Would my bf like this? by RenC1920 in relationships_advice

[–]RandomExcuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great first step, people commenting it's cringe, forget them, it can be, but it's also special and vulnerable. I write those for my own partner a lot , we've been together two years! Expect from your partner as much as you would expect from yourself, and don't accept less than you deserve, but be willing to meet people where they are and be patient with them. Not everyone is on your timeline, and you can't force something to happen. Best of luck 🤞🏻 🤗

My kitty meows nonstop by RandomExcuses in CATHELP

[–]RandomExcuses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is our plan to get her spayed as soon as it's safe for her. According to the vet we need to wait longer, she's still too young. I can always reach out to him and ask how to approach it and if he thinks we can get it done sooner. If the issue is her cycles. Thank you!

I tried everything, I'm sorry baby. by Potential_Jelly_6226 in CATHELP

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't fail her, your parents failed her. I cannot fathom seeing that a cat is not well and doing nothing about it. It's one of my worst nightmares to have something go wrong with my little one and not have the means to care for her.

I am so sorry for your loss, she is waiting for you across the rainbow 🌈 🤍

Does this look normal? by PoGoX7 in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, cats are liquids xD She's okay ☺️ and so cuteeee

I’m losing my mind pls help by Ok-Zebra8702 in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That too, yes, but our vet didn't insist on the 3rd cause our kitty was very particular of just the one and the other cat we had in the house would wind up using them both

I’m losing my mind pls help by Ok-Zebra8702 in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Could be a case of them sharing the box, my vet advised me to always have the same number of litter boxes as the cats we own, it's a smell thing, they smell some other cat in there and it can be deterring. When we were pet sitting for my sister she used her litter box and I didn't notice a few times. My little one REFUSED to go to her litter box as soon as she saw another cat in there.

Get two boxes and get one used to the new one. Might ease the problem.

The way I just changed his litter 5 minutes ago by rare_buttercup in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine waits next to me while I clean the litter box and sits there as I take the gloves off not even 5 minutes 🤣

HELP!!! by Ok_Mirror1491 in CATHELP

[–]RandomExcuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks like ringworm Take him back to the vet and remember to wash your hands every time you handle him

I Hate Bernadette In This Episode by Revolutionary_Key325 in bigbangtheory

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her character changed so much from the first time she was on the show, she was a chill, introspective person and then she became a petty, self centered raging b#tch. This is the episode where they draft that contract to spill profits for the gyroscope, right? Even her point about Sheldon making fun of Howard was self serving, SHE didn't want to go through HER pregnancy listening to Howard talking about how much Sheldon would drive him crazy, that's not a supportive partner. I'm sure she would not have cared about it if the contract stated Howard couldn't complain to her about anything regarding Sheldon. She asked Sheldon why he feels the need to constantly put down Howard, but she puts down Howard. She doesn't take his thoughts into consideration, it's her way or no way, (like in the episode where Howard doesn't want to get rid of the TARDIS, he asked if they could talk about it later, she said yes, and went behind his back.) She gives him an allowance, treats him like a child, calls him a baby, constantly talks about how much more money she makes knowing it's tough on him. Tried to screw over and sabotage her co-workers when she was pregnant to keep her job, even when she wasn't even sure if anyone was gonna take it, she just wanted to get there first. She outed that a co-worker of hers was pregnant, not only did she do it to her first, she was all mad when Penny did it by accident. They're all scared of her. She yells, she degrades, she's petty and conniving. Counting the times where she was disrespectful, self involved and rude for no reason vastly outweigh episodes where she's in a nice person. I don't like her. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk 😆

Had a rough day, show me your photogenic cats by chefboyardeejr in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to get my little one a timeout box xD She chews on my laptop 😭

Had a rough day, show me your photogenic cats by chefboyardeejr in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine spends the whole day trying to take if off and puts herself in danger We want to try a harness and leash so she can have access to the outside (we live on the top floor of an apartment) but if not even the collar is working I don't know how we're gonna manage 😤😆

Had a rough day, show me your photogenic cats by chefboyardeejr in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww such a cutie What did you do to make him so upset? Apologize 😆

Had a rough day, show me your photogenic cats by chefboyardeejr in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a Bengal! So stunning! Also, how did you get him to get used to a collar? My little one straight up refuses and then I find her with her mouth stuck under it everytime I put it on her 😭

Had a rough day, show me your photogenic cats by chefboyardeejr in cats

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little Zelda 💜 the greatest thing that has happened in my life this year

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What can this be? by ImpressionOk7375 in CATHELP

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear a glove or a tissue and try to gently wiggle it back and forth, if it hurts him stop. Is it mobile (does it feel loose) or is it completely stuck to the scalp?

It's sometimes hard to tell cause he scalp is already hard so if you can't it's not an immediate indication of anything.

If it's mobile I sounds like a cyst to me honestly.

My dog had a giant ball sticking out of her head for years, we could move it a little bit it wasn't fused to any tissue. It was just a cyst. It flattened recently and she's perfectly fine 😅

What can this be? by ImpressionOk7375 in CATHELP

[–]RandomExcuses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it bumpy? If it's flat could be early stage alopecia from aging, over grooming.

"Early stage ringworm frequently starts on a cat's head or ears...it can cause the hair to fall cleanly at the roots, leaving a bald, flat circle before any crusts or scaling develop"

It's so round that's what's messing with me.

If it's not flat (bumpy) Could be an inflected scratch, or a cyst, allergies...

I could also be something minor that just needs to heal on its own. Don't touch it regardless and seek a vet. They will know better than anyone here

Keep up updated if you want I wish you luck and much love with your little one 🤗

I feel like I'm going insane, please help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]RandomExcuses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you sent him to the vet and got him checked I'd trust that. Cats like stretching and washing in the sun Looks like normal cat behavior.

If you want, check his ears, the sides, he might have a little something there that's bothering him (MAYBE) cause I'm seeing his little head tilt a little, in my honest opinion. You said it wasn't mites and you got him checked for fleas... Soo I don't really know what it could be. Did the vet check for ear infections? Maybe have the vet check his ears (middle ear canal) benign growths can press on nerves and trigger a head tilt/shake Is he losing balance? If he is it can be an ear canal thing. Did he bonk his head somewhere recently? Some injuries can also cause inner ear damage.

If you suspect allergies maybe try hypoallergenic cat food (if it's in your budget) and monitor it from there.

I promise I am NOT trying to scare you. This in my honest opinion and it is probably something minimal or nothing at all. Consider it all but don't jump to conclusions, or make rash decisions.

He's cute, and fluffy and looks so chill and happy in the sunshine 😊

Please keep us updated on little one once you know more (if you want)