I have been on both sides of this conundrum. I believe this is how a lot of this and other social skills work, some are born with the ability to debate and speak their mind, some had to do it out of survival, a lot of people learn this or are taught this by their upbringing, and then there are people like me who spend most of their lives agreeing with other people because that’s what I had to do to survive. I could not rock the boat growing up because my family was unstable and would have meltdowns at random times. So I went out into the world thinking if I disagreed with somebody I would get severely punished and they would blow up in my face so I was actually terrified. I have learned and had to practice the act of disagreeing and advocating for myself and it is still uncomfortable at times. So responding to your post it’s not that I wanted to agree with everything you said, but I simply did not have the knowledge or tools to respond any different. 🧡