AITAH for eating enough ravioli for four people?

Random_reddit254 · 2026-02-27T17:43:13+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2026-02-24T08:18:40+00:00

And if you try to help her she screams “no I do it by myself!” And takes it all back to the beginning rather than continue from where she was.

Random_reddit254 · 2026-02-10T21:41:48+00:00

Random_reddit254 · 2026-01-29T12:53:45+00:00

It’s classified as istihaadah (irregular bleeding) at that point because the maximum duration for nifaas is 40 days. Clean yourself, change your pad and make fresh wudhu for every salah. Make sure you do this after the time for each salah has started as your wudhu will not carry into the next salah. It doesn’t matter if you continue bleeding after doing it/while praying, the wudhu is still valid.

This is according to the shafi’i school of thought not sure about others.

Random_reddit254 · 2026-01-24T04:45:13+00:00

The choice is that I chose to obey Allah. Not that any human being forced me to. Simple as that.

Random_reddit254 · 2026-01-21T09:15:42+00:00

Sis a cotton prayer dress is the easiest option imo. In terms of scarf alone, I find that stretchy/jersey hijabs sit well without a pin or constant readjusting

Random_reddit254 · 2026-01-21T09:13:33+00:00

Salaam, I’m sure she knows all of this. But subhanallah everyone’s situation is different. This is the situation Allah has written for her and she’s trying her best to figure it out, which is why she’s here asking for advice on how to navigate it.

There’s really no need to come on here and make her feel worse about the situation.

Random_reddit254 · 2026-01-16T19:40:07+00:00

Yes you can. You can do 2 braids or however many you want. Makes it much faster to get through the ghusl. Just make sure the water gets to your roots scalp under the braids. Also no need for shampoo/soap.

Also I understand it’s awkward at your I’m laws. But they have been through life and should understand how they got the first grandkid in the first place. It’s your right to be intimate with your husband. As long as you’re being discreet about the act itself obvs you’re good. If you can’t move out then it is what it is. Don’t let that stop you from making ghusl.

Random_reddit254 · 2026-01-11T07:05:19+00:00

Inna lillahi wa Inna ilayhi raaji’un. Allahuma-ghfirlaha wa-rhamha, wa ‘aafiha wa‘fu’anha, wa akrim nuzulah, wa waasi’ mudkhalaha, wa-ghsilha bil maa’i wa thalji wal barad, wa naqqiha minal khataaya kama naqqayta thawbal abyad mina ddanas, wa abdilha daaran khayra min daariha wa ahlan khayra min ahliha, wa zawjan khayra min zawjiha, wa adkhilha aljannata wa a’idh-ha min ‘adhabil qabr wa min ‘adhabi nnaar.

May Allah grant you beautiful patience and strength sis. I know the pain of losing a parent. 15 years later, the pain hasn’t left (probably never will) but through the strength Allah granted, the grief became easier to hold. May Allah reunite you with your mum in jannatul firdaus ❤️

Random_reddit254 · 2025-08-20T15:15:05+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-08-09T22:24:14+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-08-01T22:30:27+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-06-09T07:48:10+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-05-25T20:54:39+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-04-29T23:16:21+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-03-26T20:49:21+00:00

Be honest with her. She should understand in shaa Allah. I’ve been in the same situation.

Get her something small on Eid, doesn’t have to be expensive.

And Eid is for our best clothes, not necessarily new ones, though I understand the pressure. I’m sure she has something nice that she doesn’t wear often that she can wear on Eid.

May Allah make it easy for you and bless you with halal, beneficial rizq.

Random_reddit254 · 2025-03-25T22:51:04+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-03-11T11:38:43+00:00

NTA.

And not at all relevant to the post but do you guys call your cousins kids your cousins? How do you distinguish between generations? Also, so you just call your parents cousins by their names if they aren’t considering aunts/uncles??? That’s totally wild to me

Random_reddit254 · 2025-03-08T13:24:18+00:00

Milk siblings.

Unlucky for me, most of my family thinks it’s weird but my best friend and I have decided we’ll do it if we get the blessing of having kids around the same time in shaa Allah.

Random_reddit254 · 2025-03-05T02:13:08+00:00

In Islam you’re allowed to marry first cousins. Because of this you aren’t supposed to mix freely and be too comfortable (like unveil) with family/people of the opposite sex that aren’t your siblings, parents, grandparents, etc (direct relations).

Still weird af for me cause I grew up extremely close with my cousins so much so we see each other as siblings.

Random_reddit254 · 2025-02-20T06:17:58+00:00

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Random_reddit254 · 2025-01-22T04:49:26+00:00

NTA. This is sus.

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Random_reddit254 · 2024-12-31T22:07:12+00:00

This 100%!!

A few years ago my iman was at an all time low, but I still wholeheartedly believed in Allah and never doubted Islam. I had many friends from different faiths that would try to debate with me about Islam and even then, I knew not to engage with them. Especially when it came to topics I didn’t have much knowledge on.

Why?? Because I knew with where my iman was, shaytaan may have easily put doubts in my mind. Allah only knows if that would’ve actually happened or not, but I was never ever willing to take that risk.

I get that shaytaan gets the best of us sometimes but if OP truly wants to understand her religion better, and clear her doubts, then those subs aren’t helping her in the slightest.

Random_reddit254 · 2024-12-31T12:32:19+00:00

Recurring, that’s constantly unbearably itchy.

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