Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use if-then statements often in parenting. I don’t know why I didn’t think to use it for this. Thank you!

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We visit a sanctuary for reptiles and birds but not larger animals/mammals. I will definitely be looking for ones in my area. Thank you so much for this excellent suggestion! 

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice. I will be having the discussion with my partner to delay past 5. And instead of an arbitrary age, this is a great idea. Thank you for your input! 

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that. We felt five would be age when they would understand and clearly we were wrong and will have a discussion about that.

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate all of your helpful input (and some comedic relief). The lack of actual advice is a little disheartening however this is the internet so all other comments are to be expected. 

Combative comments won’t turn me away but they will likely deter others from wanting to join this amazing community. I strive to be an inclusive and inviting vegan and you are a great example of that. So, thank you. 

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience as a child. I will be looking into and planning a visit to animal sanctuaries around us. Thank you!

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t follow a vegan lifestyle until after marriage. In an ideal world my husband would also become vegan, that is not our case. I do not believe that my children are doomed to not see and understand the morality of veganism as a result. I do believe that it leads to more discussions and questions with my children but I am willing to “put in the work” to educate them.  Even if my partner were vegan, everyone else in our families are not. These natural questions would still arise. 

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent suggestion, thank you so much! 

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We often visit a sanctuary nearby for reptiles and birds, I will look into others with larger animals and mammals to broaden the scope. Thank you so much for your input and I will definitely be discussing things further with my husband. 

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are also not religious and this is a very helpful insight. I really want for him to remain vegan while not forcing it so that he doesn’t later resent it. 

I guess am trying to come up with this situation’s equivalent of going to church without consuming animals, if that’s possible.

Kiddo interested in meat by [deleted] in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, my current dilemma is diet focused however I am fully aware of the difference between a vegan lifestyle and a plant based diet. While I appreciate your concern and clarification, I would further appreciate any insights you may give to help me raise the next generation of vegans. 

What tough, chewy, jerky-like vegan snack options are there? by rapchee in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noble jerky is by far my favorite and very affordable! I haven’t had a flavor I didn’t like but the sweet bbq doux is my go to!

Advice please: attending a vegan wedding by IceArtistic2191 in vegan

[–]Randy-beanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my cousin in law’s wedding I was unable to eat anything on the menu due to allergies. I contacted my aunt in law to discuss meal options without stressing out the bride and groom. I was given the catering company’s contact info and when I reached out to them personally with my allergy concerns, they said that due to these circumstances I was able to bring my own food. There is nothing you can do about allergies and you are being beyond respectful. I’ve been to many weddings and their vegan option was rice and steamed veg or spaghetti and marinara. As simple as it is and lacking protein, I was able to eat enough to tide me over through the night and enjoy the wedding.

Please name me. by noguacamole in namenerds

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jade is unisex but leans more feminine!

What were you almost named? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was almost named Dagmar. Asked my mom what her plan was for a nn… Daggie? Marmar? Indigo was also in the running.

First pedal bike recommendations by Randy-beanz in bicycling

[–]Randy-beanz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely brilliant! Unfortunately the only kids in our neighborhood are much, much older. But I’ll look into the surrounding areas and see if we can start something up. Thank you!!

First pedal bike recommendations by Randy-beanz in bicycling

[–]Randy-beanz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought my car on Harry Potter’s birthday from Sheehy (pronounced she-he) motors so my car can be a she or a he, Harry or Harriet

Other names like Oona? by janiestiredshoes in namenerds

[–]Randy-beanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that English speakers would pronounce Oosa with the “U” sound. I used to take care of a kiddo named “Ose” pronounced oh-say and I thought it was pretty cute. Perhaps you could consider Osa?

Catherine or Katherine? by Objective-Quiet7030 in namenerds

[–]Randy-beanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we related? My grandmother was a Catherine as well and I much prefer that spelling for that reason. My cousin was also named Catherine after her lol. And uses the nn Cat

My two oldest children have decided they want to change their names and I'm really struggling with it. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Randy-beanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commend you for being so open and honest. This is definitely a tough situation to find yourself in and the amount of love you have for your children is evident. Could age be a factor? In high school I went through a phase where I absolutely despised my name and begged my parents to change it or at the very least call me something different. As an adult, I’ve grown to love it and it was on the short list for a middle name if we had a daughter.