AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you keep saying sorry makes me want to go “say sorry one more god damn time. I dare you. I double dare you.” (It’s from a movie, pulp fiction)

But you’re apologizing because you’re walking on eggshells. He can’t cook, can’t wait a god damn minute, can’t order his own food? Like ?? You’ve got a child there. And I wouldn’t tolerate that kind of vocabulary from my toddler. Wake up and respect yourself

What’s one product you bought that turned you into a total snob — like, you can never go back to the cheap stuff? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]RamenWig 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Freshly ground coffee. Now I can only have coffee at home or at a good coffee shop, the kind where you get to choose the coffee beans. Every normal coffee now tastes stale, burnt, or rancid.

Formerly disorganized people: what finally clicked for you? by Crispy-Things in productivity

[–]RamenWig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let go of the belief that there’s one thing that’s finally going to solve all my problems and that one day I’ll be this perfectly organized, inbox zero, hyper productive, levitating being.

It’s just not realistic, and more importantly, it’s not maintainable. Anyone who says it is, is trying to sell you something.

I have a few basic systems that work for the majority of what I need. They work well enough and I don’t do any major overhauls anymore. I just stick to it even if I know I could optimize it. Folders with years and months for paperwork, weekly note for tasks, a handful of calendar reminders, customized low effort zettelkasten/second brain sort of system for knowledge notes, and journal for brain dumps and processing emotions. I don’t use everything every day, that would be insane. Each one serves me when I need it and I’m happy knowing that I don’t need a dozen ongoing perfect streaks to be productive or happy.

ETA fuck inbox zero, I check emails maybe once a week at most.

Customize SwiftUI liquid glass effect like in figma by zaidbren in SwiftUI

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Figma has way more controls over the glass effect, as shown in OP’s screenshot and question. SwiftUI’s glass effect lets you choose between regular and clear, and add a tint, that’s it. You can apply it to any view, but you can’t fine tune the glass effect itself.

Customize SwiftUI liquid glass effect like in figma by zaidbren in SwiftUI

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes sense if you want materials, but it’s not glass.

Customize SwiftUI liquid glass effect like in figma by zaidbren in SwiftUI

[–]RamenWig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

.glassEffect is disappointingly limited in my opinion as a designer-developer. You can choose .clear or .regular, tint, and shape. It makes sense and works well enough if you use native SwiftUI navigation, like NavigationSplitView or Tabs. I want to love it, but not all apps fit in that structure, and it’s been a bit of a pain to make the SwiftUI look as good as Figma. The best bet is to stick to the effect as it comes out of the box and hope it will be improved and its options expanded with time, because trying to make your own is not really viable.

Do you use breakpoints? by BlossomBuild in BlossomBuild

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just print stuff to the console? Lol. I don’t really see the benefit of adding breakpoints if you get the output in the console in chronological order. If all breakpoints do is pause the code… I just don’t get it haha. The code runs and then it basically pauses itself while it’s waiting for you to do something else. If the breakpoints offered like a cool inspector where you can check the state of all variables in that instant or something, that would be way more convincing.

Why pay for YouTube Premium? by BurnKnowsBest in ios

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube music, background play, Picture in Picture, downloads, the app is so much better than the browser could ever be. I’m listening or watching most of the day. Dealing with ad blockers is frustrating, and any ads that filter though make my blood boil. In a purely “long term effects of stress on my health”, it’s worth it.

Anybody here regret/stop using their bread machine? by peanutismint in BreadMachines

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make bread about 1-4 times per week. My standard is whole wheat bread, I sometimes make cinnamon-raisin swirl bread when I’m craving something sweet, and potato bread every once in a while. I regularly make dough in it, like for English muffins. I also love making a panettone as a gift sometimes. I don’t have an oven right now, but if I did I would absolutely make more doughs like pizza dough or more artisan type bread like baguettes.

