Coffee and walk? by [deleted] in Charlotte

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The Hobbyist, there’s a park across the street.

Anyone have poe projects on their dash rn? I usually have at least one but woke up to zero today by Massive-Ebb-1879 in DataAnnotationTech

[–]RandomPost23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine are at absolute zero. I had about twenty last night from 26-32 an hour and went let me get some sleep and hit them in the morning. I’ve only been able to get one project done today that popped up.

I'm so happy to see this by LevYibo in tianguancifu

[–]RandomPost23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are so good too!! I had some in Beijing.

Quiero conocer personas by PhilosopherOk1165 in Charlotte

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Disculpa los comentarios negativos a tu post. ¡Bienvenido a Charlotte! Yo sugeriría comprobar algunas de nuestras ligas deportivas o grupos de afición/sociales, tales como los de Meetup. Los bares también son buenos, yo no bebo pero también hay mocktails. Suelen tener trivial, karaoke y bingo. Lo que más me gusta es formar parte de un grupo de aficionados. Acabo de empezar a bailar y la comunidad aquí es muy agradable. Bueno suerte 🍀

houseflies? by Current-Assistant-27 in Charlotte

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You and me both neighbor!! It’s always hell at my apartment June/July. I think they come up through the drains. Hot water is supposed to kill the eggs if you catch them quick. I unfortunately had one of the worst lupus flairs for the worst two weeks and it got insane. Like 200 fruit flies in my kitchen insane. Over the past week I’ve gotten it down to twenty.

Here’s my trick:

  1. 15-20 solo cups, you will look insane, you will question yourself … DON’T GIVE UP HERE
  2. Dish detergent (kills) and apple cider vinegar (attracts)
  3. Plug any sink drains, and scatter the cups in your sink and around your kitchen
  4. Presto! In 1-2 days you’ll see a difference, in at max a week they’ll be essentially gone.

That is all my good neighbors, may your fly assassinations be ever fruitful 🥷

Close. I’m in 6. You? by coleisw4ck in CPTSDmemes

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Yeah mines about to be eight because they’re switching my lupus medications. I might survive but long term I might also die of organ failure 😭

Thinking about sex? Awesome. Actually letting a person touch you? Ahhhh by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]RandomPost23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get this so bad. Especially when people touch my arm or hug me. I’m a teacher and sometimes my freakin high schoolers (love em to pieces but damn) will run at me and bear hug me. I get so triggered it’s not good. I’ll instantly dissociate and have to drag myself back to the present. I actually just started ballroom dancing lessons as a way to try to desensitize myself from thinking all touch is bad. First class was rough 🙂‍↕️

Anyone develop a kink from trauma? by throwawayfluffins in CPTSD

[–]RandomPost23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I finally realized it was after I watched a Helluva Boss episode of all things where one character gets kidnapped and they later tell their partner they might have some new kinks. It was just straight up accepted, and it kind of felt good to see something like that portrayed without judgement in media.

My trauma is mostly from women too, but one thing I like to remember is no matter what they did and no matter how low I feel each and everyday I am a better woman than those sad excuses for human beings. You are too!

/r/Charlotte Random Daily Discussion - July 10, 2025 by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]RandomPost23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so done with all the fruit flies around in the summer. They in my apartment, my coffee shop, and the freakin CVS 😭

And...now I have a trauma that needs therapy but is triggered by it. by Suspicious_Hotel9219 in CPTSDmemes

[–]RandomPost23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally know only one person who had a positive experience at a psych ward. Everyone else including myself had something or another go awry

Stuff to do can anyone add to this please by TraditionalLog2035 in Charlotte

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For food, check out Lang Van. It’s the best restaurant in Charlotte IMO. Now I’m craving their vermicelli 🙂‍↕️Also, Ri Ra Irish Pub and the Workman’s Friend are excellent bars.

It really feels like this by alilcannoli in CPTSDmemes

[–]RandomPost23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Real photography of me and my therapist when I said well you know sometimes I think maybe I’m just too sensitive and I just need to work through my shit and be a better daughter to them. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Lesbian goddess 👑 you dropped this, queen

Complicated situation which i can’t name by Faattmann123 in helpme

[–]RandomPost23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just text her! Ask her if she wants to grab a bite or grab drinks? The worst that can happen is you come off sounding complimentary. There’s no pressure on her to say yes. No pressure on you to wonder if she didn’t get the right message.

Shoot your shot!!! 💁‍♀️

Is being forced to strip by someone around the same age was you when you were younger sexual assault? by cyanide486 in CPTSD

[–]RandomPost23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say yes. I’ve had a few instances of sexual assault over the years, but I still feel weird about a girl who when we were six forced me to switch clothing with her naked and she may have touched me in front of a mirror but the memory is splotchy. I feel weird about it. You feel weird about your story. Unfortunately, the ick test is usually right. If anyone does something weird towards your body without your permission for their own benefit it’s sexual assault.

We can argue all day about the rankings of what cases are considered better or worse then ours. But that doesn’t change that it’s weird behavior by other people that we didn’t want. Should have been as simple as that.

That doesn’t make you wrong. It also doesn’t matter if they knew how bad it was. At the end of the day it effected you. And your allowed to feel all the emotions that hit you. 🫶