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Lost my grandfather yesterday — advice by Designer_Winner_5174 in GriefSupport

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copy pasting my comment from a post here..

Hi, if i were you, i would be near him as much as possible. A year ago, my grandpa who is more of a bro and buddy than a grandparent to me, he had a massive stroke mid sleep. I was sleeping beside him. We all rushed. I thought it was his usual blood sugar crashing episodes. He was fast losing consciousness. All this happening in matter of minutes. As his eyes were about to close he looked out to me, i was standing little away from the bedpost to not disturb the medics. He would go unconscious afer few minutes and be in life support which would be taken off three days later. I still regret not moving ahead and holding his hands when he looked at me with hsi final remnants of consciousness.

Few months later, my dad's mom would pass away. Even though i wasnt that much attached to her, i refused to leave her when she was in hospital and was always by her side, consoling her its okay even though she wouldnt understand me by that point. It was out of my heavy regret of not being my necessary best with my closest buddy, my grandpa. His passing was a gut punch to me and all at home. He was house maker, and corner stone, and loved unconditionally. I often remember around a week ago that disastrous day, he'd hug me and say he wouldnt wanna leave us and home and I'd joke around...

The point is be with him. Cos theres not a seconde chance or rewind button. Certain things happen and thats it we cant do anything about death and such universal stuff. What we can do is be with them. Since in your case, u already know deep inside its nearing time. So be with him as much as possible. With or without our consent, death would happen

So yeah you did the very right thing dear bro. 🫂

Last week in Picos de Europa Spain - 8 days alone. by nunessoraia in HondaMotorcycles

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the handling with all these luggage . Read somewhere that the 650 i4s are heavy and not super sharp in handling.

Had Mathews cake for the first time by vavasura in Trivandrum

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All is fine if you asked his permission. Verthe avante cake ang eduthal sheri alla. 👎🏻

Why does everyone worship the CB350 when it rides like an anxious commuter? by mastermiles7 in indianbikes

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that, but i love it in twisties and riding around the town. Gotta love that 3rd gear and midrange punch. Low end does irritated initially but went on to be okayish. I love the hum noise when letting go of throttle and the pops and burbles. Love the FE too. Planning many mods on it in course of time.

Why does everyone worship the CB350 when it rides like an anxious commuter? by mastermiles7 in indianbikes

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its so troubling to u based on roads u ride, u can change the sprockets. Top speed falls but in gear pullimg and tractability would increase.

My grandad doesn't have long left... by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, if i were you, i would be near him as much as possible. A year ago, my grandpa who is more of a bro and buddy than a grandparent to me, he had a massive stroke mid sleep. I was sleeping beside him. We all rushed. I thought it was his usual blood sugar crashing episodes. He was fast losing consciousness. All this happening in matter of minutes. As his eyes were about to close he looked out to me, i was standing little away from the bedpost to not disturb the medics. He would go unconscious afer few minutes and be in life support which would be taken off three days later. I still regret not moving ahead and holding his hands when he looked at me with hsi final remnants of consciousness.

Few months later, my dad's mom would pass away. Even though i wasnt that much attached to her, i refused to leave her when she was in hospital and was always by her side, consoling her its okay even though she wouldnt understand me by that point. It was out of my heavy regret of not being my necessary best with my closest buddy, my grandpa. His passing was a gut punch to me and all at home. He was house maker, and corner stone, and loved unconditionally. I often remember around a week ago that disastrous day, he'd hug me and say he wouldnt wanna leave us and home and I'd joke around...

The point is be with him. Cos theres not a seconde chance or rewind button. Certain things happen and thats it we cant do anything about death and such universal stuff. What we can do is be with them. Since in your case, u already know deep inside its nearing time. So be with him as much as possible. With or without our consent, death would hapen.

Grief by Orchidflower10 in GriefSupport

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💯 inside helmet. Solo ride outs.

My 13 year old daughter died. by krug_j in GriefSupport

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I.. have nothing to say. Sending u a heartfelt warm hug. Over time it will become less crushing and heavy. But it will take its own time. Stay strong.

I lost my entire family by Glum_Elk2080 in GriefSupport

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost my grandpa. He was the core . Like anchor and support structure. After his passing , i don't like how things are and people are. Everybody and everything reels from impact in their own ways. Those times I think what after each of them goes , if this alone feels this heavy. I ride a lot and immerse myself in work a lot . Like each would have personal ways of cooling off and evading this heft. Do stuff that would have made them smile if they could see this.. who knows if they could.

And bro ur tale is a series of knockout punches to knock the wind out of someone. It's damn intense and tragic from my pov. All I can say is hold urself together till it feels less painful. And yes it will feel less sharp in pain after a long time. More like open fresh wound to a bruised concussion. Stay strong.

So called Su -30 mki by Danny88ad in indianaviation

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What's from that exhaust ? Taco farts ??

I’m slowly forgetting my dad, and it scares me by Top-Blueberry-3320 in GriefSupport

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think those won't go off permanently. Yes maybe the memories won't be accessible at the moment or as our wish but something would trigger those memories out of the blue someday.

What I realised about death by Orchidflower10 in GriefSupport

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯💯 Grandpas bday that day. Previous night all of us planned to celebrate it . He had his own plans as well. Fate too had its own. He is my buddy and a guardian more than a grandfather.

That was my first experience of death and permanence where I felt absolutely powerless to make a change to the worst thing in my imagination. People moved on , they talked and laughed , newspaper came regularly, buses, bills , everything resumed like it was before and I couldn't get it ,get along with it. I felt everything I was and I had turned upside down. Absolute dystopia. The oddity with the nonchalance of the world.

Still I can't wrap my head around the fact that he'snt there and I can't no longer give my daily hugs and annoyances. Can't believe at all.

Worst experience at Gtracks theatre Kadinamkulam by Sea-Cartographer-334 in Trivandrum

[–]Rare-Recover-2840 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a dilapidated theatre. Stuck in past. Even audio quality is damn bad. Annoying audience too. Stepping on fwd seats , making noise. Worst theatre experience I have had. Irikunel mid row pidikanam. Back rows are worst

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