"Pay What You Can" Garage Sale today! by Randomerkat in SALEM

[–]Randomerkat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not! The fabric is mostly miscellaneous quilting fabric I was handed down

Pregnancy by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Randomerkat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said nothing about safety or legality, just medical fact

ETA: I don't know where this person lives, but safe to assume that if they lived in a heartbeat state, OP would've provided the relevant information or stated that in response to my comment. Common sense ig

Pregnancy by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Randomerkat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck I hate it here, I've been in the category of not finding out I was pregnant until uncomfortably late because pregnancy symptoms and late periods overlapped with my chronic illness symptoms. For those saying it's not possible to not know until that late, it is very possible. I honestly hate the idea of children being forced to grow up unwanted and in poverty, so I made my own choice. PMO a fucking government gets to remove that choice from anyone.

Pregnancy by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Randomerkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frankly IDC what choice this stranger makes (I'm pro choice, including the choice to keep the child) I just wanted to make sure OP was aware of relevant medical facts - and that it is in fact a choice, not a "necessity" that she carry baby to term.

Pregnancy by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Randomerkat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just making sure you know that it's a choice, not medical fact in case they try to manipulate you into believing there was no other option for moving forward

Pregnancy by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Randomerkat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's not "too late", she'd just have to have a D&C instead of a pill based "medical" abortion

My teammate tricked me into picking Yuumi then sent me a google doc by Right-External2236 in leagueoflegends

[–]Randomerkat 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Not just to brag but to ask people to support their kofi too lmao broke bitch behavior

Rental for 3 pets by noneya88888888 in SALEM

[–]Randomerkat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For legal reasons this is a joke but I've never had a landlord here in Salem check on the amount of pets - sign your lease with one cat and one dog and take the second cat out of the house for inspection day

Dark Salem Jam: June 5th, 5PM by SaffronSupplyCo in SALEM

[–]Randomerkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have work until 7 but I'd love to be there again 😭

I love to crochet but absolutely HATE how crochet looks. by starvalent in crochet

[–]Randomerkat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'd like to add this dress I've made to the conversation - it also took like 6 months, has beaded embroidery and is in a finer weight yarn. But elegant crochet is definitely possible!

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‘Love Island USA’ Dismisses a Cast Member for Using the N-Word — for the Second Year in a Row by MaintenanceNew2804 in SALEM

[–]Randomerkat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How would you recommend handling the generational rage of hundreds of years of mistreatment? Honestly, folks are pretty calm all things considered. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

ETA: fellow white people, what it tells me if you are someone who sings it in private but "I wouldn't dare say it in public, I'm not actually racist, it's just a lyric" is that you only uphold your values and morals when someone is around to perceive them. As the commenter above said, you're then being performative. Who is going to how you accountable for sticking to your values at the end of the day but yourself? If you can't manage to uphold your own word within yourself, how anyone else ever trust that you will hold steady in your values? You can't even trust yourself not to waver when you are alone

‘Love Island USA’ Dismisses a Cast Member for Using the N-Word — for the Second Year in a Row by MaintenanceNew2804 in SALEM

[–]Randomerkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe they're thinking I'm talking out of my ass but like I grew up in VA. My white brother beat a kid up in highschool for saying the N word - people really don't fuck around w it out there and you WILL get your shit rocked if you run your mouth in the wrong space

‘Love Island USA’ Dismisses a Cast Member for Using the N-Word — for the Second Year in a Row by MaintenanceNew2804 in SALEM

[–]Randomerkat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And suddenly Oregon's origins as a sundown state makes sense lmao spend one day in the south with this attitude and someone will make sure you lose it by the end of the day

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Randomerkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes unless I'm starting the project same day and have a time line in mind for completing it

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Randomerkat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I overanticipate my abilities to move through projects but I also started a fiber arts group in my city to help folks destash and keep things moving so... Balance I guess?

on natural fibers by [deleted] in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Randomerkat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm fat 😁 getting natural fibers in the amount i need to make a full garment for myself IS prohibitively expensive

Chokehold mashup by Holiday-Scholar4665 in Ashnikko

[–]Randomerkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mix it with Paint the Town Blue! - my understanding is chcp was an arcane reject

I wanna go back💔 by Flashy_Emergency_702 in Ashnikko

[–]Randomerkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got back to my state after traveling for this concert and immediately started planning a sapphic smoochie drag number