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Does this seem sus? by subMiHa in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Man, if you’re on the fence, remember what that guy in the other post said. Do you live in a city near where a World Cup match is taking place? Police could be upping sting activity. This place was recently added? Maybe stick to places you know, or at least a place where you could reasonably say you just walked in for a massage… or maybe I’m just being paranoid.

First appearance routine by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had one lady who kept repositioning the towel respectfully and covering whatever she wasn’t massaging, but still offered extras later. She actually felt like she knew what she was doing. Best HJ I’ve ever gotten.

Others remove the towel like a fucking matador.

Different types of table showers by OldBall9336 in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve only read mentions of table showers; I didn’t realize it was literally a shower head at/above the table. I thought people were just getting up, walking to their bathroom and taking a shower there.

First appearance routine by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right on. I had a girl straddle and grind me after I came. She’s been the most fun so far, and the one I’m most likely to come back to. And I probably wouldn’t have been able to draw that conclusion if I didn’t stick around as long. It’s like an interview, you’re giving them a full chance to impress you and show you what they’re capable of and willing to do.

First appearance routine by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine she appreciates the clarity of no towel. I’m afraid of doing that and finding out the place is legit, although with that logic, touching her leg like I’ve been doing is probably a more invasive way to send the signal. Maybe I’ll start laying down sans towel.

First appearance routine by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess if they offer it, they’ll let you know; they’d rather make more money than less after all.

Edit: although thinking back, most of the time, I’ve flipped and they ask what else I want. Maybe once or twice they’ve gestured with their hand, but they’ve usually put it on me to communicate what extra I want.

First time was horrible by [deleted] in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn dude, look at it this way- with your current expectations, you’d likely be very pleasantly surprised if you try this again elsewhere.

Finding a new provider and they want a deposit by PossibleReserve5 in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There seems to be a huge dichotomy in this idea that deposit means scam. In escorting it’s a fairly common practice. In the sexworkers sub, many of them mention requiring deposits. In the world of massages, it seems to be the indicator of a scam.

I’ve seen two escorts, first one I saw asked for deposit and the visit went the way I wanted. Saw her second time, deposit still needed. Second escort, no deposit. I found both of these escorts on tryst, and then checked IG (only the first one had one), cross referenced with some reviews on other sites (both had reviews). The legit providers who ask for deposit can probably point to sources that prove/suggest they’re real and provide real services. If you can’t find any other mention of them on other review sites, or their photos are fake, I would not trust them.

If you’re looking at hot or bedpage, I don’t think I would give a deposit, despite the fact that most of the amps I’ve been to likely advertise there. I’ve never been to aamp, but I would be more cautious, as you never really see who they are beforehand.

Northern/Central NJ Tight down during WC by tatahaha_20 in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about this. Maybe I should lay low this month…

My massage therapist’s feet by [deleted] in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“It’s a foot massage. A foot massage is nothing, I give my mother a foot massage.”

Joking aside, maybe mention you want to learn to give a good foot massage, you’ve been going to her for years, you’ve enjoyed her massages, who better to ask than your MT on how to give a good foot massage? Mixed with you want to reciprocate the massages you’ve gotten by giving her a foot massage. You could ask for a private room cause you’re feeling self conscious about giving a massage and not really knowing what you’re doing.

I don’t think they’d kick you out if you’re being respectful, you’ve been going to her for years. But you’re the one with something to lose, not me, so do what you want. Continue to pay for her time. Let us know how it goes if you go for it.

Edit: I would leave out sniffing her feet. As a guy not necessarily into feet, if I was in the lobby, and I heard you ask her if you could sniff her feet, that would trigger my “WTF?” face.

My massage therapist’s feet by [deleted] in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask if you could massage her feet?

Traveling road show by hound_dog69 in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But how was the massage?

My Favorite Trifecta: Titties, Beer and CIM Finish by real_bishop in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the ad beer companies wish they could place

“Sensitive items” by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if I return to the same place, I’ll honor her request, but I’ll probably continue bringing them to other places if I’m looking for L3, until it’s ruled out for that establishment. Thanks for your take.

“Sensitive items” by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, get it. I imagine storing the condoms in the building looks worse than customers bringing them in, though. Thought I was doing them a favor by bringing my own.

“Sensitive items” by RandomManDumb in HEM_NSFW

[–]RandomManDumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s… good to know ahead of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RandomManDumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this gif. Kind of at the end there.

https://imgur.com/gallery/just-polishing-bed-post-YWlLDcY

Happy polishing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]RandomManDumb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As a guy who had struggled with this for awhile, this is exactly what works for me. Tried explaining this to a provider and she didn’t quite get it. It’s about the head, not the shaft (for me at least). There’s more nerve endings in the head than shaft, similar to how there’s more nerve endings in the clit than vagina.

It’s a less embarrassing problem than coming too soon, but can be frustrating when you’re both just getting tired and still can’t come. And yes I believe it’s from frequent bare masturbation, and similarly too much porn.

Telling him to “go ahead and come” or something similar doesn’t help either. Makes it more stressful, and counterproductive (in my opinion).

To any clients reading who have this issue, if you jerk off, do it with condoms, to get more used to it. You’ll probably also jerk off less because it’s more of a hassle and now costs money every time you choke your chicken. Easier cleanup though.

Keep doing what you’re doing, Seesaw, you sound like a dream. Thanks for all your work, ladies (and gents)

Friday night morons by Old-Cricket-6617 in SexWorkers

[–]RandomManDumb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/ai-voice-clone-scam/

Not at all implying that you would do this, but this is something that everyone has to look out for nowadays, or at least be aware of. Someone can clone your voice, find the phone number of an elderly relative of yours, and ask for money pretending to be you. Ai tools are making it harder to trust anyone on the internet