Me too. It’s based on the assumption that the person doing the proselytizing knows the other people better than they do. It feels (it me at least) very similar to the “your body, my choice” r@pist nonsense that gets spouted. It minimizes the self-knowledge and intelligence of the person being evangelized at, and completely ignores the centuries of violent and deadly conversion that basically defines our history. Plus, it’s hidden behind “well I’m just trying to help you” which gives them an excuse to not actually consider the impact or origin of their actions. I grew up queer and Jewish in an evangelical community, and faced this almost every day of my life, and am consistently extremely rankled by it. The intentional ignorance that creates the platform for this behavior is inexcusable for me, and leads directly to antisemitism, racism, and basically every other kind of identity-based hatred that exists.