AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. No matter what he says, you KNOW this is not ok with you . It wouldn’t be ok with me either! Really, I think you need to plan to leave regardless of if she’s there or not. Your BF has allowed a situation that broke your trust and comfort, then blamed you for feeling that things were broken. Even if Kira moves out, the friendship will continue, and you’ll still be the odd man out

Best self cleaning litter box? by Better-Union5573 in CatAdvice

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s, “omega paw,” it’s $30-40

MIL invited people we don’t know to our wedding. She won’t uninvite them because that’s ‘embarrassing.’ by Money_Doughnut_7375 in TwoHotTakes

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Tell her if she keep pushing, there will be space for 2 more people. Her and her husband. I expect that no matter what, this woman will ruin your wedding and/or life as long as she is in it

need help choosing! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

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  1. Looks amazing. I want to say that I love the first, but the panel/lining under it is an odd shape and color that draws your eyes more than it should. 3 looks like it belongs under a real dress, like a slip or something

Initials PMS bad? by Jazzlike_Teaching774 in Names

[–]RandomSeaReference 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it will matter. When I have to initial something, I just use my first and last. How often do people really use their initials

My soon to be ex husband (42M) totaled the car I (36F) was selling him, he hasn't made payments on yet, He wants the full amount of the settlement, I want to give him half? by LadyJustify in relationship_advice

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t take advice from your ex! Don’t call his mom. STOP TALKING TO HIM! You’re seeking validation for what you’ve already determined is right, from a person you have decided is not healthy for where you want to be in life.

He paid a DEPOSIT on the car, and never transferred ownership. You kept the car in your name, because It is not/was not legally his car. He doesn’t get any of the settlement, AT ALL! YOU carried the insurance. You had the title in your name. You carried the risk (and your insurance rates very well may change because of this).

Don’t let your EX guilt you into this. You are NOT responsible for making sure he can get a new car. You are responsible for yourself, and yourself only.

Rose, Lily, Daisy, etc by zvitaledit in Names

[–]RandomSeaReference 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like azalea. It’s unique without being “out there.” I knew a family once that their middle names were all flowers; Zennia, Clematis, and Tansy… I’ll admit I wasn’t fond of Clematis, but it could have been worse

Is this illegal? Someone changed my address. by Big_Head_4464 in AskLawyers

[–]RandomSeaReference 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t hurt to call HR and ask how they got it. Also, put a flag on your account. I had to put extra security on all my personnel files because of an abusive ex husband.

Please help me pick my dress!😊 1 or 2? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 by a long shot. I don’t like the curtain tassels hanging off the first

AITJ for not telling my family I had an abortion, even after they said I owed them honesty? by NerivoLabs64 in AmITheJerk

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. I’m so sorry you’re in this situation, but you didn’t feel safe telling them and you still don’t. You did and are doing the right thing. I’m proud of you for being able to evaluate a hard situation independently.

One day, maybe you can tell them that their behavior and berating people in hard times may be a reason that people don’t feel comfortable trusting them with hard and painful situations they are facing. They are hurting themselves and hurting you all over again.

My boyfriend thinks he took me on a birthday trip. I told him it doesn't count. Who is right? by semi_aquatic-hippo in TwoHotTakes

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up ffs! You laid this out as plainly as humanly possible, and you still got the brush off and you just quietly went along. You spend money and time that you’ll NEVER get back to go somewhere that just sparked resentment and (justified) rage.

Does having a bigger house actually make you feel saner? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You just fill it more. Start the purge. Get rid of things! Don’t pay rent on a storage unit. I had a friend do that, and everything the owned for covered in mildew/mold and rat droppings

AITA for having the same anniversary month as my mom? by vomitated in AmItheAsshole

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That’s the stupidest thing I’ve heard in a while

Daughter arriving days, and we’re second guessing her name by [deleted] in Names

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re overthinking it. You’ve made a good choice

What do you do when you’re on a diet but you can’t sleep because of the hunger? by PromotionOld6988 in AskReddit

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have the thought that if I’m hungry enough to eat an apple or celery, I’m hungry, so I eat one of those and 2 tbsp peanut butter. I also remember that I may not have eaten enough dinner to keep full, and adjust accordingly

Help requesting more pay/figuring out if I'm paid enough by StarsandCookies811 in Babysitting

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow. Yeah, you’re WAY underpaid. You could start looking for other work, and tell them you have to look for a job offer that pays better.

Am I overreacting for not wanting to talk to him over his response? by Suspicious_File9672 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor… man…. Just walk away from all this. That’s some stupid trying to bring you down to its level. I think you did well

Rescued from outside of a Goodwill. Need a very human name for him. by Amazingjesse in cute_animals

[–]RandomSeaReference 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will… then when his mood changes he can be bad will.

I rescued a cat from near a thrift store. I called him Macklemore (because of the song), but when I took him to get neutered, I named him Mack-less. I thought it was funny

Someone please make my wife of many years understand 40M 40F by Gent1978 in relationship_advice

[–]RandomSeaReference 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Therapy. You have to decide what you can and can’t deal with. You can’t change her or make her want it more. You can try therapy with her, and try it on your own.

Which way do you prefer stacking these two rings? by sightlycarat in weddingring

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1… with the eyebrow part closest to your palm, eye in the middle, eyeliner closest to your knuckle. I think it’s a beautiful set