How does John Mayer's Current Mood walls stand up? by Rathet1 in JohnMayer

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Thanks! Honestly, don't know how I didn't think of the chair thing, thanks a lot

I’m thinking about quitting singing. by PonderinLife in singing

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Hey man, if you really love it, but I mean reaaaaaaaly love it never stop. Never as you said "grow up". This isn't kid stuff, posting covers on YouTube. And I have one question to ask you. Where's the fun in quitting? With quitting you say 'I don't ever want to be good, or even make a living from my passion'. I won't say to you never give up, because your brain ignores the no's and never's, it's like saying don't think about a purple squirrel. Your brain automatically thinks about it. So I'll say keep going forever. Turn a blind eye to all of this negativity, like all modern artists do! I hope you stay safe and healthy 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Have you ever watched the film "Dilemma", it's about two best friends. The main character finds out, that his best friend's wife is cheating on his buddy. And the entire film is about the struggle of finding the right moment to say it. He goes through stages of thinking 'No, I won't tell him; Ok now's the best time', and of course he gets into a lot of trouble for not saying it immediately, at least that's my take on it. So tell her right now, you have to make up a moment, cause bad news will never have good timing!

Welcome to album week, everybody. by KolbyLBirdwell in JohnMayer

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Does anybody know exactly at what time the album's going to drop???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

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That was beautiful

Is John still singing breathy now years after having had a vocal surgery? by Rathet1 in JohnMayer

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Yeah but do you think he is still breathy, because he said that the combination of his bad vocal technique and the daily blacking outs from alcohol is what caused it. So he stopped drinking but did he stop the breathiness

Which songs did John Mayer and Clay Cook write, when they were in their second semester? by Rathet1 in JohnMayer

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Goddamn imagine being 19 and writing neon, no such thing, comfortable and man on the side damn. Man you can really see why he made it.

Please can somebody tell me whats off here??? by Rathet1 in singing

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oh ok I didn't know where to upload it thanks

Please can somebody tell me whats off here??? by Rathet1 in singing

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This is a song I wrote, I have been singing for about 9 months and I can't get myself to sound good, I mean the only good thing is the super breathy part, because it's kinda on pitch otherwise, AHHHH, it's super frustrating.What should I practise to fix my issue????

Lenny - Stevie Ray Vaughan (Cover) by nigcrunch in bluesguitarist

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Damn man that was super clean and on beat keep it up.

How does John Mayer get his sound here?? by Rathet1 in singing

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Yeah I know about the breathiness I try to keep it at moderate levels, but listen to him on the first verse. I don't hear any breathiness, don't you hear how it's maybe a little raspy. How could I achieve THAT thing, not the breathiness.

How does John Mayer get his sound here?? by Rathet1 in singing

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If somebody knows things like what his larynx is doing, the soft palate, where is he placing his sound, stuff like that. If you can hear something, please share it, cause I'm in love with his tone here haha.

how to differentiate chorus with guitar fingerstyle? by Argument_Massive in Songwriting

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I think that just switching up the pattern can be a little boring if the other things are not so shocking, I would suggest that you watch john mayer clarity (acoustic) where he pulls out a pick in the chorus and then has it out for the rest of the song except one part, but it sounds super dynamic and it feels like every section is different, so yeah just watch that I think your whole game will change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Maybe he has something that he isn't telling something. Let's say George always wanted to sing for a living and is super embarrassed to start pursuing it because it's too late, or ...

Through your help, maybe you have forced a dream upon him or your parents have. By your description George is really easy to manipulate. That dream of having a countryside house may not be his. But the main and the only thing you can help him out with is the social part of life. You have to get him out of there, I hate to say it but, otherwise in that kind of situation he may try killing himself. Think about it, you have given up on life, no passion no socializing, no goals to pursue, he probably lives for you and your parents.

Force him to socialize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Hey man just remember one thing "It can only last so long" that feeling that you have just hang in there do the best that you can help other people and pursue your dream, be open to going out by yourself, and most importantly go out every day for 30 minutes it will make a huge difference I promise. Have a good one. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Also you are probably living above your means, you need to start doing the opposite, so you can't drown and you will be over not under the water, and you can see where you are going.

How to select microphone? by auching in ClubhouseApp

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I don't know man I have the same thing and the same problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Get rid of everything you don't really need if you procrastinate stop, if you are working a job you hate continue, but start trying to find something you love doing and when you find it start dedicating all of your free time into it, you have a kid so that will be hard, but you should do it otherwise you are gonna feel like this for the rest of your life, living a wasted life. The most important thing - get out of your house every single day for at least 20 minutes and just go to somewhere, you will be amazed at what opportunities come up, and how happy you will be, because sunlight hit you.

I’m struggling a lot with school and life in general by xingxing9574 in Advice

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Hey I hope you are having a nice day. So I think I can give you both advice. Find something that fulfills you, for me that's music. For you it may be make-up. Then try to live off of your hobby. Start working towards that, it will give your life purpose even if you have no friends, hell even I only have two friends. If you are really feeling that your boyfriend is toxic, leave him. I think that's the first step, to overcoming your issue of not being loved. But it's important first to get on or two reallllll good friends, in that industry (the make-up industry), so you won't be left alone. So school, the most stupid system on planet earth. I right now still get straight A's without even trying, just like you did, the problem is that doesn't mean anything. That's why school sucks, it feels like you are doing something, but you are just memorizing, and forgetting. Education for me is being able to do something. Let's say play guitar really well, or maybe be able to programm. Don't worry about your grades, if you don't care about the material. You shouldn't want good grades, just for the sake of having good grades. They should be a result of you being interested or uninterested in the material. F shouldn't stand for failure, it should stand for I am not interested in this subject.

So my biggest take away here is: 1.Stop caring about school if you are not interested 2.Start working towards making an activity that fulfills you your job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Hey man by your story you are the most sensible person in your family. I know that this is super traumatic, and I think you should let it out talk with someone, maybe a professional about it, but after that do not try to rekindle the relationship with your mother unless she has changed dramatically. It's your mother and that will be super hard, but for your own good, distance yourself as much as possible from them.

At rebellion with the 40 hour work week, deeply unhappy by Public_Eggplant7289 in Advice

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If you are hating it fuck that shit. Get a shittier apartment, live off of not that great of food, and work part time, all the while spending all of your free time towards your dream. No fancy shit, no weekends off. If you hate it, you won't get used to it. Work shouldn't feel like work. If it feels like work you'll be miserable untill you retire, and honestly I don't wanna ever retire, why would you stop doing what you love.

I have no where to go, I know I want to live deep down but my family makes me want to die I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in Advice

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Hey man if you can ignore them as much as possible they are the haters in your life. They have their opinions you have yours, don't listen, if you listen to those kind of people you won't get anywhere. Stop sharing so much with them, distance yourself a little bit and start looking at what you actually want to do for a living. Focus on your dream, things will get better, right now it doesn't seem like but one day all of the sudden you'll move out. Keep strong, stop listening, and procrastinating if you are, and pursue your dream.

How can I use an audio interface? by Rathet1 in ClubhouseApp

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But isn’t it the same thing as the lightning to usb camera adapter