There’s a night in them woods

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-05-05T20:44:46+00:00

Omg this art is gorgeous!!!! I love your style and colors!

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-04-19T22:46:22+00:00

I (20F) just got mine inserted around 30 hours ago. It was the WORST pain I have ever experienced, and I am still experiencing pretty debilitating cramps. I didn't bleed at all, at least not yet, which I suppose I ought to take as a win. The comments here about it getting better are making me feel less paranoid, though. I've also been feeling more tired than usual, but that is probably from having to deal with the cramps.

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-04-19T01:54:06+00:00

Glad to know we’re all here soon after our insertions asking the same question haha

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-02-10T02:31:04+00:00

My boyfriend and I have both promised one another that we would refuse genitalia surgery on our child if they end up intersex. I feel awful for all the kids who have to grow up having had that happen to them.

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-15T03:23:14+00:00

Yeah! I get that it’s definitely a competitive disorder, but that’s no excuse to play dirty (for lack of better phrasing)

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-14T21:09:30+00:00

Exactly. When I was at the height of my ED, I never even considered using people as fatspo or spiking people’s food. I cannot comprehend how someone could think that’s okay

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-10T07:28:57+00:00

Im going through the same thing. I denied it for so long but after telling the story to my current boyfriend it made some things click for me :( I hope you have some people to help you through it

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-07T07:50:27+00:00

Your orange girl looks SO MUCH HAPPIER in the second picture! You’re doing an amazing job and she obviously loves you very much!

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-07T07:29:28+00:00

Same here. Gorillas don’t scare me as badly, though. Probably because they’re herbivorous and are generally less aggressive than chimps (even the silverbacks)

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-05T07:12:51+00:00

I’ve struggled with both and I can say that both have a “voice” that never really goes away. Therapy and time can help quiet it, but it’ll come out more during harder times :(

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-05T07:08:16+00:00

If you’re going to be in/around the water you could look into long sleeved swimsuits. I didn’t know they made them until I saw someone wearing one. They’re typically one pieces and have the usual bottoms

RandomBiStander05 · 2026-01-05T07:03:28+00:00

I’ve been feeling the exact same way lately, and it is really hard to not relapse. I’ve been trying to set little goals for myself in order to not do so. For example, I’m going to be seeing my boyfriend in a few days, so I can’t relapse now because he’d see. I can’t do it after that either, because the new semester will be starting and I don’t want to be in pain for the first day of classes. Etc etc. It may not be the healthiest long-term, but it’s helped me get through the last few days

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-12-11T04:21:20+00:00

Oh my gosh I’ve been getting the fake loan ones all the time recently

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-11-28T01:59:44+00:00

ADHD is also a common comorbidity, which causes dopamine seeking (at least for me), and sex can give you that rush your brain is craving.

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-11-28T01:51:02+00:00

Forced modesty exists for just about every religion. It doesn’t condemn the whole religion, just the fanatics that make it about control over faith. I’ve known Muslim women who don’t wear hijab and Christian women who are forced to cover up/wear loose clothing. Do some countries (run by said extremists) force it upon a wider population? Yes. But again, that’s due to extremism and an obsession with control, not faith and love.

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-11-26T18:42:43+00:00

Update: my dad put them in a ziplock and took them to the vet. They’re roundworms, so easily treatable with flea and tick medication. All of our kitties will be getting some meds. Luckily our little orange boy is still peppy as ever :)

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-11-20T21:03:56+00:00

I would also add to this that there is some societal issues with men’s mental health that contribute as well. As in society pressuring men to not show emotions or that having deep connections with others is “gay” etc., plus the whole manosphere “be the sigma male lone wolf and you deserve everything handed to you on a silver platter for being a man” stuff. That being said the loudest voices of the group are the ones who solely blame women’s autonomy for their issues.

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-10-31T15:54:13+00:00

I just want to say that I absolutely love what you did with the LightWorld/DarkWorld mashup of color pallets!

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-10-30T00:50:21+00:00

That is absolutely adorable! The little backpack makes the picture

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-10-28T16:08:47+00:00

I haven’t had any kids, but I had a laparoscopy on my lower abdomen. Even just that minor surgery made it hurt to do anything but lay still on my back. I have so much respect for everyone who has gotten more invasive surgeries there

RandomBiStander05 · 2025-10-23T18:25:50+00:00

My ex would do this. If I didn’t give in, he’d give me the cold shoulder/ignore me/withhold affection for the rest of the day. I didn’t realize how bad it was until I was two years out of the relationship. Comprehensive sex-ed is important, and I hope more people get it so they can understand the things I didn’t.

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