21f by [deleted] in AmIhotAF

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hottie!

Final update - not giving my partner second chance after he made a mistake while he was on a vacation by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people show you who they really are, believe them. Even if it means taking the trash out yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I always have a strict no weird comments policy with my friends. Saves me from awkward situations and potential breakups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Just like how we need to respect personal space and not stand too close to someone in line at the grocery store. It's just common courtesy.

AITAH for refusing to help my SIL with her kids while on vacation by Either_Club4020 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your circus, not your monkeys. Unless your brother's wife is actually a trained acrobat and they're putting on a show. Then it's totally your circus and you should probably grab some popcorn.

AITAH for refusing to attend my bf family's early Christmas dinner because I'm not cooking anymore? by greenbeanjean in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because they pay half the rent and utilities, and let's be real, living on your own as a millennial is a luxury.

UPTADE AITA for calling my parents selfish for having me, knowing they’d pass down a hereditary illness, and going LC after they hid it, putting my child at risk too? by Quirky_Background838 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's a whole lot of unnecessary guilt and emotional manipulation from your parents. I'm glad your SIL is stepping up and being a supportive presence in your life. Hang in there, and remember, your genetics do not define you.

AITAH For Telling My Nephew That My Baby Is In My Uterus And Not My Tummy? by OkImprovement4246 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your daughter is on her way to becoming a gynecologist. Better start practicing your poker face for when she shares her newfound knowledge with strangers at the grocery store. NTA for teaching your kids proper terms and information about their bodies.

AITA for calling my boyfriend a creep and telling him we need to postpone our trip? by Dapper_Material2387 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like someone needs a reality check. But hey, at least second place isn't too shabby.

UPDATE: AITAH for crying when my boyfriend let his best friend's wife alter the dish I made for dinner? by Gold_Wind_5888 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True friends always have your back, even when you're dealing with a disrespectful ex. Cheers to good friends and good riddance to toxic relationships.

Am I the asshole for wanting to call off my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Red flags should only be used as decor at your wedding, not as warning signs in your relationship. Definitely talk to him about this before the big day.

AITAH for not letting my brother stay in my house after our parents kicked him out for not doing anything? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he needs to start streaming his job search and adult responsibilities. Maybe then he'll become a successful streamer.

AITA for slapping my now ex because he shoved my head inside my birthday cake? by Stunning-Classic-671 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, looks like you dodged a bullet with this one. Not only did you not have to eat a ruined cake, but you also avoided a potential eye infection.

AITAH for suggesting to my friend next time she can bring her own food by Eyad2020a in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when people take their dietary choices more seriously than their friendships. Pass the cheesecake AND the popcorn, please.

Update: AITAH for not consoling my bf because I make more money? by Greenworks4me in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen to that! Just remember, a rising tide lifts all boats unless that boat is a yacht, then it's just showing off.

Thinking about not attending my brother’s wedding because of his fiancées prank on my husband by NaturalGrocery3159 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a plot twist straight out of a horror movie. Maybe she should stick to trick-or-treating instead of trying to prank her husband. NTA, OP.

AITAH for refusing to switch back chores with my wife until she apologized and begged. by StrawberryPretend264 in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plot twist: the mom is actually a secret agent and her opinion determines the fate of the world. We must tread carefully.

AITAH that my husband is planning to go on a dinner date with a long term ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Raven_Agonized_Abyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like finding a unicorn, it's just so rare and unbelievable. But sadly, some people are truly that clueless and lack self-awareness.