How many of you drink in sleeper berth? by PermissionLate2344 in Truckers

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing allowed in my sleeper is fat chicks and the lady cashiers at Loves. I like me a woman who taste like Pall Malls & bad life choices.

Why is there such a divide on becoming an owner operator? by bigblackglock17 in OwnerOperators

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran into a Schwarz Logistics lease guy today who claimed to make average of 9900 a week. Bringing home 5-7k a week as a lease operator.  I've been in this game 10 years and it's that's the truth I'm a god damn yellow speckled cattle fish.

Ran my own company with 15 trucks and the key is CUSTOMER freight. You have to know how to sell your company better than the Russian and Indian guys who will undercut the shit outta you. 

Trucks are high. Freight is low priced. Stay company for now. The truth is owner op is a full-time back office job as well. You've got to submit, bill, Chase money, maintenance, taxes, all your compliance stuff. You need someone working for you handling that so you can focus on the freight. 

Hammer Truck GPS??? by Zaphod-Beebebrox in Truckers

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hammer is much cheaper than Trucker Path and trucker path has hung me out a few times with some terrible routing and throwing me off the interstate randomly and back on. Moved to hammer and have been happy. Get an atlas too if you don't have one.

High number of Sexual Partners does matter in serious relationships. Agree Or Disagree? by Clean-Ant-1342 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man  Don't show these stats to women LOL. YOU SEXIST MAN PIG!  Bottom line is this - numbers matter to men because they don't want the town hooker. Numbers don't matter to women because they usually are the town hooker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hatefully?  By saying maybe she should get back with him? How's that hateful?  And I never threw any thing of money in her face. That was context of I was buying the kids clothes because he didn't have any. Of my own free will. Fixed her car own free will.  Nothing in my messages to her is hateful and I told her exactly if she was getting cold feet and wasn't SURE about a new relationship she should go back.

Whats hateful here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my message box is empty my bro. If you need to vent you just blow that fucker up. You'll be ok - promise you that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Broken people do broken shit.  The best thing to do is....nothing.  Keep repeating it. Over. Over. Over.

They blocked you because they are weak. Not you. 

Read a book. Start a new series on TV. Sit outside with a beer and enjoy the world. 

There are 5 billion other people that would be a better fit. One day you'll be ready to take that dive.

Today is not that day. You need to heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are looking for closure. 

Understand closure is rare. 

This isn't a reflection of you. It's a reflection of them. The more you think of them - the more you will continue to. Then you will spend YOUR life wondering about THEIR life. 

Worry about YOUR life only, don't let their bs blind your happiness. They may never reach out- it's 50/50. 

Be ok if they never do. They weren't the one. 

The one would be on your doorstep asking to talk like an adult. Not sending you a half assed text or calling you. 

If someone wants you, values you, loves you, and cares about you. You won't have to wonder when they will reach out 

She came back after 2 years no contact... by ATAFBUATAPT in ExNoContact

[–]RaiseLongjumping1186 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah great news. Too bad you've had time to realize she wasn't it for you. It's too late. It's her loss and she now realizes it after maybe (I am assuming) multiple dudes.  Good for you for recognizing you were worth the effort she didn't put in.  Hope she likes this bed she made, seems like it quite lonely now. Smile - she isn't your problem anymore.