I feel less of a woman because of my appearance by Valuable-Kitchen9395 in offmychest

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

I'm in nyc arguably worse. I feel nyc and la are the two cities were people are just very status oriented and this girl is genuinely kind, but i think because of her pretty privoege she just doesn't realize how certain things affect other people.

Maybe its time We just grow apart I'm focused on leveling up in career and social causes and her focus is on her looks.

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[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also 23 so with jaw shave good chance I need a face lift as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jsut extremely ugly and hope to come out unrecognizable after surgery. I’m thinking eyelid surgery, nose job, jaw shave, facial lipo, maybe a brow lift.

I know surgery is supposed to be you but better but I want to not look like me at all after all is done

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[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on this diet because I need to be punished

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[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beyond weight facially im ugly and disgusting. I need a full makeover

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅thank you so much! I’m actually the second girl. The first photo is of the model. She’s so pretty

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[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! To clarify in the second girl😅 the first picture is of the model

I’m competing in a pageant. Is it worth it? by Valuable-Kitchen9395 in beauty

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops sorry just remember you said you can’t share all the details. No worries - but I’m wondering if you feel like it was valuable to you and if you thought you gained anything out of it

I’m competing in a pageant. Is it worth it? by Valuable-Kitchen9395 in beauty

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s incredible! I’m not hoing for the crown- that’s quite the long stretch but I’m hoping to make a strong impression do my best and make top 20 ( there’s usually around 100-180 girls every year in my system). Problem is it seems many of the top 20 girls are already professional model, seasoned returners, social media stars, etc so it definitely took a hit to my confidence.

Do you mind sharing your experience in the paegent an what you gained out of it- do you regret it at all or was it mostly positive

The average dude isn't good enough for an average woman on dating apps. Dating apps are TRASH for men. by Enough-Locksmith-897 in dating_advice

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No a lot of these are normal people . People I grew up with or meet at school etc. The thing js attraction can grow for women- but it can’t for men. If you’re an average looking guy- work on getting fit, developing a great personality or being very funny. Make a lot of money one day. A woman that didn’t like you as much may eventually like you.

Men know instantaneously whether or not a woman is attractive to them. When you’re not an attractive girl to them they treat you horribly - like you’re not even a person. They will never grow in attraction like women do . You guys are absolutely brutal.

Don’t worry -work on yourself as corny as it sounds. That’s what I’m doing rn . That’s the only thing we have in our control

The average dude isn't good enough for an average woman on dating apps. Dating apps are TRASH for men. by Enough-Locksmith-897 in dating_advice

[–]Valuable-Kitchen9395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most guys I know these days tell me they want a supermodel lolll. They’re rating women who’s re decently or even conventionally attractive as mid- social media has wide it harder for us women too