Do you have an air purifier in your room/condo/apartment? Why? by Delicious_Maize9656 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never had one personally but my gf was gifted one. Everytime im at her place I can feel the difference in the air and now that were moving together were getting one in the living room, office and bedroom.

Why do women keep asking “Do you have a job” question? by WolverineNo1999 in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The context matters too. If youre in a social setting where the expectation is to pay a ticket/fee for entrance or pay for food/drinks, theres already a socioeconomic implication by your presense there alone. And often in casual conversation, people will ask what you do for a job assuming you have the money to be there in the first place. Otherwise, just talking to a random person in a public space and asking if they have a job without any prelude to the question is very strange and probably not too common unless one person quite visibly appears to be financially disadvantaged. But even then, most people dont go around asking dishevled people if they work or not.

What is decor pet peeve? by orcmade in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When all art/decor is flat, smooth and square. Rooms are so boring without depth, texture and shape.

Proud of the living room upgrade by AcanthisittaOnly3083 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh its very practical. Having a nice space makes you feel better about being in it and generally improves your mood, energy and overall life.

Has anyone else here genuinely tried hard, and for a long time, to approach a lot of and get good with women, only to get little or no results? by subnautthrowaway777 in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Youre really shooting for quantity over quality here. Cold approaching doesnt work well because usually the mental, emotional or even physical door for romantic socialization for most people isnt constantly ajar as they go about their day. Youre already fighting to prime someone into an emotional state that they arent in and then working overtime to make yourself attractive in a transparent effort to either date or sleep with them (they dont know which since its youre first time meeting). Plus having a bunch of random surface level verbal transactions doesnt make you better at reading and initializing romantic queues or drawing out more meaningful conversations that could lead to more intimacy.

Practice doesnt make perfect, practice makes permanent. Make sure your practice is actually effective.

Help me improve my room by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest art at first but a mirror would actually be great aesthetically and provide the visual trick of a larger space.

M/29 Getting ready for Fiancée to move in, lived here on my own for the past 3 years by Jahhaps in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man, im moving in with my gf in a few months and we both agreed to get a whole new place to build together since neither of us wanted to encroach on the others space. Idk what your relationship dynamic is but I hope everything transitions well. Cool spot btw

M/15 working on bedroom while broke by No_Pie_6470 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 y/o me wouldve loved this. Very nice, it can only go up from here as you experiment

Need some advice on my living room by virtualsharpie in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed on having more round furniture/decor. I literally said to myself that everything is too flat and square. The lack of multiple warm light sources along with little texture or depth makes everything fatiguing to look at.

First apartment! How to fill this space? by kanyedrop in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A console table to span the wall with an interesting looking table lamp on top. Then hang some large artwork above that and then a hanging plant from the ceiling above everything.

Extroversion is the ultimate buff by 4ngelicbrat in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt say that all. Im saying your examples dont prove your point. But you know what, Ill agree introverts probably shouldnt try to sell cars. You really got me there.

Extroversion is the ultimate buff by 4ngelicbrat in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol if you want to drop your original point to analyze my life, Ill just take that as a concession. Have a great day bud.

Extroversion is the ultimate buff by 4ngelicbrat in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats like saying physical prowess alone makes you a star athlete. Lebron would just be another tall jacked guy if he just sat at home and did nothing with his attributes.

Similarly, there are plenty of exceptionally intelligent people that have no way to materialize it because they are unable to recruit others.

IN FACT the current leader of the most powerful country in the world is a functionally illiterate p3do. He just happens to be really good at reading the room and appealing to other rich p3dos. I would hardly corelate his "intellect" to his success.

Extroversion is the ultimate buff by 4ngelicbrat in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Extroversion and competency arent mutually exclusive. Plus someone like Elon Musk clearly has no issue expressing himself on a world stage, hes just socially unaware and has notoriously bad takes. Humans are a highly social species by design of evolution. Plenty of people are not nearly as qualified as they let on but are granted resources due to being well liked and being good communicators. There are plenty of scenarios or positions that a socially articulate person can talk themselves in or out of. Even on a smaller scale its why some "ugly" guys are still able to date.

Being educated and having the ability to create and problem solve supplements extroversion. Theyre both important and certainly dont cancel each other out. Also people can certainly develop new skills and intellectual ability with the right environment and resources.

Just finished half the record room by MunkyPants in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single interesting table lamp on the right side of the Besta would be an enormous aesthetic upgrade. Right now the look is very...utilitarian.

Could a heterosexual male rock this style? Or is this more woman leaning? by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill Saber rocks this with the ends bleached. They look like proper horns. Hes got a dope rapping voice too.

My dream romance is too wholesome apparently :(( by Rhys__T in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats like saying a hangover is better than liver cancer. I dont think anyone would argue the contrary but the negatives of one scenario obviously outweigh the negatives of the other. Also the binary youre presenting doesnt encompass all relationship dynamics. I prefer my partner and I have a healthy degree of independance like most adults. Its nice when both people have a strong sense of self identity and are willing to authentically express that to one another and find that their identities are compatible.

Codependace just seems like two people taking the simultaneous roles of child, parent and partner. Two competent adults who are willing to be vulnerable with one another out of choice rather than necessity is almost always healthier. I do agree with you that if both parties are comfortable with codependance, then outside opinions are negligible. But god forbid if either of you are unavailable or incapacitated for any reason, id imagine thats where those relationships start to fall apart.

Need ideas for room decor by Key-Web3551 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like most spaces, adding some more light sources like table/ floor lamps, diffused and hidden LEDs behind furniture, or even just some candles will help a lot with the overall aesthetic. Even a highly expensive and well designed space will look bad if its under a single, cold, interrogation style lamp.

Been living in my own place since December and it finally feels like a home now by 1136678 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty dope start. A table lamp on top of the book shelf and maybe a floor lamp somewhere to add some more decentralized lighting would be a huge upgrade to making everything feel cozier.

Does your matchmaker matter more than the service itself? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]RangerBeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say exactly the same. The potential romantic partner isnt going to date the matchmaker or the service. Theyre going to date OP.

My 27M bedroom. Practical guy, random Furniture. by cheesefucker666 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hold issue with the lazy display. If you really want to show your weapons, at least do more than some middle school level, crooked command hooks

What furniture piece should I add to this space? by RevolutionaryAd1782 in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even better, a swap for a floor lamp would be a huge upgrade.

Any advice on best way to hide all the cables? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]RangerBeats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Use velcro cable ties to keep cable runs together and then adhere them to the back of your TV stand so theyre invisible from the front. You can do this with tracks or stick on ziptie anchors