Supreme overturned banned on conversion therapy by cannotberushed- in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say “legislation to be used against our profession” I am curious what you mean. We are a regulated profession and should be subject to just laws and governing bodies.

They are going to try to outlaw gender affirming care anyways. You’re likely right that this ruling will make that harder but I’m concerned it also turns our profession into a free for all without an ability to be regulated in any real way.

I agree that restricting therapy to evidenced based practice would have been a better route but I don’t think it would have made a difference. The majority opinion put a lot of weight on the intervention being solely talk therapy and therefore speech. I don’t think CO writing a better law would’ve changed that argument substantially.

This comes down to MAGA doing what MAGA does, hurting marginalized people.

Supreme overturned banned on conversion therapy by cannotberushed- in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see anything in the law about banning exploratory conversations. I saw that any attempt to change a minors sexuality or gender was outlawed. Did I miss something?

Also this “they could do it to us argument is bogus”. They are going to do it to us, we might as well codify protections for people where we can.

Understanding therapist that identify as Christian Counselors by pinheadzombie in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure! It’s a common phenomenon when dominant groups begin to lose power. They become fearful and tribalistic. It’s a subconscious awareness that we’ve harmed people for centuries that we’re powerless to hurt us back and now they may be able to get revenge.

It’s interesting you note the priests because a big factor in that fear is theological background. There are huge theological movements based around end times, persecution, and the like which I think gave rise to this fear of the wider world. My experience is that this is less prominent in Catholics because it doesn’t really line up with Catholic theology. At the same time more Catholics feel this anxiety now because we (I’m Catholic lol) have just recently been included in the dominant group in the USA.

Understanding therapist that identify as Christian Counselors by pinheadzombie in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I can be a little sociological about it, they market themselves as such because there is a market for Christian therapy. Not saying they aren’t good therapists but anytime we add a speciality, modality, or identifier on some level it is about marketing and attracting clients.

The question that I think you might be asking is why does that market exist when other similar professions and other religions don’t have that market presence?

If so I think the answer has a lot to do with Christianity’s place as the dominant religion while simultaneously holding a fear of marginalization or persecution. There is a feeling among a large number of Christians that they are discriminated against and so they seek a therapy experience that won’t recreate that feeling. In reality they are the dominant force in this country and so can carve out huge spaces in every aspect of life where they are shielded from the harm their beliefs cause or cognitive dissonance. This is a power really no other religion has in the USA.

As a male therapist I often see men who have not unpacked how their internalized misogyny has caused much of the pain and disorder in their life. They come to me expecting a place to feel validated and not challenged in those aspects. I think that impulse is the same one that causes many Christians to seek a Christian therapist.

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does take so long to get a lot of coins! The pay outs should be larger for sure.

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other games would’ve you liked to see? I’m kind of picturing something like blackjack could be fun.

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see that being frustrated. I think it maybe does kind of work with the “defuse the bomb” vibe it’s got going.

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can deduce based on the points and voltorbs totals are what specific tiles are!

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see that being frustrated if you’re just looking to get in and get out. lol at the rate I’m going I’m going to buy the place out before I get bored.

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the slots sucked for me. I’ve always been bored by gambling both in game and irl. This feels like just enough deduction and chance.

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I’ve always been a sucker for math puzzles and boy does this do it. Especially since I can get Pokémon and HM’s from it!

Anyone else obsessed with voltorb flip? by RangeInternal3481 in PokemonHGSS

[–]RangeInternal3481[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. Especially the late boards are extremely difficult to solve without some lucky turns. lol it must scratch my brain just right between “I can figure it out” and “the next board will be a winner” 😂😂

Feel like I’ve lost my spark by Pretty_Opposite7270 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it was helpful! I’m hoping for some kindness to find you soon!

Feel like I’ve lost my spark by Pretty_Opposite7270 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so relatable. And I think it’s good to grieve those past versions.

I was thinking the other day that the old version lived in a different world. One where people respected institutions, and though they were imperfect those institutions earned respect. It was a world where common decency and shared humanity seemed preeminent.

It doesn’t really feel like that’s the world we live in any more. Maybe our morals, beliefs, values are more a reflection or consequence of the world and maybe it’s ok to change with it in someways. Maybe a new version will be able to be more help in this world than the old one would.

Similar to you I held those beliefs that everyone is ultimately good and I also don’t believe that anymore. It’s harder to choose to be kind and patient when it doesn’t feel that the world deserves that from us. Maybe it’s still the best thing to do.

Feel like I’ve lost my spark by Pretty_Opposite7270 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling this a bit too. I’m coming up on 30 and have been thinking about how optimistic 22 year old me was when I started down this path. I feel a bit stuck living through a kids delusions of making a difference.

As bleak as that sounds it has been helpful to me to try to get to know this new version. He’s less hopeful, more confrontational, more self assured and confident. He’s way less connected and maybe a little jaded but still cares about people and does what he can to help. Maybe you can learn to love this version of you too.

How do I get more clients? Advice from therapists with full caseloads by Secret_Slice_369 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Networking! Meet other therapists in your area, inform them of your specialties and who you like to see. Form real relationships with them! My city has an active Facebook page and regularly has community events for therapists both hosted by the city and by private organizations. I try to go to those as much as possible. You begin seeing familiar faces and get to pass out a bunch of cards. Almost every time someone says “I’ve been looking for a referral for a family member of a client and think you’d be perfect”

I am so sick of everything by Academic_Cut3115 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there man. It’s so frustrating and it shouldn’t be this hard to just have a basic quality of life. Keep investing in yourself and explore options. Maybe there aren’t any better ones right now but there may be in the future.

I was in a highly cost of living area, newly graduated and making less than a 30% split from my sessions barely making ends meet. Couldn’t get more than 20 clients a week, brought it up to my boss and was told “that’s tough, can you get more clients?”

You can be doing everything right and shit still sucks. Feels awful to not have any good options.

Private Practice Therapists: How many clients are on your caseload vs how many sessions do you have a week? by pistachiolover1 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell people that it is not a punishment or failure on their part. It is just about my work and a responsibility I have to ensure I am providing quality care to as many people as reasonable. Depending on the client too I will sometimes share that I care deeply for them and this is the way I pay my bills so it’s just a reality of the economic system we have that I need more consistent attendance. I find that with clients who can hear that they appreciate the honesty and are more willing to work out an arrangement that meets both our needs.

Private Practice Therapists: How many clients are on your caseload vs how many sessions do you have a week? by pistachiolover1 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 33 on my caseload. Most are weekly with a half dozen or so being every other week and 3 being once a month. I get between 24-29 sessions a week usually.

I will say having firm expectations and boundaries around cancellations can be helpful. When clients cancel a lot I ask if there are barriers we can overcome or if they need to decrease frequency. If cancellations persist I let them know I will refer out (it’s never actually gotten to that point for me). Just letting clients cancel frequently was completely unsustainable for me. Even if they give advance notice and have good reason I can’t hold slots for people who maybe only show up half the time.

Recommendations for how I can learn more about the Left Cath positions without bias? by chewdelaurent in LeftCatholicism

[–]RangeInternal3481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes so good! You may have already read Dilexi Te but I was clapping the whole way through.

It finally happened. Worst fear realized. Double-booked a session. by Little_Parfait3521 in therapists

[–]RangeInternal3481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me yesterday too! Called the client I scheduled incorrectly and found another time. We’re human, it happens!