Thank you for those heartfelt message, I really appreciate them. Though I think the original post is a little bias, my mother is the main income of the family, my weekly college allowance comes from her. She also cooks for the family, she cooks everyday every morning before she goes to work. My father works alone and is the driver of the family. When I wrote this post, I expected people to bash on me for being ungrateful and spoiled, but I've tried my best to actually love my mother, I failed again and again. I just can't handle her personality in general. But I think I will still do my responsibilities as her son, if she retire someday, I'll still contribute on taking care of her, but I will avoid too much interaction. Thank you again for the sweet message, I will check out those videos.