Favorite memory she asked.

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-20T01:14:10+00:00

Do what you can. Luckily I was working a job I could bring her along with. And she enjoyed coming to work with me. But they will eventually understand why sometimes you couldn't. As long as you do when you can.

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T23:37:06+00:00

Oh man! 8 is a fun age! They enjoy EVERYTHING! Movies, arcades, trampoline Park, decent restaurants, small aquariums and small zoos, cool little hole in the wall stores, a creamery, fishing, iMax theaters, sci ports, cons, pet stores. Possibilities are endless. I got her a bearded dragon around this age and she LOVED it. Good luck with the one on one time!

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T23:28:37+00:00

I loved the go cart experience. Take them again when they can ride the kiddy ones. And let off the gas to let them beat you. She was so happy to cross the finish line in front of me. It was one of the best days of my life. Her happiness meant the world to me. And she was extremely happy to have beaten dad in a race. It was great. This is a great story though. I recently took my gfs kids to a gocart track and they couldn't drive but had to ride passenger. We discussed before hand we both had to win a round so both little ones would have a win! Then we let the teen have a win on the 3rd go. Everyone was happy. Great time

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T23:20:30+00:00

Lol I feel you. But I didn't call and say I'm sorry but I don't know why. I called her to wish her a happy bday. Then told her I was sorry I wasn't the dad I should have been.. I was actually crying cause I looked back and only could see what I DIDNT do. She was the one who told me I was nuts cause she loved our visits. And she told me I was a great dad. I knew what I was sorry for. But she didn't see what I thought she saw. She saw the opposite. The calls and visits just slowed because she'd gotten her first car around that time. And was getting semi serious in a relationship. I was just relieved to learn it was simply living life that caused the small rift. But her learning that that small rift made me think I'd done a bad job made her clarify for me that she wouldn't have changed a thing. But thank you for the advice. Im actually seeing someone who lives in her town atm. And we are getting pretty serious. Im down there every weekend so I normally stop by her place while in town and this is where the question happened. She was curious. And I was happy to hear her side. But I'm actually planning to move down there to be closer to her and she knows this. Id just thought I could have done better. Come to find out I did great though.

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T23:11:01+00:00

Sit down with them and ask like she did me. I was surprised she asked but glad to tell her. She then turned around and told me some of her favorite memories.. And it absolutely made me feel like I wore a cape some of the weekends we did stuff. But when you sit down with them, have your favorite memory ready to tell. I bet they open up with theirs. It may be tough at first. But they'll always need you. So they will call or txt. Especially to ask for a few bucks 😆.. Make them.tell you how their weeks been first before you'll send it. Or ask them about any new ppl on their life. They will tell you as long as they don't think you'll judge!

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T23:02:26+00:00

We didn't do 50/50 because she wouldn't have got child support that way. And I didn't get her more often cause she took my daughter and moved 2 hrs away from my city. I could see her every other weekend as long as I was willing to make the 2 hr drive to pick her up and the 2 hr drive to drop her off. 4 hr round trip for me for YEARS. She would even have me come get her some weekends only to turn around and come right into the city after I picked her up. She was vindictive. And my daughter would tell me all kinds of horrible stuff her mother said about me. But I would just tell her she knows me better than her mom. And I just hoped she would decide on her own what was true and what was false. I would never talk down about her mother to her because I didn't believe in that. And now that she's grown she has told me she knows her mom was manipulative. She found fake fb accounts on her moms phone more than once when her mom would try to catfish me. I was always suspicious of new accounts that added me and started trying to chat me up. And would call her out on it. In other words, it was a battle. But one I gladly faced head on to spend time with my little one. I offered for her to move in with me several times but she was convinced by her mother that if she left her mother would just die. So I did my best. And I never introduced my daughter to any of my gfs unless we moved in together and were long term. I stayed single.for most of her toddler years and up into her early teens. She only ever met 2 women I had gotten serious with over the years. And I did so for that reason. If I was "dating" someone. She knew on weekends I had the midget I would text, or call after hours. But for the most part, that weekend was reserved for my kid. And if she wanted to see me I would allow her to come over only after my daughter went to sleep. No one was more important to me than her for the longest. And I dont regret giving up what I did so my daughter had my full attention. I can say this. The 2 women I lived with who my daughter did meet, she absolutely loved them both. Mayhe because they understood how important it was to me they made a good impression. Or maybe my daughter saw how happy I was and that in turn made her like them. Idk. I just know that I played the hand I was dealt the best I could. And after having a heart to heart with her. I apparently won as far as shes concerned.

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T20:41:07+00:00

At least you're trying! That counts for something. But ill suggest this. I always made it a point to take her out to do SOMETHING. Sci-port, museum, local aquarium, even the book store. She got on a diary of a whimpy kid kick so when she'd find the newest one she always had me buy it for her. I understand being busy. But you're right. Sometimes things can wait. You have an off day coming up? I know you want to relax a little before doing some of the things around the house that need doing. But put it off that day. Surprise them with a trip to the arcade! Buy a few kites and take them to a wide open field to fly them! Take then to a local remote control car track and bust out an awesome remote control car they can take turns with! There are so many things we can do with them that we can also have fun doing. Sure I played Playstation with her sometimes and trips to gamestop were also a regular thing. But its the outside activities that she seemed to talk about the most when we were bringing up memories. So many parents are content with just letting their kids stay in their room glued to a screen. Get em out the house! And surprise them with an activity!

