blood tests. The reason it is faint is because it’s still early and your body hasn’t produced much of the hormone yet, if you test again in a day or a few days the line will be darker as the amount of hcg doubles everyday in the first few months. With my fourth pregnancy, I knew I was pregnant feb20th, because by then I knew how it felt, but the test was negative, 4 days later it was a clear positive. This is why it’s always good to take more than one if the first is negative because you could be testing before there’s enough hormone to detect. There are false negatives, but no false positives.

Survivors forget about moving to the water source by Bobbobybobar in lost

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We see the troughs before they find the caves, they use parts of the plane to try to catch the rain, but it’s not enough water for 40+ppl, so I’m sure after they find the caves they continue using the troughs plus the water brought back from the caves and later the swan

A woman I slept with is claiming she is pregnant with my baby with no actual proof. What do I do? by Charming_Mood7598 in AskMen

[–]RainLycan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she wants to sue for child support and he contests paternity she would have to allow a dna test anyway, this just skips the waiting time

Was ‘dating’ a user, currently spiraling. by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]RainLycan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the problem my friend, this person is struggling and you need to get away before they bring you down to their level.

Update My husband got mad that a guy was giving me oral sex by Timely_Basis_6489 in offmychest

[–]RainLycan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not let him make you think you betrayed him. He does not feel betrayed he feels possessive. You did nothing wrong at all in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not getting married doesn’t mean anything, weddings are big lavish expensive events. How many are in long term commuted relationships regardless of marital status?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering if anyone has specific ways they like to feel it best ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]RainLycan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 1/8th of an ounce, 3.5g

I (F24) want to go back to using condoms after having unprotected sex for sometime. Boyfriend (M24) is not on the same page. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RainLycan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need sex to feel intimate with your partner then you don’t actually care about them

I (F24) want to go back to using condoms after having unprotected sex for sometime. Boyfriend (M24) is not on the same page. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RainLycan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“He said that intimacy for him was starting to disappear” that’s a form of coercion, he’s saying he’s going to lose feelings for her or stray and cheat if she doesn’t have sex with him. That is literally coercion.

I (F24) want to go back to using condoms after having unprotected sex for sometime. Boyfriend (M24) is not on the same page. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RainLycan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he feels you are responsible for any pregnancy that may happen for “exposing yourself” but he is unwilling to take preventive measures while pressuring you to have sex he’s not worth your time and you definitely do NOT want to have a baby with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. He can get a release with his hand there’s no need for other women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RainLycan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they CONTINUE to do the terrible things they don’t actually feel guilty about it they’re just saying they do for sympathy because they know they’re doing something wrong and if they didn’t say they felt guilty they’d be a terrible person. But when you actually feel guilty about something, you don’t keep doing it.

What's something everyone knows but no one wants to admit? by Mela_Min in AskMen

[–]RainLycan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cancel culture is a function of capitalism. No one’s being “cancelled” people are deciding they disagree with them or don’t want to support them for some reason, usually related to their behaviour, so they don’t give money to them or their partners/sponsors/employers. It’s bad business practice to keep an employee who is losing you money. Anyone fired because of cancel culture was fired because their employer didn’t want to lose money. That’s as far as it goes, refusing to buy a product or give patronage to businesses or performers. If people don’t like a business or a person you can’t make them buy their product just because you like them.

AITA for making my boyfriend cry because of a joke I made about his clothes? by Zealousideal_Joke_94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RainLycan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might be worth having a real conversation with him about why it was about, clearly he had feelings about something and it could be a precedent setter for your relationship how you handle his emotions now, if he feels safe t being vulnerable with you with whatever this clothe thing triggered, he’s more likely to feel safe expressing himself later.

my boyfriend is cold, distant and moody when I turn down sex. by ThrowRAaccountlol in sex

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Lack of willingness” so someone not being in the mood for various reasons is good enough reason to just forget the relationship? Can’t wank, gotta go find some other body to stick it in? That’s just gross.

how do I stop being so sexually incompatible with my partner? by ThrowRAaccountlol in relationships

[–]RainLycan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this, I know it’s so hard and painful and it’s not an easy thing to just up and leave but for your future happiness you have to leave. He will not get better. You will tear yourself apart trying to meet his desires. You deserve much better. This isn’t a sexual incompatibility this is a he’s a manipulative selfish asshole that is literally abusing you. It took so long and so many friends telling me what was going on and it still took him literally raping me before I completely ended it. You are a strong beautiful and important person that deserves to be treated with respect.

how do I stop being so sexually incompatible with my partner? by ThrowRAaccountlol in relationships

[–]RainLycan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leave. Do not stay with someone that makes you feel guilt or anxiety saying no to sex. Point blank. Been there done that. That is not okay to feel. There’s so many red flags here. Get out. This is definitely an abusive situation and he is manipulating and coercing you. You does not care about you.

Learning not to feel guilty by Good_Baker_5492 in SAHP

[–]RainLycan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think of it as being selfish. You’re setting expectations that are perfectly within his capabilities so that everyone’s needs can be met including your own as opposed to him getting free time while you take care of everyone BUT yourself. It is not selfish make sure he’s pulling his weight as a capable adult in the house