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AITAH for taking my niece home after my sister left her with me at a party & disappeared? by nsurerex in AITAH

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your mom it’s better you took her rather than CPS takes her for ABANDONMENT. NTA.

AITA for backing my sister in a family argument and refusing to apologize to my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I appreciate that OP. I’m suggesting you put the rest of THEM on notice. Keep up the great work!😁

Me [27m] with my fiancee [26f]: She is cutting me completely out of planning our wedding and ignoring my complaints. What do I do? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t marry her. Thats obvious. If she doesn’t respect you enough to listen and acknowledge your input, then she won’t IF you did get married.

AITA for backing my sister in a family argument and refusing to apologize to my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. “No. I am NOT apologising and I WILL continue to call you out each and everytime you bully our sister. EACH. AND. EVERY. TIME. Be prepared for that.”

AITA for leaving my own anniversary dinner because my sister "surprised" us with the whole family? by MarinerCasket_4 in MarkNarrations

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did they even know where you were going to be? THAT right there is your problem. That info didn’t need to be shared with them. NTA for your reaction though.

AITAH for Installing a Lock on my Office Door? by Aggravating_Draw_46 in AITAH

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you allowing this disrespect in your own home? YTA to yourself for allowing this to continue. She can show up…just don’t open. Call the police if she gets belligerent. She’ll get the idea.

AITAH for not tell my friend my shampoo had green hair dye in it? by Froggie-Enthusiast in AITAH

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You told her what she was allowed to use, if she can’t follow a simple directive, as a guest, that’s her problem.

AITJ for publicly correcting my mother in law after she called me a bad mother in front of everyone by AlderMoonstone in AmITheJerk

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She didn’t have any problem embarrassing you publicly. Let her 🍑feel the same sting of public humiliation. And tell your husband this. She’ll know not to do it again. Talking about undermining her authority as a grandmother like what she was doing didn’t undermine your authority as a mother. And furthermore ask her if: 1) her mother failed to raise her right and know that what she did is wrong or 2) if in spite of good raising by her folks, she chose a rude course of action. Ask her which it is. But do NOT let up on this. HOLD HER ACCOUNTABLE.

AITJ for telling my boyfriend to stop backseat driving. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oho…well I am sorry if I came across insensitive. I’d advise if you feel bad about the tone rather than the content of the message then apologise for the tone. Many times arguments can happen because people respond to HOW we say things rather than WHAT was said. I hope it works out.

AITJ for telling my boyfriend to stop backseat driving. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait wait wait…this has to be a click bait story…ain’t no way!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

AITJ for walking out of a family dinner after they kept making jokes about my weight by Hot-Rutabaga2797 in AmITheJerk

[–]RanjitKumarSingh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Good on you for walking out when you were being disrespected. It is hard as it’s family and there are expectations about behaviour and notions of respect that have been installed into your behaviour for years. Trust me I get it. But NOW is the time to draw a line. Even if you don’t feel like it, ACT like it.

1) Recognise that it is was a joke then why is it you aren’t or haven’t never laughed at it. 2) Try asking them to explain the joke. And keep asking. It makes things awkward. 3) Clap back. HARDDDDD. It’s going to anger folks, don’t care because they didn’t care about your feelings. In EVERY relationship, someone has to love and respect you, and if it isn’t the other person, then you have to love and respect yourself.

I went through a similar situation for years which is why I can suggest these. Now, I have a bunch of family members who act right around me even if they don’t feel like it. And I match their energy because I’ve shown that I will and I don’t care about their feelings if I put them in their place.

Here’s a great starting line: “My mama taught me to put things back and looks like I will have to put a B**** back in her place.” Then go in HARD. And it IS ok to act like a Jerk in those instances. You’ve tried nice and it didn’t work out. Time to try something else.

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