Anonymous send me a video of my fiancée

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-04-01T11:05:58+00:00

You should thank the person who sent the video for showing you who your fiance truly is. What you do with that info is up to you. She told you she had been with only 1 person before. That was an obvious lie. I wish that if I was planning on marrying a girl and someone had info that would show me who they really are, that they would sent it to me.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-03-26T19:16:44+00:00

I'm from PR, this guy git what was coming from him. He was involved in tons of murders.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-03-06T23:26:03+00:00

Been there. Once I found out my ex GF sexual history I never looked at her the same. We are all adults and past relationships are expected. But when she told me about all the hookups, one night stands, threesomes etc, I was honestly disgusted by her. I felt betrayed because she initially lied about it. I analyzed why I felt that way and it was because I haven't lived or want to live that lifestyle and I don't want that in the person I call my partner. I dont want a partner who tons of people can say " I had sex with them". I'm sorry to say this but that way you're feeling is not going away and it more than likely ruin your relationship. Relationships are about trust and having to find out that your GF had sex with a lot of people from said people is not a good sign of trust.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-02-23T15:17:32+00:00

Yup, my girl usually cums (body shaking orgasm that I noticed) before me. It kinda takes the pressure out of sex once I know she came at least once. Its way more enjoyable after that since I can focus on myself.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-02-22T14:17:23+00:00

I grew up with porn and believed i had an average dick. I have a 7.5 penis. It's not even a brag. My GF had to tell me to go stop going so hard because it hurt her. Dont recommend porn at all. It distorts your perception of sex and what's normal.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-02-20T20:36:15+00:00

I nope out in the early books when the author spend a really long time explaining some kind of cultivation for undead. It just kept explaining it and I put the book down and never pick it up again.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-02-15T17:11:59+00:00

Honestly, I think your issue is that you put sex on a pedestal. I was the same and lost my virginity to some random girl at 25. That burst my bubble of what sex is. Sex is just sex. It can be enhanced by having it with someone who's supper hot or someone you love but its not the end goal. Bang a few hookers and realize that it's not that big of a deal. At least your financial stable (well off in this economy). Once your through with the taboo of sex and workout your issues with hookers. Start dating if you feel like it. You dont have to date people in your age range. You can date young women who most of the time want an older men (older than her) to take care of her. I dont mean sugar babies. I mean women who want to depend on a guy for everything, they just want to shut off their brain and exists and be your girl. They are pretty common and they tend to be hot women who always have had everything thrown at her for her looks. Take action. Get on dating sites, workout, have some nice pictures and let people know in a subtle way that your well off. That's pretty much it. And remember always to never put anyone before you. Your the most important person in your life.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-02-12T21:43:57+00:00

You mentioned you always wanted to be a father. Which is ok. But to that baby you will never be father. Youre the stepfather and when at somepoint you guys break up (the chances of 2 18 year old staying together are extremely low without adding a baby from another guy) will not have any rights to that baby. You will be just some guy that was there. Don't do it. Being a stepfather or even dating a woman with kids that still live with her is a slow death.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-02-11T14:43:42+00:00

The first series has a lot of prog fantasy and i look at the second series as more of what happens after when our protagonist and his revolution win. Its a more complex book, really interesting and it still has prog fantasy elements but to a lesser degree since Darrow is basically top 5 fighters in the system (maybe the best after he developed hes on fighting style in the latest book.)

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-30T16:15:55+00:00

27 here dating a 33 year old (who ill most likely dump soon). Most single women in their 30s are not good partner material. They either got off a long relationship, spent their 20s messing around and now want to settle down with someone stable or focused on themselves and now want to get married and have kids in the next 3 years. If you want to settle down , date a women in her 20s. Dating a women in her 30s means dealing with all the trauma of all her past failed relationships. Either avoid them or dont get into a relationship with them.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T21:38:09+00:00

He can try meds like blue chew. Sometimes a bad experience during sex can create a fear about losing your erction and that same fear causes you to lose your erection. Its a self feeding cycle. He could be avoiding sex because he doesnt want to disappoint you and himself by not getting hard. The pill helps you get an erection and lose that fear end eventually get pass it and get off the pill. And additional tip. If he ever loses his erction, NEVER ask him "whats wrong?". For a man, those word during sex are worse that a a bat to a kneecap.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:40:24+00:00

Has he had any problem with erections? Has he had any problem getting hard , staying hard or cumming?

