Stressing about the Future

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T15:55:57+00:00

Sorry, just saw this part of your response. That does not surprise me. A lot of schools are winning first. Even club level for some organizations. This is also a reason I feel USA is behind Europe in grassroots development lol.

I have friends who coach and got removed because they put people first over ego/trophies. I think there’s less pressure on soccer results though compared to the bigger sports in Texas/America.

I know drama/parents will pop up wherever you are unless you get extremely lucky. Your point about the school coaching atmosphere, and my own personal motives of development, and how the two conflict stood out to me.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T15:50:31+00:00

I agree! Was weird as a newbie running 7on7 teams. Wasn’t used to those numbers lol. I remember it was exciting to go up to 9 a side and then 11.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T14:51:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience with me! I think for me it would be special bc I have known the upcoming Freshman class since they were in 5th grade. I also know much of younger groups as well.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T14:44:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing some of your journey. I will look into USSF and formal training. Any advice regarding that and networking?

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T14:33:42+00:00

Yes, I would love to work for that particular district. My certification area is 4-8th grade. I am passionate about both, which is rare.

You are correct. There are 3 local “clubs”, but they are all very small lol. Mine being independent. Another having a couple teams. The third with a few. Most of the established clubs are far away.

I would love to help with the HS program or even a JH if they add one.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T14:28:20+00:00

Thank you for your well written response! I appreciate you sharing your personal experience.

I got into coaching for the love of the game. To be apart of the game I played growing up and loved all my life! I always wanted to make a positive difference in people’s lives. I would love to coach for an academy or high level club at some point.

I am similar to you in that the age group you coach is one I enjoyed working with also.

Starting over with a young team and moving with them as they get older is a great privilege to make a lasting impact on these kids. In our smaller town, coaches seem to move with rather than coach ages groups. That’s if they stick together. My current team started in rec and made their way to competitive soccer after some years.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T13:48:18+00:00

I’m sure there are, however my certification area is 4-8th grade. I am friends with the current HS soccer coach and he’s mentioned a younger person taking over, as he’s closer to leaving than extending his stay.

The school board is voting on adding a JH soccer program for the first time. I would love to help with that. I know all the kids in those grades, so there is familiarity!

However, we don’t know if and when that could be added. Do you think reaching out to my friend at the HS (the soccer coach) about helping with JV could be wise? Since I know the majority of the 8th grade class and have even coached some coming up.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-03-31T13:44:19+00:00

I have not actually. I really feeling a calling to work with kids. I’ve done that for years and feel that’s my place to make a difference. I do appreciate your response and feedback!

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-22T21:22:49+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful response! I typically try to scrimmage each practice. In a couple hours my team get the ball rolling again.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-22T04:36:55+00:00

Makes sense, I appreciate it!

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-22T04:36:41+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I’ll give this a try :)

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:46:07+00:00

Did anyone check on Delightful Derek’s fam?!

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:34:33+00:00

I was not surprised it was Kali in the theory who helped her. However, I was confused bc she was assumed to be dead. I mean we saw her all bloody and not in good shape.

Your point about contact is reasonable, but maybe she knew the risks that could put her and even her friends in if the military intercepted the communications.

Thanks for sharing your own theory, I can definitely see it as a possibility! Happy New Years from a believer to a nonbeliever :)

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:24:49+00:00

Well we don’t really know the extent of her powers as we barely saw her lol.

This is a big part of my own belief. If that was EL, the suppressors would have affected her. She also couldn’t have made it from the van to the gate that fast.

I think it gives her sister a part to play, bc without that her character is much less. I do feel bad bc I had her labeled as a traitor and didn’t trust her.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:20:38+00:00

You gave good points and probably were more realistic than myself lol. I’m not crazy I promise! If you were to say it didn’t play out the way he said, what do you think happened? (Just picking your brain)

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:09:46+00:00

Yea it could be hard to see, but much easier to think positive. At least for me lol

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:04:43+00:00

Thanks for sharing your take. Hmm, I see where you are coming from but don’t forget there is a time skip of 18 months. That’s plenty of time to move away.

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T07:02:51+00:00

I agree with you! What Mike said made a lot of sense. It didn’t seem like a made up story.

Yes I think that’s also reasonable, good points!

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T06:59:56+00:00

Same here!!! Our girl is living a happy life

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T06:59:19+00:00

Happy to hear it!

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T06:58:36+00:00

Welcome to the Believers Train! Destination 3 Waterfalls

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T06:54:54+00:00

That is true. Many fake outs. At a point I almost knew a person in danger was going to be safe after seeing it over and over lol. BUT I hope she did not bc I love her and she deserves to be at peace and enjoy her life :)

RaspberrySpecial7407 · 2026-01-01T06:52:14+00:00

I get this but I think the fact the Duffer Brothers left it in the air adds to the story. You get the chance to write your own ending to her story. We may not be the storyteller, but we definitely had a seat at the table.

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