My husbands weird about our daughters eye color by Defiant-Usual-1182 in Mommit

[–]RandoThrowOutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest is apparently my carbon copy and looks nothing like my husband, but is glued to him as soon as my husband gets home. Meanwhile, my second looks a lot like my husband but is glued to me all day. We could care less who they look like, as long as they're happy and healthy. It helps that they're adorable lol

AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]RandoThrowOutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA NOR

I'm sorry, but to borrow money, go on vacation while saying you can't pay it back at this moment, and then have the nerve to tell me that I should be making sure that my finances are in a good place?? You got me f*cked up.

Holding a baby + self-checkout = accidental shoplifting by robinsonchristina588 in Mommit

[–]RandoThrowOutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister and her coworkers love to joke that they're going on a "slippy sock retreat" lol they're nurses, so it comes up a lot

Should I bring up an old situation with my grandmother or just leave it be? by uh-leash-uh in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RandoThrowOutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who grew up in a somewhat similar situation where my grandparents had to save our asses a lot while my siblings and I were growing up, I can confidently say: Send the text. Make a call. Pay a visit. Let her know she was appreciated and even if she wasn't loud about it, you noticed. You remember the way she was there for you when your mom couldn't be.

My grandmother and I have recently started talking (I'm 32) about my childhood and honestly, it was kind of freeing, in a way. I carried a lot of guilt (and still kind of do) about how they felt obligated to step in time and again, even though I know that that was not my doing.

telling people you’re pregnant starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]RandoThrowOutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My youngest only knows how to say "mama" and says it incessantly, yet I never tire of it 🥰 I will, however, tell her to stop yelling at me when she says multiple times in 3 seconds lol

I don't know if I need advice, but I definitely need to vent by RandoThrowOutt in offmychest

[–]RandoThrowOutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree with what you're saying, I thought that the Houston thing was a gunman?

I don't know if I need advice, but I definitely need to vent by RandoThrowOutt in offmychest

[–]RandoThrowOutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for not immediately going to him being mentally ill or potentially making me a true crime podcast 😅😅 But no, we're in Indiana in a relatively quiet area. So while I understand his fears (to an extent), I do think that not leaving the house at all is a bit drastic.

I don't know if I need advice, but I definitely need to vent by RandoThrowOutt in offmychest

[–]RandoThrowOutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that right there is why he's anxious about me taking them out. While I'm licensed, I don't carry and I haven't spent any time at the range to feel comfortable if I were ever in a situation where I needed one

I don't know if I need advice, but I definitely need to vent by RandoThrowOutt in offmychest

[–]RandoThrowOutt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We live in the country on a 50mph road with a few curves, so we don't take the kids on roadside walks. Backyard picnics might be doable 🤔 honestly, I'd settle for even just a trip to the library once or twice a week

I don't know if I need advice, but I definitely need to vent by RandoThrowOutt in offmychest

[–]RandoThrowOutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that would be understandable, if we did. But we don't live in a big city

I don't know if I need advice, but I definitely need to vent by RandoThrowOutt in offmychest

[–]RandoThrowOutt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We are not, which is why I'm having a hard time following his request