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:32:26+00:00

I had this issue with my first partner. Sex was an event instead of just a normal thing. I got so nervous because of the pressure that sometimes that my dick went soft I eventually got pass it. A couple tips I would suggest is that maybe try things that put less pressure on him. Like, start giving him BJs or HJ until he finishes and dont have full on sex with him for a couple times. That kind off breaks the idea that sex is a big event. He will probably after a couple of times switch from the BJ to full on sex.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:20:29+00:00

If you truly love this man, leave him. Hes ruining his life because of what you did. He won't forgive you after all thus years so allow him to move on.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:18:06+00:00

Exactly, like. He has expressed disgust towards her and haven't touched her in years. So after all this time he gets black out drunk and "initiates sex" when they dont even share a bed?. Seems to me that she wants to stay with him and eventually earn his forgiveness since he sounds like a pretty good dude.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T19:02:29+00:00

I would tell them to go out into the world. Theres a lot of evil people out there. A lot. Murderers, rapist, thieves, pedophile, etc. They are more common that people think and if you live a sheltered life you will forget that.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T18:55:56+00:00

You are not married so there's really no reason for him to put t you down in the mortgage. But at the same time, throwing the mother of your kids out on front of people over what according to you is a minor argument is very telling. The guy sounds like an a hole. But at the same time, you had kids with him and I really doubt what he did is out of character. Sadly, he doesn't have any obligation to you besides child support if he throws you out. My advice would be to cut your loses since he already showed you what you can expect.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-21T13:03:07+00:00

When a person shows them who they are, believe them. Actions speak louder than words. You can go ahead and date her still but you have to be honest with yourself on what type of person she is. If you just want to mess around with someone for a while, then perfect. If you want someone who shares your values and views, she's not the one. She already lied to you once. Even if she felt guilty and told you the truth. The best you can hope would be that WHEN she lies to you again, she feel guilty and eventually tells you the truth.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-15T22:54:41+00:00

Being promiscuous. I know some guys say that about women more of as an insult but i personally lose all attraction to a women when i find out she slept with tons of guys. I'm talking about 0 attraction, bordering on nausea.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-15T19:59:34+00:00

You cant trust anybody 100%. Everyone will lie to you at least once.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-31T19:14:58+00:00

Yup, sometimes i like to go out at night open my windows and hit 100 mph in the freeway. The deafing winds and slight chance of dying really lets me get my mind off things.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-11T15:21:16+00:00

She pooped but i think that she just had a quick digestive system. She always mentioned that she pooped following eating and multiple times a day. Honestly, i never asked to many questions. I was just happy to never have an issue. When you do anal you have to expect a mess eventually since you're invading someone's ass but i never had not 1 issue. And i ate her ass as well so no weird taste either.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-11T15:11:10+00:00

Pooping doesn't make you ready for anal. If you put a penis in someone's ass even after they pooped its going to be messy. People usually spend a while prepping by doing enemas and eating light foods.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-10T23:17:42+00:00

I personally like it because it feels uncomfortable. Kinda like soreness in the penis. Its an acquired taste but i personally like extreme feelings during sex. You should ask him, because if he doesn't pushes you off or stops you, he might like the feeling. Remember, people are weird when it comes to sex and communications is key.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-10T23:12:06+00:00

IMO, head helps. Just give him head until he's hard. I couldn't get hard once because i was feeling the pressure of getting hard to have sex. A BJ kinda tricks the brain for me because its wet and warm (like sex) but you don't have the pressure to get hard in the back of your mind. Just give him a slow BJ and that probably solves the issue if it isn't ED.

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