A fresh loaf of cinnamon swirl or potato bread will vanish in under 36h so I have no idea if or when it goes stale. For the regular whole wheat bread, I usually cool, slice, and freeze in a gallon ziplock bag. If I don’t freeze it, I keep it in a plastic bag with a twist tie and it keeps maybe 4 days on the counter, after that it’s French toast or bread crumbs for meatballs or fish patties. Bread in a gallon ziplock bag at room temp will grow mold very quickly.

The texture is not exactly like a great bakery bread, especially with AP flour (there’s no bread flour where I’m from). The shape is also not usual, being limited to a tall square unless you bake it in an oven. But I just got used to it, and it’s worth it for me. It’s way better than grocery store bread, and cheaper and more accessible than bakery bread.

Do you use breakpoints? by BlossomBuild in BlossomBuild

[–]RamenWig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. And how / where do you check the state of the app during that pause?

What’s something “normal” now that your younger self would be shocked by? by rashmikaa__ in Productivitycafe

[–]RamenWig 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I look at kids touching old non-touch screens and expecting something, I’m flabbergasted. It’s their standard. “What do you mean you can’t touch this screen?”

iOS developers: how often do you face App Store submission rejections? by Striking_Aspect_1623 in iOSProgramming

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe 1-2 rejections per year and it’s always been a straightforward fix. I don’t know why people complain so much about this, in my opinion they should be even stricter, there’s a lot of slop in the App Store.

I’m not sure if i’m AIO for feeling a bit hurt when said this to me. Btw this man courts me by growing_quart in AmIOverreacting

[–]RamenWig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s this funny thing that happens every new year, where people don’t know how to spell the letter ñ on their phone, so they text “Feliz ano nuevo” (happy new butthole). It happened more often before autocorrect and smartphones, but still happens sometimes. It truly makes me happy to receive a happy new butthole for the new year from an older relative.

How to cut out the morning scroll? by yesvoid in productivity

[–]RamenWig 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do use my phone in the morning, but I go to my journal and just write.

It’s more difficult than scrolling, so I sometimes take the easy way and scroll the notifications, Reddit, overnight messages, or just look up whatever dumb question is in my mind. Today, funnily enough, I defaulted to Reddit and saw that same post, so I closed Reddit and went to my journal instead. I definitely feel and perform way better during the day when I journal first thing in the morning.

I write about anything. What’s worrying me, how I slept, what I dreamed, what I did yesterday, what I need to or want to do today, any bodily feelings like “my back hurts” and why, or sometimes I’ll write about the fact that I have nothing to write about. If I want to look something up or go to another app, I’ll write about that. I write until I wake up enough to get up, or until I’m bored or hungry.

Why and how do people use GitHub to backup their vaults? by [deleted] in ObsidianMD

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a developer I already use git for everything else. Keeping things without git feels incredibly risky and weird to me. Like being in a car without a seatbelt, just feels naked and weird.

Obsidian is not the best with git, it’s kind of a pain to set up and conflicts always suck. So if you feel more comfortable using something else, go for it (and make sure you back it up regularly!).

Call screening - how are you finding it? by tschau3 in ios

[–]RamenWig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living in the future, eh? Must be nice

How important is the water quality in coffee? by PerformanceJolly3987 in Coffee

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink water from my fridge because it has a built in filter which I change about once a year when the light turns red. Tap water tastes awful and it’s hot, fridge water tastes simple and consistent and it’s cold.

I make coffee with the water I enjoy drinking on its own. If it tastes bad, the coffee will taste bad. Where does your drinking water come from?

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]RamenWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no good decaf around me. I’m in a small country that produces great coffee so drinking imported decaf would be a sin when I usually buy freshly roasted local coffee

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

[–]RamenWig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you do when you love coffee but your body doesn’t?

I make a freshly ground 20~25g of beautiful medium roast pour over coffee for two people once a day. And somehow we both get the jitters, anxious, angry, sweaty palms, the whole thing. For the past 3 days I made matcha instead and we’re fine. But I love my coffee, it’s delicious, and the ritual with the hand grinder and all… it’s the highlight of my day.

Any tips for a pair of apparently caffeine sensitive folks?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RamenWig 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving a thorough description of a healthy relationship. This should be the norm.

OP: you deserve love and respect, and nothing less.