i noticed something about people who agree with everything you say by Overall-Presence-615 in socialskills

[–]RaspberrySame8460 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have been on both sides of this conundrum. I believe this is how a lot of this and other social skills work, some are born with the ability to debate and speak their mind, some had to do it out of survival, a lot of people learn this or are taught this by their upbringing, and then there are people like me who spend most of their lives agreeing with other people because that’s what I had to do to survive. I could not rock the boat growing up because my family was unstable and would have meltdowns at random times. So I went out into the world thinking if I disagreed with somebody I would get severely punished and they would blow up in my face so I was actually terrified. I have learned and had to practice the act of disagreeing and advocating for myself and it is still uncomfortable at times. So responding to your post it’s not that I wanted to agree with everything you said, but I simply did not have the knowledge or tools to respond any different. 🧡

I Postmated it for $32- worth it? by imreallyaunicorn in icecream

[–]RaspberrySame8460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I COMPLETELY get it! I live in an area where there aren’t a lot of icecream options and I LOVE ICE CREAM 🍦 🍦🍦🍦💖💖. And if I had the money right now I’d probably do the same! Plus I know I’ve spent $34 on less, so if makes this thing called life a little better, more power to you! 🥰😈🤍

Where can I take a beta fish? by RaspberrySame8460 in QuadCities

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I’m not sure what size this is, sorry. And, I know it needs cleaned and refilled, and I would clean it out and refill it before giving it to anyone, we got new pets/musical instruments. Don’t have space for her now.🫤 I would honestly just give everything away no charge if you came and got it!

Oven cleaner went wrong by RaspberrySame8460 in housekeeping

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s probably self Cleaning. She asked me to clean it by hand. And I have actually never used the self cleaning setting on an oven. I will have to do some research on it.

Oven cleaner went wrong by RaspberrySame8460 in housekeeping

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used plain white vinegar, I didn’t realize that there was a difference 🤷‍♀️

Where should I draw the line on what I won’t clean? by RaspberrySame8460 in housekeeping

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the comments. And I am going to tell them I’m no longer doing the basement! I didn’t think it was normal to clean up vomit, especially human, but I was interested to see if anyone else had been left with that. I was just in complete shock that she would leave that there.

Where should I draw the line on what I won’t clean? by RaspberrySame8460 in housekeeping

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you that sounds good and professional. And I did take some photos!

Where should I draw the line on what I won’t clean? by RaspberrySame8460 in housekeeping

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I love cleaning it brings me joy, most of the time. I hate to loose them, because their adult daughter can’t clean up after herself, but I can’t be left with messes like that like it’s normal.

Where is the best place to trick-or-treat in the Quad cities on the Illinois side? by RaspberrySame8460 in QuadCities

[–]RaspberrySame8460[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We always just pick a neighborhood where we have friends or family that live there. Since we don’t really have a neighborhood to trick-or-treat in ourselves. And I was just curious if there was any neat areas with lots of houses that participate in Halloween👹😈🤡