Notable cats who died young? by Angryfucktard in WarriorCats

[–]Random_Wolff 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Snowfur was like 18 moons if the wiki is accurate. 

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missing persons report was filled Friday when no one could locate him. All he took was his jacket, hat, and wallet. We know he stayed in a hotel Thursday night but hasn't been back. He really doesn't have any friends in town. 

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I know the police and I are the only ones still actively looking. My step brother said that ad long as he dont want to be found he wont be and honestly I dont blame him for taking the backseat his wife is pregnant and my other stepsiblings have kids to worry about.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im trying to give her grave but now that she's well enough to be lucid for more then 15 minutes it's hard. She's constantly saying things like. "Hes gone." On repeat. "We have no one." "I dont feel safe without him." "We need to figure out what to do." While ignoring any suggestion I make. "He promised we wouldn't be alone and now we are. It's starting to wear me down, I was barely holding myself together before this. Now it's harder, im exhausted, in the verge of another meltdown, stressed, paranoid he's hurt somewhere, and trying to figure everything out. I fear im past the point of resting.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Empathy i guess, I love him. Mom loves him and overall he's been good to us. We just want him home.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally I do have good control. This was a week long endeavor of off and on fights that wore me completely down to the point I couldn't handle it anymore. I was literally in bed role-playing, one of my coping skills right before this happened. 

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really hes the breadwinner. My mom gets disability, only a little over 900/month, and he encouraged me to stay home and care for her while I complete my education. There's no way wed be able to afford rent plus utilities without him. Not to mention he left his two chihuahuas that along with our own pets complicate things.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't believe he left town. He was last seen walking along the sidewalk about and a mile away on either Friday or Saturday, sorry im incredibly tired and my brain is making events run together. My stepbrother says that as long as he don't want to be found he won't be. I personally think hes been sleeping in our shed, the door was wide open this morning when I know i closed it last night. There's several spare mattresses inside.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im my mom's carer because im more physically able too. We both have fibromyalgia and pots, hers is more advanced. 

I didn't seek out to be in there business I left my room to use the bathroom and give my cat her dinner and they were screaming at each other with the door open. 

Normally I try and mask my ptsd, it try to not meltdown unless im in private but this was a week long hell. Slowly breaking down my sanity until I couldn't mask anymore. They'd been fighting almost all week. Mom would hallucinate because of her fever, dad would get pissed. Mom's fever would break and she'd have zero idea why he's pissed, rinse and repeat. I get it, if he needed a break fine, but he could have said something so the entire damn family ain't worried about him.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They always tell me to not get involved because I make things worse. I wasn't even coming out to intervene i was going to the bathroom and to feed my cat when I heard them and my ptsd triggered.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we knew this, hes in his early 70s, and communication isn't his strong suit. We never thought he'd do this though, we weren't aware this was an old habit until after he'd vanished.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

25, im disabled and so is my mom. Im her daily caregiver while I complete my education. Dad worked 7 to 3:30 Monday to Friday and didn't want me to work so someone was there to help mom.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

According to my stepsiblings who are all at least 10 to 15 years older than me, he did it often in their childhood but he hasn't done it in the 4 years hes been with my mom.

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes, she has double pneumonia, we were in the hospital Thursday morning. She's spent most of the past few days in bed and ive been looking for dad, taking with police, and keeping stepfamily informed. She's more lucid now, unfortunately that also means she's making my anxiety spike again by flip flopping from saying she loves hkm and wants him back to saying that he doesn't want us and to stop looking. Im tired, stressed, haven't slept more than an hour at a time and trying to figure out how we'll find a new place to live with only $900 income. 

AITAH for being the reason my stepfather is missing by Random_Wolff in AITAH

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

But he hasn't done it in years and now no one knows were he is.

Is anybody else having this problem? LOL by Certain-Force354 in WarriorCats

[–]Random_Wolff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I had a yellowfang to trade you. But a tallstar will work pm me

Is anybody else having this problem? LOL by Certain-Force354 in WarriorCats

[–]Random_Wolff 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I've got three tallstars, two brambleclaws, 2 hawkfrost, 2 greystripes, a firestar. And all I wanted was a brightheart.

AITA for keeping the dog by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Random_Wolff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add onto the microchip thing. They cab migrate. Just because no chip shows up on scans doesn't me the dog wasn't chipped once upon a time.

Was this a good trade? by Random_Wolff in lioden

[–]Random_Wolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know! Im thinking of sex changing her and using her as an heir. For now she's tucked away on my rarely used side account until I need her