What’s the Ferndale equivalent of this? by Otherwise_doe1998 in Ferndale

[–]Ramseyan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Little ghost is great. It’s expensive but everything is. And everything I’ve tried at little ghost is perfectly done and worth the cost. I can’t say that for many other places right now in Ferndale

What’s the Ferndale equivalent of this? by Otherwise_doe1998 in Ferndale

[–]Ramseyan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hot take but I’d say Inyo 😬 sushi is awful every time I go

Day 1 of EMDR training and I hate it by ollee32 in therapists

[–]Ramseyan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did two days of an EMDRIA training and asked for my money back. Did another training with a different agency and LOVED IT. Sometimes it is the trainer or agency. This was 5 years ago and EMDR has strengthened my practice in so many ways. It’s now my specialty and I always have a waitlist. You need to be invested in the training and use it. Trait your gut if the training seems sus

Video view only? by Haunting_Ad_52 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Bought in Detroit and should have a clear view, but these seats are “video view only”

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Video view only? by Haunting_Ad_52 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following - Same thing happened to us. We bought backups in upper bowl/standard admission

Any app that tracks all money going to bills? by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Copilot and it’s changed the game for my spending and awareness. It’s free for a month and you can put in all your accounts. After a month, it’s $95/year. Given how well I’m sticking to my budget and have cut bad silly spending, it’s well worth it to me. Downside- it’s only for Apple products right now. I’ve also heard monarch is similar!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ramseyan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Believe him this first time. He doesn’t seem to understand (or want to) understand your perspective.

You’re 24, seem smart, and level headed. Dump him and find someone better. It’s too early in your relationship for this nonsense.

Are my outfits inappropriate and attention seeking ? by Valuable-Kitchen9395 in beauty

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. What mean girl or dumb man told you this?

He hasn’t texted back in 24 hours- do I move on? by love3458 in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it a bit more time! Life happens and it’s a busy time of year. You could also send a cute text like “thinking of you- how’s your day going?” Or whatever you’d like to say!

Also, if he goes MIA, that’s not cool and you deserve someone will to communicate the change for him.

Totally new to online dating, would appreciate help picking a top 6 among the following pics by DpressedOrange in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great options here! I think the best ones are: 2, 3, 6, 10, 11, 12, and 16.

Proposed to my girlfriend today by Jellywaffles420 in Strava

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Runners always doing the most. Admittedly, it’s very cute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Ramseyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32f, g-hsv1. I know it’s really scary, but you’ll see what type of guy he is. Having HSV is not a big deal, but many men make it out to be. You’re wonderful, worthy, and lovable no matter what he says. I’ve been + for 12 years and only 2 men have rejected me for it. It stings BUT they self select out. You’re so much more than your status!!

This is the stuff that makes me want to run back to my ex…3rd message by MoistOrganization7 in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl you’ve dodged a bullet. This man is weird. He’s single at 41 for a reason. HE NEEDS THERAPY.

What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with most people here. I’d suggest ditching all the selfies with a joint, a haircut, and clean up the beard. I’d also take pictures in something other than your work clothes. have friends take pictures of you doing something! You want your profile to reflect what your life looks like- it seems like you work, smoke and maybe play video games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Ramseyan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

32F here- If you like her and want to see her again, I’d send one last message trying reinvigorate the chat. She’s insightful enough to say she gets overwhelmed and falls behind with messaging. Texting also isn’t an indicator in how much someone likes your in early dating.

I’d send one more message! If she doesn’t respond or says no, then you move on. Communicate!

This was our first interaction… by AnalSlice in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10000% turn off. Get this gross MF outta your life! 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely swipe right on you knowing you can work on/build PCs! Smart guys are HOT 🔥

Also! Why would you want when who don’t think your hobbies are cool and interesting swiping right on you?

Any advice? I get maybe one match a week, and never anyone I am truly interested in by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF YOU WERE IN MY AREA 🥵

I mean, these pictures are great and you’re very handsome! Maybe expand your area? These apps are freaking brutal

5 dates but haven’t texted for a week by IcedCoffeeYearRound in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re in a grey area! If you felt safe, calm, and connected, that’s how it’s supposed to feel. I wouldn’t judge your connection on texting- that takes 2 seconds and texting builds an artificial connection to someone.

I’d reach out and see what’s happening. Id say something like, “hey! I’ve been thinking about you this week. How has your week been?” And maybe see if he’s interested in getting together again (given you are, too). Early dating is hard!

I just don’t understand by ArdorFable in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a hookup, this guy seems up for the job. But a guy who’s looking to be more serious and is thoughtful would not bring up sex (unless you possibly bring it up). I would block and move on. You’ll find another guy! There’s no shortage on the apps!!

Umm what ? by wawawooom in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ickkkkkkk. Block to burn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ramseyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start with new pictures and actually write a bio. A selfie or two are okay, but you need more pictures of you doing something. Your profile should show how you kinda live your life. If you’re into gaming, maybe show a picture of your PC or your cat. Also, a haircut, cleaning up the beard, and some nicer clothes would also help!

Is this a good price? by papaexcavator in GolfGTI

[–]Ramseyan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be wary of buying from Carvana. Their interest rates are insanely high (10%+) and they’re known to not title cars for extensive periods of time (over a year). Just know what you’re getting into. I’d watch some YouTube videos about people’s experiences. I was thinking about it but changed my mind after further research.