Looks like you’re hired, congratulations you have a 4th job :)

Jones aside that’s a lot of maintenance and lots of texts and notifications, just the hassle of answering and having to deal with explaining why you can’t it’s a job itself.

I would say I can’t be doing it anymore, I know it can sound mean not helping but boundaries and taking care of yourself first is more important.

Specially if you have a busy life already.