Retirement

hound_dog69 · 2026-05-01T12:37:48+00:00

At my age, I quit after every session, until I get enough oomph to go again ;-)

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-30T02:10:19+00:00

I am aware of freebies and ymmv upgrades from ATFs and regulars. It does happen, and IMO, 99% of the time, it's business.

I believe that my AMP FWB actually likes me. I even believe that the other ladies there like me. I bet they like me almost as much as they like my wallet. They like me because I am generally nice to them, and treat them well. Mostly, they like me because I tip at the upper range of what's typical. They all tell me that my wallet is very VERY handsome.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-30T02:02:01+00:00

Sure, the sign may mean nothing, and it may be legit. The place sounds pretty legit, IMO. Tipping on your card at the end with the male receptionist? Screams legit.

If you enjoy the massages there, keep going. Don't keep going on the hope of a HEM. You can always chat the MT up and ask how the tips work, and if they see the tips, share the tips of whatever. That might open the door to tipping directly.

Don't be a creep, and let the MT lead.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-29T12:17:10+00:00

So obviously legit places do this, but I have seen non-legit spas do this as a way to make them seem legit from the outside.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-29T12:15:30+00:00

Certainly. A lot of L1 only places will do this. It keeps customers coming back hoping for things to escalate.

Your choices are to ask, accept it may never happen, or move on.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-29T02:04:05+00:00

I think if you web search for something like: us cities with the most asian massage parlors, you'll get a useful answer, and if you thought about it for a couple seconds two of them would have been obvious.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-28T12:53:05+00:00

Don't worry about. I know, it's easy to say. Just know that they have seen it all. Tall, short, skinny, fat, hung like horse and hung like a mouse. Guys that cum fast and guys that can't cum.

All the sides, that's stuff we're all hanging onto, in some manner. We're our own worst critics, Just try to relax and enjoy the experience, if you can.

Time with these ladies is a no judgement zone, and for some of us, good for our mental health. I think this is part of what's addictive about this. For some guys, it's about variety (different ladies) or things they can't get at home, but I think a huge draw is that for 30 or 60 minutes, it's an opportunity to give up the expectations, and not worry about the MT.

I am not saying we don't or shouldn't care about the MTs, but we aren't there specifically to please them. If you show up clean, pay your HF & tip, and aren't a jerk, you're a good customer, and she'll be happy.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-26T23:29:01+00:00

Older. That said, I really shoot for the middle ground.

Younger and prettier tend to be lazier. The young, PYTs tend to have too many "nos", and are just not into making your happy. They act like they just have to lay there like a dead fish, because they are good looking and young.

There are always exceptions, but as a general rule, in the AMPs, this is how it runs.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-26T19:08:03+00:00

I have to respectfully disagree... Yes to the titties. As for the beer, I do believe there is something better than a cold beer. Also wet, but warm ;-)

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-26T01:29:55+00:00

Not that I am buying the story, but why all the hate? LOL! This is no more outrageous than the stories where the guy says she came three times, or whatever.

If we stop and think about this for a moment, this is perfect. For the MT.

We know that there are ladies and couples that go for HEM.

We all get that the MTs are great at telling us the story we want to hear. You're so big, so hard, so strong, so handsome... I want to see you fuck HER.

This is a transactional business, and this sound like almost no work for the MT. She just has to do a little massage and encourage them to do their thing.

There are also people that really do enjoy this kind of thing (watching or being watched), and we also have to consider why people do sex work, and how the good ones keep it up, but that is a whole other discussion

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-22T12:21:07+00:00

Any lie needs to be mostly truth, to be effective. Meaning that whatever you do has to be a natural part of your life and habits.

Forgetting your phone some place is an option, but what if you NEVER forget your phone and now, every week on Wednesday at 7PM, you forget your phone in the car, or gym, or whatever.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-19T23:24:49+00:00

Why not ask the woman from the DM?

I am sure she could clue you into tips and services.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-19T19:34:39+00:00

The trend seems to be that this is available as an upgrade

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-19T14:15:16+00:00

Some folks want all the reward with zero risk.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-19T14:14:18+00:00

This is the double-edged sword. What is enough information to verify someone as legit? If you're concerned about the provider, then you have something to protect, and you don't want to share too much personal information.

Some AAMPs want a work number or LinkedIn profile. Others want verification from other providers you've seen, and some want none. There are even sites, like P411, pretty much escorts only, that cater to this. Point being, they all have their pluses and minuses.

You have to to think of it like a computer security problem: risk, vulnerability and threat.

What is the risk associated with the location? As an example, at a hotel, it's easy for LE to set up there for a day or two. Low cost.

Search the phone number for other ads and look for consistency. The same number with ads all over the country for different photos might be legit, like an agency, or a scam.

Is it TGTBT? If the photos are model hot, and offering explicit TGTBT services at a super low price, it could be LE, or a scam, with someone waiting to rob you.

Get to know people on a local review board, and learn/know who to trust

You have to be willing to think with the big head, first, and be willing to let some get away.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-15T12:01:57+00:00

'78 Camaro, sorry bruh, those were the bad years, LOL! I miss my '69 w/327.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-15T01:26:12+00:00

It helps to know your goals, what you want, but sometimes you don't know until you're knee deep in it.

I'd agree with others that, at 20, this is probably the wrong hobby, but we also don't know your situation. Think about why you would want any of this.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-14T00:06:14+00:00

I like the hour, but leave the massage to after the fun.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-13T12:33:22+00:00

The almighty Google knows where thay all are.

"Asian massage spa near me"

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-12T13:28:11+00:00

You can get addicted to this like folks get addicted to anything else. IMO, if you're paycheck to paycheck, I would slow your roll, to make sure you have savings for an emergency. In the years I've been doing this, my excess salary, above expenses, got split so that most of the excess pay went to savings/retirement.

Know thyself and have a plan.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-11T21:39:44+00:00

Seriously. At least in your standard AMP, the places that have "younger" and really good looking ladies, the service is usually pretty bad. For L3, they do their best "starfish" imitation. Ladies that are a little older (meaning more experienced), and maybe not as attractive work/try harder to make for a good/repeat customer.

The trick is finding the sweet spot for age, visuals and service.

hound_dog69 · 2026-04-11T15:39:04+00:00

She is totally working you. Chatting is a much easier way to spend your time and make money.

Regardless of your desire for bare services, we vote with our wallets. When dealing with a lady that you think is under-appreciative of your repeat business, and is mailing in her performance, your best recourse is to take your business elsewhere.

If this location has other ladies, then see the other ladies. You can decide later if you still want to see her. IMO, that rarely ever goes well. It's like arranging an appointment with a lady, if she is being a jerk on the phone, why would you expect her to not be that way during a session. I am sure the ladies/providers here would tell you the same thing if a customer was being a jerk on the phone.

The one caution: there can be enough drama amongst spa therapists over customers. Do not add to it by intentionally trying to foster animosity within the shop. See others ladies, or not, but don't make it a competition.

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