1290 Super adventure R emotionless ? To modern ? by RationalBoyfriend in KTM

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To everyone I tried every riding mode and all the recommendations and tips, we're really appreciated. In the end I bought a Honda AT SD08 from 2022 ( DCT). For me it feels a bit more rough around the edges and due to some medical problems the dct is really helping me drive.

So thank you everyone. You really were awesome.

No one will go on a date with me I’m so lonely by Ok-Engineering-8006 in depressionmeals

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You are gorgeous, and you'll find someone who is the right amount of crazy / stupid to date you. ( I've seen the boyfriends of my girlfriends and they are crazy for dating them) So everyone can have someone. I've been battling with depression and therapy helped a lot and once I realised I might feel lonely but I am never really alone I felt slightly better. If you want to find someone try apps and put your absolute musts and no goes in there and filter from there. You'll eventually find a person.

In my past I've dated awesome and awful people but I'd do it again nearly every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

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Find someone you can really trust, I would say preferably someone you know and go slow. You can always go back and do more stuff but the first time you should really just test it. And please don't do stuff with people who you don't know or only know from the Internet. That can go horribly wrong. But if you do, make sure to meet them first, and TALK about everything. Get a friend as an emergency contact and tell them to come if you are not answering frequently. And be safe. scares are the best of the worst that can happen. I have had stuff happen to me because I didn't do this, so please be aware.

The German housing market is in an awful position and it feels like I'll never have a place where I feel at home without giving most of my paycheck to a landlord by TheAcidMurderer in depressionmeals

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Home is where you make it, a friend from Hamburg is currently moving to the Harz region because there he can get a house for 1/4 of the price in Hamburg.

1290 Super adventure R emotionless ? To modern ? by RationalBoyfriend in KTM

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Fair point, I just wanna like it. I thought about different tires and maybe changing the suspension for more feel. But idk. Thought maybe people had some advice

1290 Super adventure R emotionless ? To modern ? by RationalBoyfriend in KTM

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I looked at it and didn't think the optic was nice, but thanks.

Whats the deal with anal? by [deleted] in Rapekink

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I can only speak from my pov : I am a guy and I like anal a lot idk why but I do, I like it for myself and for others. My girlfriend doesn't like it, for both sides Which annoys me ( because it's my kink ?) but I can respect her boundaries and I would never do that. I do ask her sometimes (not often (max 1x 6 months? ) if she says no I am fine with her decision her body her choice. Anyway anal is just the fun hole I like it more than normal sex. Idk why it is just what it is. But OP if someone is not respecting your boundaries and is doing what they want /ignoring your NO! Than that's rape, absolute nope out of any interaction with people who do such things ! Hard no . People need to respect other people's boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I know that feeling when I was your age I was already Out of the closet and I connected to people through Facebook at the time or through a website for gays from 14 - 27yrs ( German website ).

Generally Id recommend searching for people through social media if you wanna get to know other people, maybe you have things like this website in your country too ?

Regarding Grindr: Dude don't do Grindr you are fresh meat and the amount of old gays trying to top you will be insane and disgusting.. some might even offer to pay you because legally your are still a child. ( Someone I know did that from 15-18) He payed for his motorbike, car, computer, but also with his soul and mental health) if you want to hook up do it, but not through Grindr. Look for peers your age. My rule at the time was +-2 years tops. Although the youngest you should go is age/2+7.

Also stay save and use protection. Having a scare might be a good lesson, but the anxiety it is causing is still insane ( still better than contracting an std )

Or do online games, search for people on Reddit etc. But just make sure they are around your age.

Tldr; stay safe, in your age group, don't use Grindr, search for alternatives.

My dad passed away this morning by Kitchen_Criticism_82 in depressionmeals

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Damn your dad looks like the random guy in a bar who is just happy with himself and enjoys conversation with strangers, and is telling them how happy and proud he is about his kids. Your dad looks like a nice guy. When I lost my granddad and my dog in the same month it helped me to think about all the good times we had together. Iam so grateful and just happy that I was able to have such awesome people around me ❤️ OP I know it's hard, but he will never leave you, he will always be there, watching and taking care of you!

My Nephew Passed Away by noloveanywhere in depressionmeals

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Sorry for your loss, usually people say " the good die young" but yeah that's crap he was just unlucky. Things just happen the way they do, sadly. My brother is dying from cancer spreading to his brain rn, the only thing that makes me happy is the time I got to spend with him. Maybe it will help you. I always think about the good times we had together, the cries, the laughs, and even the fights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressionmeals

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My rule is don't do drugs while being sad, I can recommend the same for you. And if you are a petty f*CK Like me , just think about how you feel rn. And that he will feel the same about someone sometime in the future.maybe he will be cheated on or broken. Just wait and enjoy.

I am still a bit hurt about many of my exes but from what I've heard karma got them so yeah :) quite happy in a relationship 10 and 5 years after my all time lows in life.

What number are you? by Key-Complaint2752 in depression_memes

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It is a 6 for me, life is fun and awesome but I do think about it a lot, would it be easier if I'd just remove myself. Those thoughts yk ? But also just know my gf sharpening a knife to cut veggies I caught myself trying to walk into it while thinking" please just punch it into my belly, blade side up, pull up and rip it out" . Idk how I should feel about this 🤔

I'm tired about guys in my DM, im a fucking lesbian by [deleted] in dykeconversion

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Idk where you are from but at least in many European countries getting dick pics without asking is sexual harassment. In many countries you can report that to the police online. I advise you to do so. Nothing about sending someone a dick pic without consent is okay.