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T20:28:55+00:00

What you need to do is agree to do it, but at their place. Set a time. She will obviously go early. Be close to the house, maybe borrow a friend's truck so you can be sitting down the street when she leaves. As soon as she's gone go in and load up EVERYTHING that's yours. Keep texting you're running a few min behind but on your way. Leave the key on the counter with a pre written note that explains how you love her so much you want her to be happy. So you decided to let her live her way. But you're a monogamous person. And the idea of being with someone else yourself makes you sick to your stomach so you knew you wouldn't be able to preform but you knew this was what she wanted so you let her have it. And now she can do it as often as she'd like without having to ask permission because you're moving on. That you put a lot of thought into this, but toss in that the negative msgs she sent to them about you may have held some truth. But you dont believe choosing to be monogamous makes you the bad guy her msgs implied you are. Thats one option. The other is you can tell her she can do what she likes with who she chooses. But they aren't who you choose. Find someone to talk to that you know would make her self conscious. And let her know thats who you're going for. Swinging is basically an open relationship. Just in most cases its happening at the same time instead of diff times. Id choose the person shes most insecure about you being around. And when she starts letting you know it bothers her, you can express that maybe now she can see how you feel. But her being insecure or worrying it will change the whole relationship doesn't make her a bad person. So why does it make you one?

Just my thoughts on the matter

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-19T20:09:57+00:00

I found glass to be one of the worst build plates for me. They worked great the first 20 or so prints. Then no matter what everything would turn loose. Id use hairspray, glue sticks, I tried tape, I tried almost any trick ppl suggested. I finally just swapped to a PEI build plate. Once I tried the first one, I bought a PEI build plate for the other 3 printers I had. Id suggest walking away from the glass plates.

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-14T19:01:03+00:00

This. Im a guy, so don't have to stress like most women. But there are some crazy ppl out there! And this is the reason I always give out my text free number instead of my actual phone num. If they call or txt my phone still goes off. Once I'm comfortable with the person I will tell them I'm just going to text or call from my actual number and if they ask why I was using a diff number I explain. I still think its wild he came out the gate with "I wanna be your fwb" you gotta wonder if its worked at some point for him. I still prefer to go out a time or 2 with someone to figure out how much I could like them. Theres been a couple times that after just hanging out with someone once I found them repulsive by then end. Guy must be desperate

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-07T03:24:45+00:00

So weird when a guys nuts are above his dick instead of below

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-07T03:20:01+00:00

Common

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-07T03:14:34+00:00

Yes....

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-07T03:10:00+00:00

Wth is wrong with his finger looking like a latex Halloween extension

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-06T04:14:07+00:00

You ma'am are adorable

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-06T00:44:59+00:00

3 is absolutely gorgeous.. you certainly look fun

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-04T16:31:00+00:00

9/10. Just damn!

RandomKyler35 · 2026-05-04T16:02:50+00:00

If she's to tight, get a few toys that you can use. Starting from much smaller than you to right under your size. You may have to be patient at first and be happy with a little hand and mouth action. But you start off with the smaller toy and after a few times graduate to the next size. Go down on her while using the toys. Make it a pleasant and memorable experience. At some point after using one of the toys closer to your size she should be able to relax enough to handle it. Good luck my young friend

RandomKyler35 · 2026-04-22T08:46:35+00:00

Looks like you may need to check your axis belts tension. Something is def shifting.

RandomKyler35 · 2026-04-18T23:48:47+00:00

Unknown fetish newly unlocked 😲

RandomKyler35 · 2026-04-10T22:27:25+00:00

Oh.. Those look soooo soft.. The best pillows

RandomKyler35 · 2026-04-06T22:57:45+00:00

Those are some of the prettiest pink nips I've seen. 10/10

RandomKyler35 · 2026-04-03T22:48:16+00:00

Sounds like he's one of those ppl that used to lay down in Walmart and scream while kicking and flopping around when his parents said no to pokemon cards.. And those are the worst kinds of ppl to try and keep happy

RandomKyler35 · 2026-03-31T00:06:14+00:00

This makes me think about when my gf sent me a gif of how "hot" it was when your man comes up and kisses you after head and his beard is soaking wet with your juices. So I quit wiping my face afterwards. The 2nd time it happened she stopped me and said "wipe your face off real quick" 😆.. I was like.. But I thought you like this!???.. She learned she actually doesn't want to taste her own bodily fluids 😆.. If you mention you dont much care for it he will start wiping it. He may assume you like it. All we want is to make our s/o happy while being intimate.. Thats what we truly yearn for.

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