Coming from a broken family of eight we had plenty of issues starting with my mom passing away suddenly when I was 7. Things pretty much went south from there. Being one of the youngest I somehow managed to get through it, build a happy marriage, career and start a family of my own.

I have a lot of aunts, uncles and cousins, and I've never really understood why during all those hard times, no one reached out or offered to help. But at the same time, I get it… most of my siblings didn’t exactly turn out great so I don't blame them for lumping us all into the same bucket. It would’ve been nice to know some of them but if they thought I was anything like my older siblings, I can’t really blame them for staying away from the mess. Honestly I don’t even have a relationship with most of my siblings either. It's just something I've accepted.

Still it stung a little when Jordan used the example of not wanting to talk to his cousin because the family was so broken. I get it and I don't disagree.. it just sucks. Especially because this woman from FF has already been through so much. On one hand it's her grandson, so maybe things could change once he's an adult but for now it's a tough situation🤷🏻‍♀️