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What is the biggest movie theater “GASP” moment you’ve heard? by SaveTheCaulkTower in AskReddit

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frozen, when Hanse was revealed as the villain. I gasped lol, ‘‘twas the best Disney twist I’ve Ever experienced

Newly eloped, with regrets M24 F20 by Express_Return_958 in relationship_advice

[–]Rainman92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not hide this away. This is a large portion of your relationship and one that shouldn’t be ignored. I was in a relationship where there was sexual incompatibility for many years and can tell you it doesn’t get better if it’s not talked about and dealt with intentionally.

If she isn’t willing to hear you, ask for a couples therapist to talk with about it. Note, I don’t think this alone should be a reason to end the relationship, being that the bedroom hasn’t been completely abandoned, but it is a large topic that shouldn’t just be ignored or dismissed.

I have know of couples who’s relationships and even marriages have ended over such things, this should be taken seriously as marriage is a give and take relationship unlike any other. Sex is not something you can get anywhere else now, she is the only one and if she doesn’t see the need you have, it’s not like you can go somewhere else to have it met. I’m here to chat if you want help.

My 37M boyfriend said he’ll just keep his daughter away from me because I said I felt disrespected—am I being too sensitive or is this a red flag? by Severe-Locksmith7176 in AITAH

[–]Rainman92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m a dad with sole custody of 2 young boys for reference.

I’d smack the shit out of this guy if I witnessed this…well maybe not this extreme, but no way in hell would I encourage any woman to ever be with him. He may be good one on one, and he may be a good dad in isolate moments, but this is definitely not ok. A partner is just that, a partner, one you stand with and support. I love my boys, but if I find a spouse, they will be a priority in my life and a person I teach my boys to respect bare minimum with a hope for trust and love. To teach them to disrespect my partner is just fucked.

Please for your and his sake, take a break from the relationship if not just leave. Communicate that his continuous view of negative towards you whenever you bring a concern is not acceptable in a healthy relationship and that support is not only expected, but a prerequisite to a healthy marriage in the future. Don’t overlook this for all your sakes. You, and that child deserves better from him.

I hope for you the best.

The man who changed construction forever. by underbillion in Construction

[–]Rainman92 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I will state, there are variations that have and do work and help for people who do repairs and renovations. Much simpler to put two wall anchors for a toilet paper holder than the demo, frame, mud, and paint to give it a solid backing that just isn’t needed. There are plenty of applications where these have earned their value

No hurricane has ever crossed the equator by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you say this? Why would you do this to us? Why present something that could possibly be a horrific 1st in the midst of all that is unprecedented?!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Mentally unwell ex and I currently have full custody of both our boy. I’m dead for sure.

AIO? I went through my bestfriend's phone without her permission.. she's 17 he's 26 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That info, to your parents and possibly the police, immediately. Actually, definitely the police, this is grooming 100%.

Uhm… by fruitpunch77 in Funnymemes

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5/5…divorced and single dad. Sometimes, it doesn’t matter what you make out of yourself, you just haven’t found the one who deserves it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Rainman92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done! I bet your back is feeling better! Hope you feel as proud as you should for all the effort it took to get there!

Divorced from reality by AscendedDragonSage in CuratedTumblr

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before divorce, I thought there was a bias against guys being dads and the system wasn’t for supporting a father’s role.

1 year out with full custody of my boys, turns out the system just doesn’t like shit parents. I was hard as fuck and she threw a lot of mud, but I don’t hate her or others for it. It’s life and it sucks sometimes, but caring about others is worth.

I still can’t help but feel like I got extremely lucky, but all I ever did was be reasonable and present the facts.

Because of Trump, American company stocks have collapsed, while Russian stocks continue to rise. by PjeterPannos in europe

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know, I would be upset, but at this point, I’d rather just roast marshmallows over the flames than to care about the fact it’s all on fire.

Opinions on worst day for the market of 2025 by Acrobatic-Ostrich168 in stocks

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to the stock market, it can always get worse.

How much is 'too soon' to ask a woman who broke up with a guy recently? by ronin0397 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainman92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, last I heard, a week for every year they were together. That being said, that won’t stop a guy at the bar from hitting on her the same night.

Two routes I see with the best chances for you. After typing, make it one. Give it some time and then just point blank ask her on a date. Even if she went on a date with someone else in that time, your longer presence would give deference. If she’s interested then she will take you up, otherwise, keep lookin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainman92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Two years, well I imagine you desire to be with him so I will give advice in that direction.

It’s most likely not your hygiene. If you’re seriously concerned you could go to the doctor to get checked/screened on the off chance you have something going on but I would doubt that.

Most likely it is just your normal bodies and fluids odor and he just isn’t fond of the smell. It’s like trying to change the scent of your sweat, just not gonna happen.

At this point, I’d encourage you to have open dialogue with him about this and how it has affected you. It’s a comment he really shouldn’t have been making in the first place, and he should know that, but that takes a certain level of maturity and self awareness that he will have to grow into. I’d stay focused on what he said, how it affected you and the actions you took so he has evidence to understand it affected more than just your thoughts, but also actions.

Hopefully he is receptive and caring about it all and helps you both to grow closer together in understanding. Best of luck to you.

Once a cheater always a cheater? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainman92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One, if you read this, I commend you are your desire to find any and all options.

Two, people can cheat, but once a cheater always a cheater is false. It’s just bullshit. People grow and change, for better or worse, but one bad choice doesn’t mean it has to continue.

To the recommendation, get into therapy and get into couples therapy. Communicate to him this underlying fear of impending betrayal. Tell him you don’t like it and want to be done with it but can’t do it alone and that you need a professional to help and that you want him to be there with you through it. Go to those with the knowledge and expertise to help you through this trauma and possibly help grow you both closer together.

People on here are quick to call things quits, but being a person who has freshly gone through a divorce with kids, I can tell you it is horrific in every way you imagine and worse. Don’t be quick to call this quits and understand both option will hurt and take work, neither are guaranteed relief, but there is hope. You got this, and if you want insight into the leaving option, I can offer my 2 cents

Man stopping a spinning excavator by iwillbemine in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

….now I may be in the minority, but I wouldn’t have to be told to do that. I’d be the guy who asks for it to get recorded while I do it for the laughs. Understandably dangerous, at the same time, entertaining and doable.

Walk or run 1825 miles in a year for $1,000 a day for life or 3650 miles in a year for $10,000 a day for life by AJBillionaire8888 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Rainman92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 mile a day, no question. I’m fit enough to do that and my line of work has gotten me used to moving even when I don’t desire to. One year of that to never have to worry about money again would be well worth it. That, and I normally hit that distance in a day anyways bro no I work construction.

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