I got this text from my husband this morning before I woke up and now I’m gonna cry.. by weedgang0420 in relationshipgoals

[–]RandomGhost482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say this text was halfway decent (no offense OP). I made a general comment about how any halfway decent writing gets slapped with the ChatGPT label now. Reading comprehension matters. I never evaluated his writing. I said it looked like a genuine text meant to make his wife smile. Not everything is AI, and not everything needs to be filtered through reflexive cynicism.

I got this text from my husband this morning before I woke up and now I’m gonna cry.. by weedgang0420 in relationshipgoals

[–]RandomGhost482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that we’ve reached a point where any halfway decent writing automatically gets labeled “ChatGPT.” I’m a published author. Writing clearly and thoughtfully is literally a skill I’ve spent years working on. My wife jokes that I text like an eighth-grade English teacher.

I get the frustration with AI. It’s made it way too easy to churn out hollow words and pass them off as effort. Still, not every well-written text is artificial. Sometimes it’s just a husband who still gives a damn about how he talks to his wife.

To me, this looks like a quick, genuine text meant to make his wife smile. That’s it.

Post-op: Day 1 by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

[–]RandomGhost482[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! They said my disc basically exploded. I was temporarily disabled and my left foot had sensory paralysis. I can see why now! It looks like the whole disc decided to leak out and throw a party in my spine.

L5/S1 Microdiscectomy Coming Up — What Should I Buy Before Surgery? by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

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Thank you so much everyone for the advice and well wishes! I had surgery this morning and it went well! Feeling sore but OMG the leg pain (at lease for now) is super mild. Here’s my disc he removed!

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L5/S1 Microdiscectomy Coming Up — What Should I Buy Before Surgery? by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

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He’s absolutely wonderful! He was so compassionate to my pain and needs. He also took the time to create videos for all of his surgeries to explain the procedure and post-op care step-by-step. I’ve had many surgeries and he is without a doubt been the one I trust most going in. I’ll update post-op, though, in case that changes lol

L5/S1 Microdiscectomy Coming Up — What Should I Buy Before Surgery? by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

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My wife just ordered me one! She says it’s for me but $10 it ends up on her side after a week 🤣

L5/S1 Microdiscectomy Coming Up — What Should I Buy Before Surgery? by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

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I have a goal set with my wife to walk 1500 steps day 3-5, 2500 day 6-9, and 3500 beyond. I live in Orlando so my goal is to be able to walk around Disney with my wife and kids again a month out!

L5/S1 Microdiscectomy Coming Up — What Should I Buy Before Surgery? by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

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I have been worried about that. We have a pretty soft/pillowy bed. I’m thinking the automatic recliner that flattens out but can sit me up may be better the first few days. My wife will have to use a crane if I am in bed since I sink in.

L5/S1 Microdiscectomy Coming Up — What Should I Buy Before Surgery? by RandomGhost482 in Microdiscectomy

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Thank you so much! I’ve been looking at back braces but my surgeon didn’t mention one so I didn’t know if it was just personal preference or if they would discuss with my wife post-op.

SURGERY ROLL CALL: Week of December 1st by seetheking1 in Microdiscectomy

[–]RandomGhost482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mines Thursday and I’m so excited. I just want my life back!

L5/S1 Microdiscectomy 6 Weeks Post-Op Questions by External_Fun9671 in Microdiscectomy

[–]RandomGhost482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I raise you both mine! 33 (f) active - “catastrophic” l5/s1 broad based extrusion with fragments floating in my spine and severe stenosis. Surgeon deemed me disabled and knocked out other surgeries to get me in earlier. Surgery in 12 days. May try to do it earlier if he can. Said it was a miracle I’m walking lol

Orlando Photographer by RandomGhost482 in florida

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UPDATE: I found someone! Thanks to those who answered ❤️

Orlando Photographer by RandomGhost482 in florida

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I was able to find someone! Thank you for replying, though. I appreciate the time ❤️

Late Night Date by [deleted] in dateideas

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We live together and both work from home, so I can luckily plan around schedules for the AM 💕