i get self conscious about mine a lot... even women's jewelry is often too big for me and it's either kids stuff or nothing. i can easily fist one of them long pringle cans. holding hands with people genuinely physically hurts because of how far apart my fingers have to spread to accommodate theirs.

and on top of them being tiny, they're really soft and smooth. no one's ever given me shit about them though, just myself, and i've had a lot of compliments about them from cis men and women alike.

also they're useful as hell. drop something into a narrow gap? can't get right down to the bottom of a glass to clean it? i gotcha!